Systemic family constellations in modern world– sources and history of development to the present day
Sources and history of the method system arrangements have two "shoulders"- this is the direction that was developed Bert Hellinger, and the knowledge that he imparts to us Idris Laor.
Bert Hellinger introduced in the early 1980s systemic family constellations to the general public as a psychotherapeutic method of “helping practice”. In fact, Bert Hellinger became the instrument for spreading this method, which became known in almost all countries of the world.
At the beginning of his career, Bert Hellinger was a parish priest, teacher and school director for the Zulus in South Africa. There he became interested in the first, which later became important, approach to life - phenomenology - the selection of what is necessary from all the available diversity, without intention, without fear, without prejudice, relying on what is clear. The second important approach is a systematic one, which implies that:
- The family as a system is more than just the sum of its parts.
- When influencing the family as a whole, every element within it is influenced.
- A change in one part of the system affects the entire system as well as the parts that make it up.
In general, several areas became the predecessors of family system constellations psychological counseling, such as: script analysis by Eric Berne, primary therapy Artur Yanov, family psychotherapy(as opposed to individual), family sculpture by Virginia Satir, psychodrama by Jacob Moreno, metaphors by Milton Erickson, etc.
Through the synthesis of these methods and adding to them the point of “turning to the field for information,” Hellinger discovered Systemic Laws, which he called “Orders of Love.”
Chronologically, the development of constellations according to the Bert Hellinger method consists of 5 stages.
- Until about 1998 - classic ordinal arrangements. Alternates represented the participants family system client, they were located statically in space, then questioned and moved by the therapist until a “good solution” was achieved - the most harmonious state for most substitutes.
- From 1998 to 2001 - Hellinger noticed that if some deputies are given the opportunity to move in space themselves, then they themselves find the most harmonious position, leading to “ good decision" He interpreted this as the movement of the soul of the person represented by the substitute, which senses the direction of harmonious movement.
- Since 2001 - in one of the formations, Bert Hellinger allowed all deputies to move freely, and their general movement showed the development of the client situation at the level of several systems - family and larger (systems of countries and conflicts). The term Spirit Mind appeared - the source of the movement “everything as it is.” We can assume that from this moment on, constellations appeared that Bert Hellinger himself calls spiritual.
- Since 2008 - multi-level arrangements. Deputies represent several roles at the same time, and these roles can also change, flowing into one another. Some roles may remain “one-level” and are recognized by the client as specific figures. Here, several system dynamics of several systems develop simultaneously.
- Since 2009 – so-called “dead” arrangements. “Dead” representatives do not interact with the “living”; resolution is achieved through the client achieving such a state of respect for the dead, which allows him to leave them, to no longer be intertwined with them. The client, staying in " dead kingdom“receives the disintegration of emotionally rich contacts with them. Then he is taken outside this “realm” and the client discovers the experience of continuing life with the memory of the dead, but without intertwining with them.
The essence of the method is that the client’s request/problem is related to a violation of the order in his family system. These disturbances can be identified through the work of group members and restored through therapist interventions.
It is also impossible not to mention some of Hellinger’s students and colleagues, who also contributed to the development of the method and the creation of techniques used in constellations. These are, first of all, Insa Sparrer and Matthias Varga von Kibed.
In the teaching tradition passed on by Idris Laor to his students, this method was originally known as "euphonic performances" until Idris Laor learned about the work of Bert Hellinger.
Idris Laor says that learning about Hellinger's approach has greatly enriched his own research and experience, both theoretically and practically.
He then adapted a number of the procedures used by Hellinger to his own practice.
Another source of knowledge about formations for Idris Laor was Taoist practices, given to him by his grandfather, who brought them from his travels to China, long before the Chinese Revolution. In China, grandfather met the Chinese Master Huang Zhen Hui, the sage, patriarch of Chan and Chen Yen, who initiated him into the secret science of Mi-tsung.
The transmission of his teachings was carried out by word of mouth, in the same way the grandfather passed on all his knowledge to Idris Laor. First of all, the grandfather initiated his grandson into I Chin - one of the oldest Chinese books, which is known in the West as the “Book of Changes”. Chapter 37 of I Chin summarizes all the knowledge of the ancients Chinese sages, relating to family and society, which have not lost their significance today.
