Happy child 30.01.2017
Dear readers, today on the blog we will raise a difficult, but very important topic-how to teach a child to be polite? In our time, this topic is especially important. Many children are not taught basic things. And, of course, it all depends on how much time the parents spent and taught the child to be polite, and what example they set themselves. What do parents and loved ones need to do for this, and what, on the contrary, should they refrain from doing?
We will try to find answers to these and other questions in the article. The presenter of the column, Anna Kutyavina, will share her thoughts and ideas about instilling politeness in children. I give her the floor.
Hello, dear readers Irina's blog! We all want our children to grow up successful and adapted to life, to be able to realize themselves and reveal their talents and inclinations. Modern society dictates its own rules: if you want to live, know how to move around. So we try to adapt our precious children to the changing future as much as possible, stuffing them with new knowledge and teaching them some skills with all our might. Classes, sections, clubs - all this is important part the life of a current child from an early age.
Training your mind and body is very important and necessary. But, alas, we increasingly have to deal with emotional difficulties in children. Parents cannot always cope with aggression, anxiety, and disobedience of their sons and daughters. And they, in turn, feel difficulties in communicating with peers and the older generation, do not know how to constructively express their feelings, and generally behave correctly in society. Smart, good, well-trained boys and girls.
You can let the situation take its course, arguing the decision by saying that in our difficult times All these communication skills are not the main thing. It will be necessary to learn on your own. But this is not always the case. And the ability to communicate, build relationships with people, be polite and respectful, according to many experts, should be cultivated primarily in the family.
And now I suggest you talk about politeness. How to teach a child to use polite words? How to have a conversation with children on the topic “ Polite words"? Let's take a closer look.
What is politeness?
First, let's remember what it means to be polite? By definition, politeness is a human character trait that involves having good manners, the ability to communicate tactfully and courteously with others, and being sensitive and respectful. Polite man must have good manners and know the rules of etiquette.
Synonyms for the word “polite” are courteous, attentive, respectful, gallant, respectful, amiable. Antonyms for the word “polite” are harsh, rude, ill-mannered, discourteous.
And we should definitely talk about this with our children. We adults understand the meaning of the word polite, but children may misunderstand its meaning. And it would be good to give examples of antonyms.
It is difficult to expect that polite manners will appear in a child on their own. For their upbringing it is necessary personal example in the family, as well as targeted teaching of polite words. This is the only way we can achieve lasting results.
In addition, it is necessary to constantly support and encourage the desire to be polite in children. After all, there are so many temptations and deviations from the desired norm around! You can hear from all sides rude words, profanity, incorrect address of people to each other. Alas, not even all teachers speak competent speech and good manners. And it can be very difficult to resist universal pressure.
Polite words and thanks. List of words
A “basic” list of polite words to teach your child includes the following words:
Greetings and farewells:
- Hello;
- Hello;
- Good morning or S Good morning;
- Good afternoon;
- Good evening;
- Goodbye;
- Good night.
Words of gratitude:
- Thank you;
- Thank you;
- Grateful.
Words of forgiveness:
- Sorry;
- Sorry;
- Excuse me, please.
Request words:
- Let me;
- Let me;
- We can ask you;
- Please.
Words of support, parting words, invitations, congratulations:
- Bravo;
- Bon Voyage;
- Be healthy;
- Welcome;
- Help yourself;
- Enjoy your meal;
- Nice to meet you;
- Let me introduce myself;
- Only after you;
- Will you be so kind;
- Yes, I can help you;
- Let me help you;
- Congratulations.
Riddle poems about politeness for children
To learn these words with children, special riddle poems have been invented:
Having met a bunny, the hedgehog is a neighbor
He tells him: “...”
(Hello!)
And his neighbor is big-eared
Answers: “Hedgehog, …”
(Hello!)
Don't be too lazy to tell your friends
Smiling...
(Good afternoon!)
Clumsy dog Kostya
The mouse stepped on its tail.
They would quarrel
But he said "..."
(Sorry!)
