Small tests on psychology. The Tale of Cinderella

Self-tests

Here are selected tests for non-professional use. Anyone can test themselves using these tests. The results obtained from these tests should not be taken too seriously. However, they are good for expanding the “inner horizon”, developing self-criticism, and a source of ideas for self-improvement. Polish doctors from the Institute national health Together with graphologists and psychologists, a test was developed to determine a person’s susceptibility to certain diseases based on handwriting. Do you tend to plan your time and not be at the mercy of external circumstances? The purpose of this questionnaire is to identify the level of honesty and openness of the subject. Designed for professional psychological diagnostics. The “Honesty” questionnaire goes well with those questionnaires that do not include a lie scale: with low scores: Square, triangle, rectangle, circle, zigzag - hard work, leadership, transition, harmony, creativity. Equal or unequal union. Many of us, self-aware people, are able to assess the degree of our activity and manifest it in accordance with our own potential. At the same time, many people who are endowed with great nature vital activity, but do not implement it and do not even know about its existence. Anankast has powerful force unjustified resistance to circumstances. Instead of adapting to them, he tries at all costs to keep them unchanged. But in life everything changes, much of it is relative or does not matter at all for human existence. Diagnosis of aptitude for artistic professions. Diagnosis of general psychological climate in family. Prudent people love comfort; before doing anything, they will “measure seven times.” Others rush through life headlong: they don’t care! They are able to risk everything, even if the success of the enterprise is not guaranteed. If you are a girl or young woman who sometimes finds it very difficult to understand her feelings for another person ( young man), then let's hope that this test, developed by Professor Kovalev, will to some extent help you understand your feelings. This test will help for self-analysis in determining the nature of the relationship with your spouse. Irritability. How important is sex and things related to it to you and your life? Rate each five years of your life according to the degree of saturation with events that are important to you. Aggressive or peaceful. If the number of points matches your age, then everything is in order. For those who prefer creative activity, it is desirable that psychological age was not ahead of the passport one. Do you have significant creative potential, which presents you with a rich selection of possibilities. If you can actually use your abilities, then the most various forms creativity. Choleric. Sanguine. Phlegmatic person. Melancholic. The level of general communicative tolerance is evidenced by the fact that you cannot or do not want to understand or accept the individuality of other people. The individuality of another is, first of all, what is special about him: given by nature, brought up, learned in his environment. Veiled cruelty in relationships with people, in judgments about them. Open cruelty in relationships with people. Justified negativism in judgments about people. Grumping, that is, the tendency to make unfounded generalizations of negative facts in the field of relationships with partners and in observing social reality. ... Exhibitionism, homosexuality, masochism, sadism, polygamy, perversion, animalism, narcissism, voyeurism. Test for women. Bodily health. Well-being. Relationships with friends are very important. What are they like for you? Some experts argue that you can learn a lot about each of us by our initials. Imbalance. Excitability. Some people find it very difficult to look at themselves from the outside. It seems to many that they are “darlings”, they are pleasant in communication, and it is pleasant for their interlocutors to communicate. In fact, it often happens that we underestimate the feelings of our neighbor, we are rude and insulting without noticing it ourselves. This test (the so-called Leary questionnaire) is very popular among professional psychologists because of its ease of use and information content. Try it for yourself. There are people who are always on the alert - nothing can surprise them, stun them, or baffle them. They are the opposite - people are absent-minded and inattentive, getting lost in the simplest situations. The purpose of this test is to help you understand your inner feelings. The main idea of ​​the test is to find the keyword that will help untangle the tangle pressing problems person. Keyword- this is just the end of the thread that you need to grab in order to unravel the tangle of problems. This test was developed English psychologists. He will help you find out how stingy you are in gifts. Are you kind and attentive to others? Are you able to give your last shirt to someone who needs it most? What is the dominant aspect of the organization in which you work, male or female? To find out, just answer a series of questions. Your dominant strategy psychological protection in communication with partners. Level of neuroticism. Are you the kind of woman who can make men lose their heads? Shyness. Introspection of the manner of laughter. What is your management style: directive, collegial or laissez-faire. If you are a pedestrian, then this test is not for you. IN otherwise It won't hurt you to find out for yourself whether you are a good driver or not. The proposed test, compiled by a French psychologist, is also an exercise that will allow parents to better understand the issues of raising boys and girls. Captain or passenger, leader or follower, leader or subordinate? Test for women. Contact people feel free in any company. They easily meet unfamiliar men. Level of conflict. Sixteen types of functional brain asymmetry. Fun lover or not, hedonist or ascetic? There are eight types of love for a partner: affection, passionate love, formal, romantic, friendly, fatal, perfect love, no love (or very weak). Using this short test, you can determine what type of love you have with you. This test is widely used in America to diagnose entrepreneurial spirit. You can judge a person's personality by wrinkles: joy, shyness, attention to detail, honesty, intelligence, good