Here you can find basic principles, managers family relationships(what Bert Hellinger calls the "Orders of Love"). In addition, there are indications that these principles are projected onto external world. In addition, the importance is emphasized the right words, which allow you to find the best solution to the problem.
In the tradition that Idris Laor passed on to his disciples, the word “spiritual” comes from the Latin “spiritus”, and means, among other things, air or breath. With these two definitions, we can find the deepest meaning of spirituality: the air in which we are all immersed and which connects us all to each other, excluding no one. As for breathing, it is the “movement” of air, and without it there is no life and no possible evolution.
The work of constellations is to include each and every person without excluding anyone, and to allow us to re-introduce the breath, that is, the movement that has been blocked. This is true both in relation to family, social, professional situations and relationships between people, and for bodily illnesses and psychological problems.
Theoretical part
Constellations are a method with which anyone can resolve most of their problems and difficulties.
The method is based on the fact that each of us is part of our own family. Family is simplest example systems. Any system lives according to certain laws; if they are violated, the system suffers, and then each of its members has a problem.
Mediator (leader of arrangements) – This is the person who knows how and according to what laws the system works, how these laws are violated, what happens because of this, and how to correct these violations using the method of systemic constellations.
“We usually believe that everything that happens to us is the result of our actions or our mistakes, or even a consequence of our personal past. But the constellations show us that when we do what we don’t want to do, or when we don’t do what we would like to do, this is often not because of us, but rather is due to the influence of other members of our family system, to the fact that what they have done or neglected.
These may be deceased ancestors we never knew. This is what is called “being intertwined with a member of your system.” It is very difficult to observe such influences directly. However, they may be the reason serious illnesses, such as cancer, mental disorders, depression, as well as accidents, repeated failures and difficulties.
The practice of family systemic constellations is a method that makes visible these influences, these invisible movements, like threads that permeate our lives. We don't see them, but we see and experience the consequences of their impact on our lives. This process is similar to contact with radiation - a person does not feel anything, but becomes seriously ill.”
It is with this introduction that almost every evening of constellations according to the Idris Laor method begins. All the most important, most necessary things are concentrated in two short paragraphs. This text is like icing on the cake, crystallized over the course of for long years work, synthesized by Idris Laor as the most effective and clearly representing the essence of the method of systemic family constellations.
There is also more classic definition concept of "system".
System - (from ancient Greek σύστημα - a whole made up of parts; connection) - a set of elements that are in relationships and connections with each other, which forms a certain integrity, unity. At the same time, the system has important properties, common to all systems:
- Integrity - a system is an abstract entity that has integrity and is defined within its boundaries. System integrity implies that, in some significant respect, the “strength” or “value” of the connections of elements within the system is greater than the strength or value of the connections of system elements with elements of external systems or the environment;
- Synergy, systemic effect - the appearance of properties in a system that are not inherent in the elements of the system; the fundamental irreducibility of the properties of a system to the sum of the properties of its constituent components (non-additivity). The capabilities of the system exceed the sum of the capabilities of its constituent parts; the overall performance or functionality of a system is better than the simple sum of its elements.
What does this mean translated into Russian?
That a system is several elements interconnected, they mutually influence each other, a change in the state of one element causes a change in the state of other elements and the entire system as a whole, and since the system is larger than an element, it affects all elements, i.e. e. can “impose” certain states on elements.
We often do this ourselves in our lives. Each person is also a system consisting of many subsystems and elements. And imagine that tomorrow, for example, you have a very important meeting! A person who is very significant to you, and whom you have not seen for a long time, is flying in for just one day and you should definitely meet him. And suddenly you feel unwell, runny nose, sore throat and all the symptoms of an incipient illness. What are you going to do? WITH high probability take your medications and start taking them to be in shape tomorrow. And yet we all know that all drugs have side effects– aspirin irritates the esophagus and stomach, antibiotics kill beneficial microflora and harm intestinal function, etc. But we sacrifice some to feel better overall. The family system that we are part of does the same thing.
