On the issue of impact on human mind thought by many, both scientists, diplomats, businessmen and psychics, and those who simply wanted to understand others better. Therefore, it is not at all surprising what has happened today a large number of methods by which one can subjugate certain actions and actions of a person. Therefore, today in our article we will tell you how to load people with words.
You must understand that before you begin detailed studies of one or another subordination technique, you first need to familiarize yourself with the fundamentals of NLP, or neurolinguistic programming. This can be done with the help of a variety of books, films, or websites. There is quite a lot of information and it is not difficult to find.
Perception system
To practice submission techniques, first find out what system human perception is characteristic of your interlocutor, that is, it dominates his speech, both verbal and non-verbal.
Today there are three such systems:
- Auditory – a person perceives information to a greater extent through hearing.
- Visual – a person perceives information visually more clearly.
- Kinesthetic – a person primarily perceives information through actions.
By combining all these influence systems, you can easily draw up a plan to control a person.
How to load a person
First, let's determine how to identify a person's dominant system.
- Your attention to the person will help you decide, since in most cases, the person himself will tell you what is a priority for him. Focus your attention on how the person speaks. If he often uses phrases like “listen to me” in his speech, a person perceives surrounding information to a greater extent by the auditory method. If he utters the phrases “look” more often, priority is given to him visual perception. Well, if he uses sentences that, as a rule, denote movement, then for him action is more important. This method is considered the simplest example of how you can determine an individual's dominant perceptual system.
- Now you need to adapt to the interlocutor’s system. Without doing this, you will not understand how to load a person. This is very painstaking and important stage which will require your maximum attention and concentration. Your interlocutor should feel safe and calm, he should understand that he is in absolutely no danger. This way he will be able to express his arguments and thoughts calmly and in his own manner. To establish contact fairly quickly, your interlocutor and you must be on the same plane.
- During your conversation, you must listen to every word the interlocutor says. You must analyze how he speaks, what words, verbs, adjectives or nouns he uses. Based on these parameters, you will determine the person’s dominant perceptual system. After which you can calmly adapt to the person, starting to speak approximately the same way as him.
- Over time, begin to use the same words and expressions, the same intonation in speech, and the same actions that your interlocutor performs. But be sure to make sure that it doesn't look like you're imitating him. If to active actions If you haven’t decided to switch yet, it’s better to practice this at home, trying to duplicate everything that you were able to note in the conversation and behavior of your interlocutor. You can also practice by starting to study the behavior of speakers, or your loved ones.
One of the direct methods of imitation is called the “mirror” method. Using this technique, you will discreetly repeat all his actions after a person, as if he is reflected in a mirror. Moreover, it is not at all necessary to repeat all the actions directly with him. You can repeat everything about 5-10 seconds after your opponent’s actions.
How to Load a Person: Getting to Action
Now, having trained and established contact, and also determined the dominant perception system, you can move on to direct influence. Let's call it preparation. To force or convince a person to do something specific for you, you must take advantage of his intonation, words, manners and actions. But also, with all this, you must create a little pressure by slightly increasing your intonation, as well as the speed of your pronunciation. Use in conversation those words that will later form your instruction or request. It is necessary to place special emphasis on them. As soon as you understand that a person under your influence begins to listen to you and express full readiness for action, you can safely move on to the final stage.
Anchoring
The last stage is called "anchoring". It implies consolidation of your actions.
Consolidation of success occurs, as a rule, with the help of tactile influence. For example, when you are talking about your own request, at the very end of the sentence you can slightly squeeze your opponent’s hand just above the elbow, thus showing your persistence. This gesture will be your special and individual characteristic, with which your interlocutor will then associate your last contact. Another feature of yours can be your gaze. Practice it at home, and then you can use it when you need to emphasize certain action. The next time you meet with your interlocutor, you will perform the same action as when you parted, and the person will remember what you told him.
Now you know how to load a person, and if possible, without swearing and insults, you can get everything you need from your interlocutor.