nature, disappointment, anxiety, aggressiveness, nervousness, surprise, indifference. Self-analysis of character. This table for assessing husbands, candidates for husbands, was proposed by American and Canadian sexologists. A worthy man must score at least 100 positive and no more than 45 negative points. A questionnaire aimed at self-assessment of observation skills. You reliable person? Or is it not always possible to rely on you, are you somewhat, as they say, selfish? The technique is intended exclusively for personal use. It will help you identify people in your environment who are prone to fraud. What is independence? This is the ability to take right moment taking responsibility on oneself, this is determination combined with a sober approach. Can you consider yourself one of the people who are ready to boast of their independence and self-sufficiency? “Whoever looks for a treasure rarely finds it. And whoever doesn’t look for it never finds it.” It is persistent people who clearly see goals and persistently strive for them that achieve some success in life. Is this persistence enough for you? A non-professional test to study the level of motivation for personal wealth. This test is designed to help you understand subtle issue, are you too self-confident person? Using this test, you can test your ideas about the character and behavior inherent in people of different sexes, and your knowledge of social stereotypes. Analysis of drawings that are made during boring meetings or simply because there is nothing to do: different patterns in a notebook, on a piece of paper. This test will help you figure out whether you are really touchy, as you sometimes hear. Or you are tolerance itself. Alarm level. Are you just a pessimist or a sick pessimist? Are you a healthy optimist or are you unbridledly frivolous? What is he like, the father of the family?.. To find out better, the wife must answer 24 questions. A rational prude or a violent libertine. Most people spend about 8 hours a day at work and communicate with their colleagues as much as with their families. Therefore, relationships with colleagues are important element human life. Bad relationship with colleagues can not only damage one’s career and business, but also throw any person off balance for a very long time. This test to assess stress resistance was developed psychologist scientist Medical center Boston University. Attitude towards current job. Possibility of masturbation. Possibility of exhibitionism. Predisposition to deformed relationships with peers. A fighter for truth or an opportunist? Designed for self-testing. Assessing your own entrepreneurial abilities. Sometimes it is difficult for a person to look at himself from the outside. This test is designed to find out how pleasant you are in communication. In countries that have focused on workaholism research, such as Japan, the United States and Canada, semi-structured interviews are used to identify workaholism. One such interview is the questionnaire proposed by B. Killinger. It has long been noted that men and women are often very different in their behavior. Experiments by psychologists have shown that in the presence of other people these differences are doubly manifest. This is explained by the fact that we are accustomed to playing roles, the roles of men and the roles of women. As Shakespeare used to say, “All the world is a stage, and the people in it are actors.” Do you know your role? Are you vigilant and meticulous or dreamy and distracted? Self-analysis of the degree of jealousy. Are you decisive? Answer the test, and probably after that you will be able to answer this question more boldly. Level of ambition and career readiness. Is there some tendency towards manipulation or have engrams become familiar to you on the spectrum of emotional expression. Impulsiveness. Emotional excitability. Affectivity. Reproducibility of unreacted experiences. Excessive hyperthymia usually leads to non-critical manifestation of activity. A person pretends more than he knows, knows how and does, he strives to take on everything, criticize and teach everyone, tries to attract attention to himself at any cost. Excessive energy interferes with clear and logical thinking, which is why hyperthymia often gets carried away. Level of unmotivated anxiety. The test is intended for self-testing. Diagnoses the presence or absence of self-destruction syndrome, that is, a tendency to self-destruction, self-aggression, and self-injury. Tendency to low mood. Tendency to frustration. Tendency to cyclothymia. Tendency to euphoria. Tendency to exaltation. This test was compiled by American doctors. I advise you to answer most sincerely, without prevarication. It is especially important to note that the results of this test are not a definitive “diagnosis”. Maybe you need to change your lifestyle in some way. Sometimes it helps to be a tough leader. Here, however, it is necessary sober assessment characteristics of your leadership style and character. To help you with this self-assessment, American management experts have developed a simple but useful test. It is based on the thesis that every leader has two types of mental resources: D-resources and B-resources. ... The degree of tension in the relationship. Level of respect for your partner's feelings. The ability to give in. The test is intended for self-testing. Do you have a real passion for travel or are you a homebody? The questionnaire is designed to identify a person’s level of anxiety in relation to own mistakes. Indirectly, it also helps to judge the attitude towards the opinions of others, the desire for objectivity, the tendency to self-deception and the use of psychological ones. Are you adamant and, excuse me, stubborn? Does the firmness of your convictions go well with the great subtlety and flexibility of your mind? According to Carl Gustav Jung, there are two options to adapt to the world around you. One of them is expansion: constantly communicate, expand contacts, business connections, take everything that life gives. That's what an extrovert is. Introverts, on the contrary, limit their contacts and withdraw into themselves, as if hiding in a shell. Very insecure, self-confident, or overly self-confident? Questions for my husband. Questions for my wife. Are you a good diplomat? Do you conduct the discussion in an authoritarian, domineering and unceremonious manner? Your behavior does not receive an unambiguous assessment in the team?