To get acquainted with the Idris Laor method, come to the evening of constellations -
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The main phenomenon on which family constellations are based is the phenomenon of perceptions of the representative. These perceptions are manifested in the representatives that the client chooses to represent himself and a certain number members of your family. We are not going to discuss the reality of this phenomenon based on dogmatic and theoretical criticism, since this phenomenon cannot be questioned by us, it can raise doubts among people who do not have experience in this. We will try to show how modern thinking, based on quantum physics and neuroscience, as well as psychology and field theory, can lead us to understand the manifestations of this phenomenon, which at first glance is incomprehensible, but which has nevertheless been observed thousands of times during family constellation courses. And this will give us the opportunity to fill many gaps in the knowledge of many constellators, although we respect their practical experience and their clinical practice if they are also therapists. We are also aware of the necessary metaphorical nature of our thinking.
Let me briefly remind you of the methodological practice of family constellations. The client presents his problem to a mediator (instructor, therapist or euphonic consultant, for example), who decides which people from the client's family system should be placed (put in a certain place). Of course, it is impossible to arrange all the members of his family system, since there could be several dozen of them, so the constellator places the most important family members associated with the client's problem that he has presented.
From the people present, the client selects representatives, whom he then places in certain places in accordance with your feelings. What happens next is as strange and surprising as it is interesting: Representatives who represent living or deceased members of the client's family system begin to experience sensations, emotions, thoughts, and even impulses to move or speak words that exactly match related and psychological situation person. These representatives know nothing or almost nothing about the lives of these completely strangers whom they represent. I would like to put special emphasis on the fact that the representatives have (or practically have) no information, no details about the people they represent. Despite this, the representative's perceptions surprisingly, but quite habitually, lead the mediator towards a (better) solution to the problem presented by the client, and not only for the benefit of the client, but also for the benefit of all members of his family system who are associated with this problem.
Everything happens as if these people, who are placed in this new representative system, come into contact, into resonance with the client's family system and, despite the space-time distance, they are able to do this.
Biologist Rupert Sheldrake calls this morphic resonance. In the context of constellation work, I refer to this phenomenon as morpho-systemic resonance. Inspired by the German embryologist Hans Driesch, the outstanding scientists Alexander Gurvich (St. Petersburg) and Paul Weiss (Vienna) demonstrated that the classical biological explanation based on genetic transmission, is not enough to explain the evolution of life. And they made up unified theory fields of force, including the existence of other fields, such as gravitational and electromagnetic.
The British biologist at the University of Edinburgh, C. H. Waddington, developed the term "creod" to mean further path development, indicating the direction of the goal. He explains that this purpose is the attractor that allows information and energy to come together, and this in turn causes them to manifest and materialize.
Then it was Rupert Sheldrake's turn to study, develop and expand the idea of the morphogenic field. He suggested that this phenomenon was related to morphic fields, and, starting with biology, extended this idea to many other areas, including social interaction, economics and psychology. But let's return to our family constellation, during which the phenomenon of a representative of the following quality takes place: representatives show exact knowledge in the details of those facts that concern the client’s family, and about which until that time the client himself was in the dark, and the truth of which he becomes convinced later, after talking and discussing the issue with people or relatives. I remind you that we are not dealing with a mediumship session here, and this phenomenon occurs in almost all family constellation courses. We might ask: if there is a family morphic field, a family system that Jungian psychologists might have referred to as the “collective or familial unconscious,” then how does the sensory, emotional and educational information manifested in the people who are representatives in the newly arranged representative system?
From our point of view, only quantum theories and their application to fields can today provide us with several satisfactory answers and hypotheses on this issue. We will return to this in the final part of the article. But before that we need, first of all, to examine another question that requires clarification from the point of view genetic biology, systems psychology and genealogy: what are the various “pieces of information” that are transmitted to the family system?
On biological level- and this is a mystery for any person - transmission takes place through our genes. On psychological level it manifests itself primarily through behavior based on attitude, observation and imitation. We know today that in addition to maternal and paternal genetic contributions, the embryo, through its symbiotic relationship with the mother, from the moment of conception and throughout intrauterine development during pregnancy, is exposed to positive or negative influence Not only psychological state mother, but also her emotional life. And then subsequently these influences are superimposed upon by periods of learning and conditioning.
process of learning and imitation, but also ultimately on development mental abilities, as well as the mystical phenomenon of representative perceptions, which are always associated with “movements” of a bodily, sensory, emotional or intellectual nature. It is information that causes these movements. And this information can have its source only in the presented morpho-systemic family field, which is simultaneously in resonance with both the problem presented by the client and his family system. Mirror neurons reflect or “mirror” this information to the visual center of the brain and connect them instantly (etymologically - “without an intermediary”) with the motor centers of the representative. After this, the arrangement becomes a materialization, a manifestation of both the past evolution and the position of the client’s family system in the present time.