From this useful article you will learn about how to humiliate a person with clever words
, without using your fists.
It's a sin to offend good man, remember this.
For any humiliation of the innocent you will have to pay with punishment from above.
But there are often cases when you are smeared against the wall, uttering obscene phrases.
Of course, you can answer the offender in kind or hit him in the teeth with all your might.
But this is not exactly a gentle method, my friends.
It is much more difficult to humiliate a person not by putting him down, but by choosing phrases such that they destroy him in a moral sense.
This is what we will do.
Phrases that humiliate a person for insulting his dignity
If your dignity is questioned, it doesn’t matter who You are a man or a woman, try to answer with these phraseological units:
1). Only a moral impotent or a creature degraded by life can insult a woman.
2). You are throwing insults now because you are stubbornly hiding your own inadequacy.
3). My dignity is not at its best, but it is not at its lowest either. And you reveal yourself to be a weak and morally poor person.
4). Your insults sound like a helpless attempt to prove your superiority.
With these phrases you humiliate a person carefully and delicately. By intelligently omitting it, you yourself do not become like an evil offender.
Phrases that morally kill a person for humiliation
I want to warn you right away that they should be used with great caution. The whole point is that you are endowed with the ability to program a person to Negative consequences. His payment for the offense caused to you will be an unfortunate event that will occur in close connection with the verbal “prophecy”.
Not entirely clear?
Now you will understand everything.
Examples of phrases that kill morally and fatally program the offender for “eternal memory”:
5). I won't answer you anything. But then you will understand that you have acquired all the misfortunes from that day.
6). The line to see the oncologist is very long, and you will end up at the end. (Say these words only in case of severe humiliation.)
7). You have to pay for everything in this life. Don’t forget this day, so that later you don’t think about why God punished you.
8). From this moment on, misfortunes will begin in your life. I'm not scaring, but I know about it.
With a little imagination, you can add a lot to the proposed list.
Just don’t go too far and don’t program bad person at worst fatalism.
It is quite possible that you have been humiliated by a rather suspicious and weak person who will begin to fade away after everything that has been said.
Now you know about how to morally humiliate a person with clever phrases.
And don’t forget that you will have to pay for your word just as you will pay for a bad deed.
The material was prepared by me, Edwin Vostryakovsky.
Surely you have already lost the thread of reasoning at the most inopportune moment. According to the author of the training “Development of Personal Efficiency” Alexey Shabanov, you started to get confused for the following reasons...
PRESS PAUSE
The easiest way to knock a person off guard is when he doesn't expect it. A person especially does not expect such a trick at the moment when he himself is preparing to say something. “This moment is easy to catch if you monitor the breathing of your interlocutor,” assures Alexey. Before expressing his thought, a person concentrates, drawing air into his chest. It is during this pause that you should stun him with your remark. The words you interject with can be anything (praise, an expression of disagreement, a loud hiccup), but an inappropriate question (“By the way, can you whistle under your armpit?”) is best. If you try to interrupt the speaker in the middle of a sentence, he will, by inertia, finish his thought and only then pay attention to you.
ALARM
Make a person worry. “Responsible for emotions right hemisphere, for thinking - left. For feelings to overpower the mind and deprive the speaker of the ability to think clearly, it is enough to cause him anxiety,” explains Alexey. To do this, use an inadequate response. For example, an inexperienced speaker will be embarrassed and confused if he notices that instead of nodding to confirm the correctness of his words, the listener protestingly shakes his head from side to side (you should first practice this movement by watching a game of table tennis). It will confuse you even more speaker's absence any reaction from the listener at all. “This technique is ideal for putting subordinates into a stupor,” notes Alexey. Sometimes three minutes in silence is enough, with stone-faced, without blinking and looking somewhere into the distance, listen to the man so that he would get lost, fall silent, hang his head, leave the office and shoot himself in the corridor.