If you step on your foot
At least by chance, at least a little,
Just say: “I’m sorry”
Or better – “...”
(Sorry!)
Saying goodbye to each other
We'll say...
(Goodbye!)
Wagtail from the shore
Dropped a worm
And fish for a treat
She gurgled: “...”
(Thank you!)
If grandma is in the morning
I gave you a pie
Take it, say “...” -(Thank you!)
Grandma will be happy!
Fat cow Lula
She was eating hay and sneezed.
So as not to sneeze again,
We will tell her: “...”
(Be healthy!)
Kicked out the cuckoo Roma
A strict nanny from home.
To everyone who will pamper,
To the house...
(Welcome!)
If the parrot Gosha
He will give a good concert in the jungle,
Everyone will applaud
They won’t forget to say “…”!
(Bravo!)
Lisa Matryona says:
“Give me the cheese, crow!
The cheese is big, and you are small!
I’ll tell everyone that I didn’t!”
You, Lisa, don't complain,
And say: "..."
(Please!)
Crocodile from the swamp
Didn't go out for the longest time.
Members of the toad council
They gave him a prize for this -
Awarded with a parrot
And they shouted: “...”
(Congratulations!)
If we bake cookies,
For a treat for all my friends,
We will tell them: “Don’t be shy,
To your health..."
(Help yourself!)
Deer at two o'clock
The fox came to visit.
Fawns and deer
They told her: “...”
(Good afternoon!)
Moth at sunset
Flew into the light.
We are, of course, glad to meet you.
Let's tell the guest: "..."
(Good evening!)
Katya baby Ignatka
Put me to bed in bed -
He doesn't want to play anymore
Speaks: "…"
(Good night!)
Girl Rita near the path
The table is set for the dog and cat.
Having arranged the bowls, Rita will tell them
“Eat! Have a nice day..."
(Appetite!)
Children Dasha and Egorka
Pizza cheese is grated.
The mice are asking from the hole:
"Give! Be..."
(So kind).
Politeness lessons in poetry
A bear about five or six years old
Taught how to behave:
- When visiting, bear, you can’t roar.
You can't be rude or arrogant.
We must bow to our acquaintances,
Hats off to them
Don't step on paws
And don't catch fleas with your teeth,
And don't walk on four.
No need to slurp and yawn,
And who yawns to his heart's content,
He should cover it with his paw
A gaping mouth.
Be obedient and be polite
And give way to passers-by
And respect the old.
And grandma bear
In fog and ice
Accompany you home!
So Mishka is five or six years old
Taught how to behave...
Although he seemed polite,
He remained bearish.
He bowed to his neighbors -
Foxes and bears,
I gave up my place to acquaintances,
He took his hat off to them.
And strangers attacked
The whole heel is on the paw.
Sticking my nose where it shouldn't be,
He trampled the grass and crushed the oats.
Belly up
In public on the subway.
And the old people, the old women
Threatened to break a rib.
A bear about five or six years old
They taught us how to behave.
But, apparently, the teachers
Wasted time!
Another good poem about politeness:
We all learned sometime
Walk, draw, talk.
Let's remember, guys,
How to be kind and polite.
Meeting friends and acquaintances,
I look into their eyes with a smile,
Being polite is very easy for me
I'll be the first to say hello.
Someone came up with a beautiful idea -
Thank you for your help,
Common word"Thank you"
We must not forget to speak.
Saying goodbye, we all say goodbye
We always tell each other
“Please” - if desired
Or we want to fulfill the request.
There are so many useful things in the world,
Beautiful and affectionate words.
Please just be polite
After all, this is the basis of the basics.
And it’s very easy to be polite:
Be kind - the usual advice,
It doesn't matter how tall you are
And how old are you?
Discussing the topic of politeness in the form of a conversation
Discuss poems with your children, ask questions, provoke them to think and remember. For the little ones, choose bright and colorful books with poems. After all, poems have rhymes, they are easy to remember, along with the very rules of behavior.
Start a conversation about politeness in a light and relaxed atmosphere. Remember that the child should not immediately understand why and when to say polite words. And to help him are heroes of poems, cartoons, and fairy tales, which will clearly show why one must be polite.