Rupert Sheldrake, after witnessing family constellations and seeing with his own eyes the manifestations of morphic fields in action, expressed his greatest amazement. In a letter to the Institute of the French Academy of Sciences, one of the discoverers of mirror neurons and professor at the University of Parma Department of Neuroscience, Giacomo Risolatti, describes a certain essence of the functioning of mirror neurons. Their fundamental characteristic is that they are activated both when we perform an action ourselves and when we observe an action performed by someone else. They are the mechanism that projects the description of action, localized in the complex of visual areas of the brain, and transmits it to the motor lobes. It is also the mechanism that allows one to understand an action and makes it possible to imitate it later. This means that mirror neurons allow us to see what another person is doing and understand why he is doing it (in other words, understand his intention) before we can repeat the action ourselves. They thus enable us not only to recognize an action, but also to anticipate the next action or, in other words, to recognize intention. Most recent research has demonstrated that this mirror neuron mechanism also becomes active in “empathy,” which can be defined as the ability to feel the same sensation, feeling, or emotion as another person.
Knowing how “mirror neurons” work sheds light not only on the process of learning and imitation, but also ultimately on the development of mental abilities, as well as on the mystical phenomenon of representative perceptions, which are always associated with “movements” that have a bodily, sensory , emotional or intellectual nature. It is information that causes these movements. And this information can only have its source in the presented morpho-systemic family field, which is simultaneously in resonance with both the problem presented by the client and his family system. Mirror neurons reflect or “mirror” this information to the visual center of the brain and connect them instantly (etymologically - “without an intermediary”) with the motor centers of the representative. After this, the arrangement becomes a materialization, a manifestation of both the past evolution and the position of the client’s family system in the present time.
Rupert Sheldrake, after witnessing family constellations and seeing with his own eyes the manifestations of morphic fields in action, expressed his greatest amazement.
In a letter to the Institute of the French Academy of Sciences, one of the discoverers of mirror neurons and professor at the University of Parma Department of Neuroscience, Giacomo Risolatti, describes a certain essence of the functioning of mirror neurons. Their fundamental characteristic is that they are activated both when we perform an action ourselves and when we observe an action performed by someone else. They are the mechanism that projects the description of action, localized in the complex of visual areas of the brain, and transmits it to the motor lobes. It is also the mechanism that allows one to understand an action and makes it possible to imitate it later. This means that mirror neurons allow us to see what another person is doing and understand why he is doing it (in other words, understand his intention) before we can repeat the action ourselves. They thus enable us not only to recognize an action, but also to anticipate the next action or, in other words, to recognize intention. Most recent research has demonstrated that this mirror neuron mechanism also becomes active in “empathy,” which can be defined as the ability to feel the same sensation, feeling, or emotion as another person.
In addition, this mechanism is also sufficient proof of the thesis about the source of sign language. Before Condillac's work, the prevailing view was that the spoken word was born from an animal cry, when in fact it was born from sign language. Through the action of mirror neurons, movements and gestures, which in themselves are archaic messages, become understandable to the observer, without any need for verbal communication. (For over 10 years, I have developed the psychophysical practice of Samadeva Euphony Gestures, which uses these principles). In the context of family constellations, this explains the importance and effectiveness of constellations, permutations and other symbolic movements, the archaic form of communication of which we respect, and which is immediately understandable to the representatives. This also allows us to explain the almost instantaneous transformation of the emotional states of the representatives during the arrangement.
The study of mirror neurons may lead physiologists, psychiatrists and psychotherapists to a deeper understanding of certain serious mental pathologies, such as autism and schizophrenia, an important basis of which - at least for autism - is the lack of empathy associated with a deficiency in the human mirror neuron system. in which the severity of the disease is proportional to the degree of this deficiency. Knowledge of mirror neurons also helps us understand the importance of the mother-child relationship, the quality of which determines the development of the child. In fact, in
The child’s psyche is reflected not only by the mother herself, but also by her own attitude towards parents, ancestors, relatives, and, naturally, towards the child’s father (identification according to Freud).