ETERNAL QUESTIONS
Even a well-prepared and knowledgeable person can be confused by asking him the “right” questions. Classic approach- ask more than three questions at once and demand a complete answer (“How much does this installation cost and will it be profitable? And when exactly will it pay off? And, most importantly, is it possible to paint it in Orange color? Or is it better in silver? And which color do you like best?"). At the same time, it is important to pause after your first question, and when the interlocutor is ready to answer it, bring down the rest. You can also try to confuse your thoughts by asking a question that addresses a fictitious problem. Spending intellectual effort on denying obvious nonsense (“What will you do if at this moment our office a meteorite will fall?), a person may lose the thread of reasoning.
At this point we asked Alexey whether the advice he gave works in all seasons or only in winter. And while he was thinking, they doused him with milk and set him on fire, which completely confused our consultant.
Options to be rude, humiliate and insult with clever words.
Very often you can encounter arrogance and lack of patience. It would seem that even in the most safe places you may encounter a boor. In this case, you should not respond to rudeness with your fists. It is enough to put a bad person in his place with words. You don't have to swear for this.
In general, there are a lot of options for how to humiliate a boor using caustic phrases.
Insult ideas:
- Degrade male potency. There are enough options here, you just need to hint at weak potency and connect it with the brain.
- Point out inconsistency. People who earn little react very painfully when people point out their low income.
- Show lack of education. Well, here you can joke about low level education. Show that a person speaks incorrectly and makes mistakes.
Options to offend a person:
- You are spiritually impotent
- You can't even earn enough for matches
- You can't buy your own dinner
You can offend a woman by pointing out flaws in her appearance. There is no need to say that she is ugly. You can hint at this. Hidden subtext is always more humiliating than direct words.
Examples:
- I would offend you, but I think the mirror offends you every day
- It happens that there is no intelligence, but God has not bestowed beauty
- When God created you, apparently he used a heel instead of a rib
You can also hint to a woman that she is not quite correct image life. This will come in handy for her husband’s mistress or homewrecker.
Examples:
- To get involved with someone like you is to embarrass yourself
- You lost your beauty 20 men ago
- You are a disgrace to your parents
- Not a single one standing man won't look in your direction
- Who needs you? Only a lazy man wouldn't hang out with you
- You are a man's footstool
Young and beautiful girls often encounter rudeness and very intrusive advances. Some men don't understand the word "no."
Options:
- Do you want to go to me or to yours? Then let's do it this way: you go to yourself, and I go to mine
- Would you like to see me off? Well, you can join me and go to the skin dispensary
- Do you want to date me? Do you know what to do if you have an epileptic attack?
- Are you ready to go with me to the ends of the world? Well, go, it's free there
- Do you want to meet? You can talk to my boyfriend first
There are many options for besieging a person without using fists and swear words.
Options:
- By chance, were you scared of Babai as a child?
- Oh, apparently you don’t know that it’s better to be friends with me?
- You need to lead a special column that goes to...
- If you don't call me today, then I will call, but not you
- I'm interested in the opinions of those I ask. I didn't ask you
- If you want to be rude, go to the trash bin, talk to the dogs
- You need it to go crazy
- Don't touch my strengths with your shortcomings
If someone beats you up or does it all the time, don’t be upset. Pay the offender back with his coin.
Options:
- When God created men, you were last in line. Out of my mind
- If you were a decent man, your wife would be happy
- No, you are not a woman, but a thing for frequent rental
- You haven't come into existence yet in your mother's womb, so you can't be strong.
If you don’t want to send obscenities, you can simply make sure that the person does not want to communicate with you.
Techniques:
- Say “yeah,” “well, of course.” Don't carry on the conversation
- Try to take the topic into an uninteresting direction for your interlocutor
- More good welcome– talk only about yourself and constantly interrupt your partner
How to respond to rudeness, insults and insults without swearing with clever words?
You can see more about this in the video.