This list psychological techniques confirmed by practice. Perhaps some of them resemble manipulation. The same techniques can be used when communicating with you, and he who is forewarned is forearmed.

1. At the beginning of your acquaintance, pay attention to the eye color of one of those present. Let this information not be useful to you (unless, of course, you are going to dedicate poetry to him). But this technique helps to achieve optimal eye contact, demonstrating to your interlocutors your friendliness and self-confidence.

2. People remember best what happened at the beginning and end of the day, and everything that happens in between is perceived as a blur. Therefore, when scheduling an interview, try to be first or last on the list of candidates.

3. The position of the feet of people participating in a conversation can give them away hidden emotions. For example, if you approach two acquaintances and they turn only their bodies towards you, maintaining the position of their feet, they are clearly not inclined towards you. Likewise, the toes of your interlocutor’s shoes or shoes turned away from you indicate that he wants to leave as quickly as possible.

When a group of people laughs, everyone instinctively glances at the one they like the most

4. When a group of people laughs, everyone instinctively glances at the one they like the most. This, by the way, great way calculate office romances.

5. If you want to get an honest answer to a question, but the interlocutor is evasive, pause, as qualified psychotherapists do. Be silent for a while, continuing to look into the eyes of your interlocutor. As a rule, a person becomes embarrassed and tries to fill the pause.

6. If you feel like your boss is getting ready to give you a dressing down at the meeting, sit right next to him. Yours close proximity will reduce his level of aggression, and you can get away with it.

7. If you ask people for small favors, they will start to like you. That's how psychological mechanism: We value more those whom we have taken care of at least once.

If you know that your boss will scold you during a meeting, sit right next to him. Your close proximity will reduce his level of aggression

8. Try to remember the person's name when you first meet and use it in subsequent communications. This will endear him to you.

9. Unobtrusive mirroring of other people's gestures helps to establish trust. The main thing is not to overdo it.

10. When making your way through a crowd, try to look at the gaps between people, and not at them themselves. This forces people to make way for you.

11. An adrenaline-fueled date—like riding a roller coaster, watching a horror movie, or going on an airplane ride together—stimulates the arousal centers in the brain and brings you closer to the object of your desire.

Don't be afraid to ask for favors: we value more those we take care of at least once

12. Try not to start sentences with “I think” and “It seems to me.” This is implied in your speech, but sometimes shows unnecessary uncertainty.

14. For people, their own self-image is important. Try to understand how others see themselves in their own eyes.

15. If your job is customer service, place a mirror behind you. This will make people waiting in line less bored and angry about it.

16. Are you dating someone you want to please? Then demonstrate the joy of meeting him as brightly and emotionally as possible. This will make him enjoy you almost as intensely next time.

Tests

This short test will help identify important character traits.

Take it and learn the most important things about yourself and your life. Take a look at the image below and simply select the triangle. Then read what your choice means.

The accuracy of the test is amazing.


Psychological test in pictures

Test results:

Triangle No. 1:



You are an ambitious person, brave, strong, ready to fight for your ideas and desires.

The most important thing for you in life is the goal you are moving towards. Your desires, your intended goals are what motivates you to live and move forward every day.

If you are focused on completing a task, everything else fades into the background. You are happy with who you are becoming, and you try to convey this fact to the consciousness of others.

Triangle No. 2:



Your friends are your greatest asset.

For you, true strong friendship is the secret perfect life. Friends and loved ones mean a lot to you. If they are in trouble, you will make every effort, spend time and energy to help them.

You are always there when someone is experiencing difficulties in life, and like a life preserver, you help them out of trouble.

You never blame your friends for mistakes they have made or failure to fight for their rights. After all, you will always help them anyway.

IN hard times you are the one who will be the first to lend a helping hand.

Triangle No. 3:



Having self-control is your defining characteristic.

Your mind always prevails over your heart. You are the one who accepts different solutions, because you focus and rely solely on yourself, and every step you take is considered more than once.

You don't do anything rashly without carefully weighing the decision. You are in clear control of your life and do not allow anyone to interfere with it and dictate to you what to do. You try to keep people at a distance. And if someone seeks your favor or friendship, they will be forced to undergo multi-level verification.

Triangle No. 4:



Your main thing dignity - honesty and decency.

You are open, caring and incredibly man of heart and expect the same from those around you.

You are a true motivator for your friends, family and loved ones. It’s simply impossible not to love your openness and sincerity. That is why you are considered an incorrigible optimist and a person who loves this life.