During family constellations, the following phenomenon occurs: when the mediator asks the client to independently select representatives of members of his family system, he in most cases (unconsciously) selects people who have the same type of problem as the client, despite the fact that he knows nothing about the lives of the representatives he has chosen. Perhaps this phenomenon serves as an example of the mechanism of gestures and emotions of mirror neurons.
Despite the fact that the study of mirror neurons gives us the key to understanding many phenomena that arise during family constellations, there is one more phenomenon, when reflecting on which, the question arises: how, from the point of view of quantum physics, information is transmitted during constellation from mother to child, from client to his representative, or from the client's real family system to the arranged morphic system of representatives?
We all know that Albert Einstein's equation E=mc2 can be translated as "energy is the equivalent of matter." The quantum physics and especially quantum mechanics, developed by Werner Heisenberg ( Nobel Prize, 1932) and then by Paul Dirac together with Erwin Schrödinger (Nobel Prize, 1933), and then later expanded into a theory quantum field Wolfgang Pauli (Nobel Prize, 1945), allows us to understand the equivalence of matter, energy and information from the point of view presented to us today by Thomas Gernitz of the University of Frankfurt.
Equivalence in in this case means that each of the elements “information-energy-matter” can be transformed into one another. Gernitz demonstrated this by combining quantum theory with the theory of gravity, with black holes and cosmology. And then it became possible for us to determine the absolute value of quantum information.
Let us remember that the closer we get to the infinitesimal in the realm of matter, the more that matter tends to disappear, giving way to energy and, ultimately, information. Thus, an atom is mostly empty space with a central nucleus consisting of quarks, which are considered the building blocks of protons and neutrons. This classic concept, but it contradicts quantum reality: the mass of quarks represents only about two percent of total weight protons, while the rest is what we might call the "motion" of quarks!
If we now return to the “matter-energy-information” equation, and consider it from the point of view that information can exist outside the transmitter and receptor, then we can come to the conclusion that quantum information, in addition to everything else, is non- local, in other words, it “permeates the entire cosmos,” that is, it is cosmic in in true sense this word.
This also means that we must imagine that any unit of quantum information (quantum bit) is representative of the entire cosmos. No matter how the moment of this unit of information is defined, it becomes, as a consequence, capable of localization. Thus, if an ordinary bit is represented only as "right" or "left", then a quantum bit is determined by the context "where exactly "right" and "left" are localized", in other words, in environment. Then any quantum system can be characterized as a relative potentiality that includes every possibility. The more information there is, the more manifestations there are.
Thus, we can define matter, from the point of view of black holes and cosmology, as condensed quantum information, like water vapor condensed into a drop. This means that our thoughts—in other words, information—are as real as the neurons in our brains. These neurons are condensed information, and our thoughts are pure unmaterialized information.
IN general outline this means that although each piece of information is everywhere (in space), it is not represented anywhere in particular, in other words, neither here nor now... until it connects with the foundation that will carry it. In the work of family constellations, we create a context - the client, his problem (that is, his intention), and representatives - in which information that has its source in the client's family system can appear in the representatives in the form of their perceptions.
If we now introduce through specific work new information(assuming we need to find a better solution) into the system, this information - and our experience confirms this - will cause changes in the client's family system. Due to its non-localization, this information can manifest itself instantly if an attractor exists. In our case, the attractor is the morpho-systemic field of the client’s family. This is an example of the “EPR” phenomenon (Einstein, Podovsky and Rosen). Indeed, according to the quantum principle of non-localization, information produced in one place is perceived instantly in another place, without requiring the presence of a conductive element between the transmitter and the receptor.
Let me give you an example. A client tells us that after an argument, her son did not speak to her for 10 years. We can imagine the suffering of the mother... and certainly the suffering of the son too, trapped inside his negativity.
During a family constellation, we find a solution to the problem through reunion. The next morning, after returning from our seminar, my mother tells us - and we can imagine her emotional condition, - that when she came home, she found a message from her son on her answering machine! Most psychotherapists, trainers and other consultants know that the EPR phenomenon is not uncommon, and that after a course of observation during which personal or business case client, the solution was already beginning to emerge on its own and there was no need to explain anything to the client. These few reflections do not mean that they are exhaustive or final, and that they come close to explaining this mystical, extraordinary phenomenon that takes place during family constellations. I hope that I have given several directions for further research questions that interest us.