You can answer with quotes famous people. There is no need to humiliate or insult. It is enough to correctly lead a person to what he says is incorrect. Below are quotes from famous people.
Here are a few options to avoid swear words:
Instead of: OH...YET!
We must say: I AM AMAZED!Instead of: THESE P...GIFTS!
We must say: IN THIS CASE THEY ARE WRONG!Instead of: WHAT THE FUCK IS THE DIFFERENCE!
It must be said: THE DIFFERENCE IS NOT PRINCIPAL...Instead of: W...HERE!
We must say: OOPS, A SMALL COLLAPSE HAS OCCURRED...Instead of: FUCK YOU!
We must say: PLEASE DON'T DISTRACT ME!Instead of: FOR...BALI!
You have to say: SORRY, BUT YOU ARE TOO INNOCENT!Instead of: WHAT THE FUCK?!
You have to say: IT SEEMES TO ME THERE IS AN ERROR SOMEWHERE!Instead of: BL...D!
I must say: I AM FULL OF EMOTIONS!Instead of: DIST....ZDYAI!
It must be said: YOUR DEGREE OF RESPONSIBILITY LEAVES MUCH TO BE WISHED FOR THE BEST!
If you know psychology well and have a decent vocabulary, then there will be no need to use fists. Everything can be resolved by conversation.
VIDEO: Be rude without swearing
Now you can beautifully, and most importantly subtly, poke at your opponent in an argument using one of these expressions.
Only aristocrats and people with a fair sense of humor and imagination can insult so beautifully.
So,
How to insult your interlocutor beautifully.
Any similarity between you and a person is purely coincidental!- Are you always this stupid, or is today a special occasion?
- As an outsider, what do you think about the human race?
- I would like to punch you in the teeth, but why should I improve your appearance?
- At least there is one positive thing about your body. It's not as scary as your face!
- The brain isn't everything. But in your case it’s nothing!
- Be careful not to let your brain get into your head!
- I like you. They say I have disgusting taste, but I love you.
- Have your parents ever asked you to run away from home?
- If only I had a face like yours. I would sue my parents!
- Don't be upset. Many people have no talent either!
- No offense, but is it your job to spread ignorance?
- Keep talking, someday you will manage to say something smart!
- Do you still love nature despite what it has done to you?
- I don't think so, maybe you have a brain sprain!
- Fellows like you do not grow on trees, they fluctuate there.
- He has a mechanical mind. This is bad for him; he often forgets to turn his back to the wind.
- His mind is like a steel trap that always slams shut when trying to find an answer!
- You are a man of the earth, it’s bad that it’s not the best part of it.
- He thought - this is something new.
- When it finally gets dark, you'll definitely look better!
- Yes, you are just a wonderful comedian. If it's funny, it's a miracle!
- In the book "Who's Who" you should be searched as What Is This?
- You are living proof that a person can live without a brain!
- It is so short that when it's raining, he is always the last to know about it.
- Yes, you are just a template for an idiot to build.
- Why are you here? I thought the zoo closed for the night!
- How did you get here? Did someone leave the cage open?
- Don’t try to find anything in your head, it’s empty.
- I think you wouldn't want to feel the way you look!
- Hello! I am human! What do you?
- I can't talk to you right now, tell me where will you be in 10 years?
- I don't want you to turn the other cheek, it's just ugly.
- I don't know who you are, but it would be better if you didn't exist, I'm sure everyone will agree with me.
- I don't know what makes you stupid, but it really works.
- I can drive the monkey out of you, but it will cost you a lot!
- I can't remember your name and please don't help me with this!
- I don't even like the people you're trying to copy.
- I know you were born stupid, but why are you relapsing?
- I know that you are self-made. It's good that you admit your guilt!
- I know you are not as stupid as you look. This is impossible!
- I saw people like you, but then I had to pay for the ticket!
- Why are you such a fool today? Although I think this is typical for you.
By using these insults you take responsibility for your words.