Your ideas and support are highly valued by others.

Triangle No. 5:



You are a perfectionist, driven by the success of others.

You manage to overcome difficulties in life without any effort. You want everything to come out without a hitch and strive for perfection.

Success means everything to you, you work hard to achieve this very success. You must know that you are going towards it in the right direction, taking into account even the most insignificant, meaningless, at first glance, things.

You are an extremely independent and self-sufficient person from whom you can follow an example.

This is how many people are structured, that in some life situations for some reason they say yes, although inner voice just shouts: “no, no!” What are the reasons for this contradiction? How to get rid of it? It’s no secret that often an escaped “yes” carries with it the burden of a variety of obligations that have to be fulfilled to the detriment of one’s personal time and business.

It has long been undeniable that all people are different, and there are as many opinions as there are people. And indeed it is. Each of us has our own opinion, our own worldview, which we form based on the views of others, own experience and information obtained from books and films. Today we present to your attention 3 interesting experiments conducted by psychologists that can change your ideas about reality.

How many plans and ideas were never implemented because the people who came up with them were afraid of failure? How many times have you stopped yourself and instead of taking a step forward, stepped back? Most people are afraid to fail, so they cannot succeed. After all, in order to become successful, you need to start acting, but instead they slow down, because they are afraid of failure.

Tricks of perception: how does our brain deceive us?

The human brain is amazing biological computer. It regulates countless functions in the body and also gives us the ability to perceive and analyze reality. However, sometimes he is able to show us false and even illusory things. In this article we present to your attention the most Interesting Facts about how the brain can mislead us.

How often do we deceive ourselves? Unfortunately, more often than we would like. It is human nature to want more, and it is also human nature to fear change. It’s not for nothing that sayings like “The neighbor’s grass is greener” appeared. Most of us still remain hostage to the conjectures and opinions of other people that have been “drilled” into our heads since childhood. In this article we will talk about the three most popular self-deceptions, and also tell you why the statement we formed is nothing more than a fiction.

If I want a new phone, I won’t imagine myself walking down the street happy with my purchase and having some new phone in my bag. I will imagine a specific model, color, feel it in the palm of my hand, imagine how the volume buttons will feel under my fingers. Surely you have heard about this more than once useful phenomenon, as visualization. But what is it and why use it? Let's think together.

When you have already decided to start a family, had a wedding and think that now everything will be fine, you may encounter problems family relations. After all, a marriage union means not only following your spouse always and everywhere, but also necessarily joint decision problems arising at the everyday level, giving birth and raising children, resolving issues that, in turn, can lead to conflicts.

Many people are looking for an answer to the question “how to find yourself in life?” Of course, I once asked this question too. After all, the very ability to ask questions activates that part of the brain that is invisible to us looking for answers. But what should you do if, when asking the question “How to find yourself in life?”, you receive an unexpected answer, discovering a completely different reality for yourself?

Undoubtedly human feelings and emotions are ours best helper. With their help, we learn about dangers, “acute” moments in communicating with other people, and also experience happiness. But what to do when correct solution escapes our sight, hiding in our fears and strong emotions? Honestly, it’s impossible not to feel anything at all! Today we will talk about what emotions can interfere with thinking objectively in our article.

We all went to school, where we were taught to be polite and cultured, honest and decent. Give way to someone older in public transport, carry an old lady across the road - these and other good deeds were instilled in us from childhood. Every person wants his home to be clean and bright. But the light and purity of the human soul is even more important. Having gone through one school of education, for some reason humanity is divided into two camps. One is good, the other is evil. Some oppress, others suffer, why does this happen?

Majority psychological complexes acquired in childhood, since the child does not know how to filter the information he sees and hears, all the negativity about himself is deposited directly in the subconscious. There are also complexes acquired during life and depend on a person’s reaction to someone else’s opinion. People have various complexes that may concern different areas and cause a person to lack self-confidence and own actions. The manifestation of complexes occurs in different ways, they may not be visible, but depending on growth, they can turn into nervous breakdowns, depression, aggression.

The inability to say “no” can greatly complicate life and relationships with others. Very rarely is such reliability and goodwill perceived positively. More often they begin to think of a person as spineless and characterless, that is, perceived as a “rag.” We usually avoid rejection out of fear. The fear of not being liked by others, of being reprimanded by others, or of becoming an outcast in a company motivates us to say “yes” even when we absolutely don’t want to. The habit of agreeing with everything begins to work against our image, so it is important to learn to object in cases where it is really necessary.

Absolutely every person on the planet has experienced a feeling of fear at least once. This emotion is born with a person. A provocateur can be an imaginary or real danger. At the same time, the body instinctively prepares for resistance. Fear reflexively exerts Negative influence on internal state and can become firmly lodged in your head and thoughts. Is it possible to overcome fear? Let's figure it out.