Before making a final conclusion, it should also be noted that the principle of non-locality in quantum physics applies not only to space, but also to time. The quantum system has no internal time, in other words, it is in an ongoing present and has no past or future. This is the same idea that the wisdom masters of the past considered in their spiritual teachings as eternity. She is also perhaps what Carl Gustav Jung called the unconscious, and Sigmund Freud spoke of her as having no concept of time. The reality of information and thought allows us to feel the reality of consciousness and spirit without a material basis, in other words, regardless of the brain and body. Quantum physics, as an advanced branch of science, gives us the opportunity to better understand the immaterial existence of the Spirit and its survival even after it is separated from the physical body. The question arises: due to its informational nature, does this Spirit become non-local and dissolve in the cosmos or does it remain individualized by joining another base or body?
Final part
It is self-evident that the evolution we have considered different approaches, carried out over the past two decades, and based on psychology and especially psycho-neuro-immunology, as well as neuroscience, makes us reject most of the theories of the 20th century, the vast majority of which were born of the “Age of Enlightenment” and based on Cartesianism. And those of us who have been successful in putting these new approaches together know to some extent the "enlightenment" that we're talking about, was something of a candle, and that Cartesian's materialistic thinking was only one possible model and language applied to a limited field of knowledge, thanks to its rational syntax.
Thus, the systemic, genetic, informational and cybernetic models shed light on the scientific knowledge of the past two centuries, which nevertheless served as its basis, and many modern scientists still remain constrained by the framework of these models. And along with them great part modern adults trained by these outdated languages, confuse syntax with semantics. But new era has begun, and those whose minds are still young are themselves joining the new generation.
for reconciliation between Ukraine and Russia
Today I returned from France. I attended the seminar of the Master of System and Euphoria of Gestures Idris Laor - “Movement of the Spirit”. There were about 300 of us - Swedes, French, Belgians, English, Germans. There are 25-30 Russian people and I’m the only one from Ukraine. The attitude of Russians towards the events in our country and towards me, in particular, was generally sympathetic, warm, compassionate, cordial. Despite the lack of information about what is actually happening in Ukraine, people’s hearts intuitively sense where the truth is and where the lies are. Yes, some of them - working in public sectors - were sent to demonstrations in defense of Russians in Crimea, some were only interested in the fall in the ruble exchange rate and the state of their business in connection with this. But there were only a few of them. All were united by the desire for PEACE.
Most of the seminar participants were keenly interested in what was happening in Ukraine and asked Idris Laor questions about it. What does he think about what is happening between Ukraine and Russia? Is it possible, using the arrangement of the movement of the Spirit, to consider large systems, such as Ukraine and Russia. Is it possible to reconcile our countries?
I didn't write down Laor's answers, I absorbed them like living water with every fiber of your soul. Therefore, I cannot vouch for the literalness, but the meaning of what he said sounded like this:
- The events taking place in Crimea today worry not only Ukraine and Russia, they worry Europe, they worry the whole world, because world peace depends on them. Countries, just like families, clans, organizations, are systems, large systems. And like any systems, they are subject to the movement of the Spirit. Constellations, like many other tools and techniques, can and should be used to harmonize systems. But a request for such an arrangement can only come from someone who is deeply affected by what is happening in these systems, who is deeply moved by it.
The main goal my trip to the seminar with Idris Laor was precisely the focus on reconciliation between Ukraine and Russia. The arrangements I made on this topic did not sparkle with optimism. And I raised my hand with hope. I liked how the Master weighed every word and every phrase, with what respect he spoke about the Ukrainian people, how kindly he spoke about all the participants in the situation, with what sensitive attention he looked at me trembling and worried.. I liked that he did not send me away like others ( I won’t name names), to questions of hierarchy and to politicians, supposedly the only ones who have the power to create an arrangement of this magnitude, and they did not mention my desire to understand with the help of arrangements true essence what is happening, spiritual arrogance.
Not without a sense of humor, Idris noted: “This is a disaster for the arranger who agrees to such an arrangement.” I absolutely agree with this and appreciate his courage. He demanded from me some facts, knowledge of history and statistics. In what year was Crimea annexed to Ukraine? How many Russians live there? Crimean Tatars, Ukrainians and other nationalities? If I knew the answer to the first and other questions, then I answered the question about the population on a whim: 40% Russians, 20% Tatars, the rest Ukrainians and other nationalities.
Laor suggested that I choose deputies representing 1) Russians, 2) Crimean Tatars, 3) Ukrainians and other nationalities living in Crimea, 4) Ukrainians throughout Ukraine 5) Ukraine 6) Crimea 7) Russia. Later we added 8) Europe and 9) The Fate of Nations. Unfortunately, my friends, for a reason known to all constellations, I cannot announce to you today everything that is happening in the constellation. Moreover, Idris Laor, having completed the arrangement, did not comment on it. After a while, a disc with her recording will be released.
I would like to wish everyone patience, endurance, humility, courage, hope and faith that we will rise from our knees and everything will be resolved for the best and in the highest possible way. But this takes time.
After the arrangement, until my departure, seminar participants from all over the world kept coming up to me. different countries and continents. With tears in their eyes, love in their hearts, warmth in their voices - smiles, hugs, words, glances - they expressed sympathy, admiration, support, hope and faith in the wonderful future of our country through me to our Ukraine. Let's meet their bright expectations! Low bow to Idris Laor! Sincere gratitude to each participant in this arrangement! Peace to all!!!
P.S. I read Akhmatova’s poems and realized that I never considered the land on which I’ve been walking since birth to be valuable. Forgive me, my land!
Anna Akhmatova
Motherland
And there are no more tearless people in the world,
More arrogant and simpler than us.
1922
We don’t carry them on our chests in our treasured amulet,
We don’t write poems about her sobbingly,
She doesn't wake up our bitter dreams,
Doesn't seem like the promised paradise.
We don’t do it in our souls
Subject of purchase and sale,
Sick, in poverty, speechless on her,
We don't even remember her.
Yes, for us it’s dirt on our galoshes,
Yes, for us it's a crunch in the teeth.
And we grind, and knead, and crumble
Those unmixed ashes.
But we lie down in it and become it,
That's why we call it so freely - ours.
We are pleased to announce that in Ukraine, for the FIRST TIME, training in Systematic and Family constellations according to the method of Idris Laor, from the French University of Samadeva!
The training will take place in the beautiful resort city of Odessa, on the Black Sea coast.
With information support from the Psyche Association, Institute of Integrative Psychology and Constellation Practices.
Idris Laor - doctor by training, teacher, philosopher, esotericist, constellation, energy practitioner, writer, artist, born in 1953. Along with Western medicine, Idris has been studying traditional oriental medicine and healing practices, energy therapy.
While in Afghanistan, he became acquainted with a local ritual called “Night of Unity with the Ancestors,” where he gained knowledge about systemic constellations.
According to Laor himself, he called his work “euphonic representations,” eventually moving to the name “systemic constellations.”
Idris traces his work to the practices of the dervishes, while recognizing big role Bert Hellinger and his followers, in deepening and disseminating knowledge about constellations.
In 2002, Idris Laor founded the Free University Samadeva in France, near Strasbourg. The university's mission is to impart methods of well-being and personal development so that everyone feels good in their lives and in their relationships with others.
Now Samadeva University is developing 9 directions, Systemic and Family Constellations is one of them.
The training will be conducted by leading teachers of the University, Masters international level and specialists of various practices and directions who have been trained in Systemic and Family Constellations personally by Idris Laor.
HOW DO IDRIS LAOR'S ARRANGEMENTS DIFFER FROM B. HELLINGER'S ARRANGEMENTS?
Arrangements according to the Idris Laor method take place in in a certain order, according to the “arrangement protocols” that future arrangers study during training.
There is no room for bewilderment and confusion in these arrangements; the deputies also adhere to certain rules behavior.
To be sure important points a system of tests is provided, many arrangement exercises and rituals are developed, and the theoretical basis is studied in detail.
Great importance and attention is attached to the personality of the arranger; high demands are placed on him.
As Idris says: “In a constellation, 5% is theory and protocols that need to be studied and known exactly, 30% is the skill and practical experience of the constellation, and 65% is the level of “being” of the constellation, his ability to give space to the Client.”
The origin of this constellation teaching program is due to the synthesis of its own sources from the traditions of the Middle East with the most significant modern works in the field of system fields, especially B. Hellinger, I. Sparrer and M.V. von Kibeda.
Also integrated into this program are psychophysical and energy techniques adapted by Idris Laor.
The program consists of 10 modules.
The frequency of modules is once every two to three months.
Other dynamics are possible, as decided by the group.
The duration of one module is 4 days (from Thursday to Sunday, inclusive).
FULL TRAINING PROGRAM:
1. Principles of success
2. Harmonization of family ties
3. Parents - children
4. Achieving your goals
5. Body and illness
6. Couple
7. Problems of choice
8. Time is money success
9. Spirituality
10. Final assessment
The University reserves the right to make changes to the Study Program. These changes are aimed at improving the Program and increasing the effectiveness of the knowledge provided.
Partial list of issues covered during training
Theoretical knowledge:
- What is the system?
- Principles Governing Systems
- Sources underlying systematic work
- Representative perceptions
- Three reasons systemic problems
- Three painful dynamics in family systems
- Three roots of systemic liberation
- Symbiotic disorder
- Interrupted movement towards mother
- Three consciousnesses
- Chronos and Kairos
- Intergenerational causes of disease
- Question of miracle
- Ethics of the arranger
- Constellations and quantum physics
Practical part: Arrangements
- Family of origin
- Adopted children
- Current family and family with children from previous marriages
- Pair
- Arrangements aimed at solution
- Ancestor constellations
- Special arrangements for illness
- Problems with time
- Money problems
- Success
- Inner essence
- Movement of the Spirit and Movement of the Soul
WHO WILL BE RELEVANT AND USEFUL TRAINING:
COACHES, THERAPISTS, PSYCHOLOGISTS
Arrangements are amazingly effective and effective method, allowing you to quickly and environmentally find real reasons problems and difficulties in the client's life. He will become great addition to the tools you already own.
THOSE WHO ARE LOOKING FOR A NEW PROFESSION
Today, the arrangement method is becoming increasingly popular due to its simplicity, environmental friendliness and efficiency. You will receive a new in-demand profession, respect in society, gratitude from clients and growing income from year to year.
HR, MANAGERS, BUSINESS OWNERS
It is important to know the laws by which the system works in order to build a successful and long-term business. Constellations will help you understand the causes of financial difficulties, staff turnover, ineffective management and will easily correct those problems that already exist, helping you reach new level work and efficiency.
TEACHERS, EDUCATORS, SOCIAL WORKERS
You can become a resource for children and those who come to you for help. By understanding the laws of the system, you understand the reason for those difficult situations, problems in your studies, conflicts that you encounter in your work, and you master the tools to resolve them.
PARENTS, FOSTER PARENTS, GUARDIANS
You want your children to grow up happy, successful, healthy. So that they take the best from you and from your family. The system helps each child to occupy his or her own right place and live own life with enormous resources and support from the entire family system. You yourself will learn to live in such a way that your children and grandchildren will never need constellations.
FOR HEALTH WORKERS, KINESEOLOGISTS, OSTEOPATHS
Constellations will become an additional tool for helping your clients, expand your practice and become additional resource at work. They will help you see what is hidden behind chronic diseases, injuries, disorders and allow you to work with the body at a new level of understanding and efficiency.
FOR RECRUITERS OF OTHER SCHOOLS
Arrangements according to the Idris Laor method are distinguished by their environmental friendliness, high efficiency and depth. Much time is devoted to preparing the constellator himself and his level of being. In addition, you will receive simple tools(protocols, exercises, instructions) that will enrich your experience and expand your practice.
THOSE WHO ARE READY TO LIVE HAPPY
During your training, you will do about 6-8 constellations for yourself, learn about the laws by which the world lives, learn to diagnose the true causes of difficulties in your life and get the opportunity to transform them right during training. In 2.5 years, your life can change dramatically.
At the end of the program, having passed all the modules and established assessment criteria (a theory exam and a separate practice exam, several types of constellations under supervision), a certificate from Samadeva University is issued, which allows you to carry out constellation practice according to the Idris Laor method.
LIMITED NUMBER OF SEATS.
Details and registration by phone:
067 907 70 94
063 260 34 37