Fun game "Polite Clock"
It's great to play with your child fun game"Polite watch." You can play it with one child or with several. Ask the children to pretend to be a clock. Two hands are arrows, they walk in a circle on an imaginary dial.
Mom (or teacher):
Tick-tock, tick-tock -
The clock goes like this.
Seven in the morning the clock struck,
All the kids were woken up.
Children clap their hands seven times to imitate the striking of a clock: bom-bom.
The morning has come
The sun has risen...
Answer me guys
What should you say when you wake up?
Good morning!
Game continues. The arrows are moving again; The clock is ticking and now shows twelve o'clock in the afternoon.
The day has come, guys;
Good afternoon
The game continues in the same way.
The arrows ticked and walked
And six o'clock struck.
Children clap their hands six times.
The evening has come, guys.
What should you say when you meet?
Good evening.
Well done!
In such a simple and mild form A child, even a preschooler, will quickly remember polite words. But simply repeating these words to a child all the time, forcing him to solve riddles is not the solution. It is very important to clearly explain in what cases certain words are said and to present own example. In families where it is customary to communicate politely with each other, to say “thank you,” “please,” “excuse me,” children usually grow up to be more polite. This is how much the personal example of parents and loved ones gives.
Steps to teaching politeness in children
To teach a child to be polite, experts recommend adhering to the following rules:
Be sure to use polite words yourself in situations where they are needed . It is very important that such behavior and communication become the norm in the family and close circle of the baby;
Show your child how “magic” words work in practice: do not rush to fulfill his requests without saying “please” followed by “thank you”, etc.;
Always be the first to say hello, goodbye and thank you , without waiting for the child to remember about it;
Together with your child, develop personal mandatory rules politeness: @ who needs to be greeted, etc.;
If a child interrupts you or takes you away from an important conversation, give up lectures and moralizing. – they still won’t bring the desired effect. It’s better to teach your child in advance phrases like: “Please forgive me for having to interrupt you.” But also be an example for your child, without interrupting him or herself and without unnecessarily interfering in someone else’s conversation;
Consider the child's age and do not demand from him the impossible;
Praise your child for success V not an easy task politeness training.
In general, as usual, it’s worth starting with yourself. Objectively and impartially evaluate how politely you behave with your loved ones, among friends, with educators and teachers in kindergarten and at school, in transport when it is not very comfortable and your legs are crushed, while driving in a traffic jam. Especially when there is a child nearby. And even if this moment test results are not the best, you can always start improving them. Get a grip on yourself now! After all, a child will certainly copy you in the most unexpected situation and inappropriate place, be sure of that!
Teach your children to be polite, find it yourself the right words and learn useful science with your children. After all, this is an invaluable contribution to their future! And may you always be pleased to watch how your sons and daughters behave. What is not a reason to be proud that you raised polite and good people?
Happiness to you and your children!
Anna Kutyavina, psychologist, author of articles and fairy tales, owner of the Fairytale World website
Hello, dear readers! Today the topic of our conversation is words of politeness. When and how to teach a child to use such important words? What is the best way to introduce children to the concept of politeness, and, most importantly, teach them to use this knowledge in practice?
Let's first figure out what it means to be polite? Based on definitions, politeness is one of the character traits of a person that is responsible for good manners, the ability to communicate courteously with others, be respectful and empathetic. A polite person must know the rules of etiquette and use polite words.
Synonyms for the word “polite” in Russian are courteous, attentive, respectful, respectful, amiable. Antonyms for the word “polite” are harsh, rude, ill-mannered, discourteous.
What are the polite words?
There is a so-called “basic” list of polite words. They are divided into groups:
- Words of greeting and farewell: Hello; Hello; Good morning or Good morning; Good afternoon; Good evening; Good night; Goodbye.
- Words of forgiveness: Excuse me, please; Sorry; I'm sorry.
- Words of gratitude: Thank you; Thank you; Grateful.
- Request words: Please; Allow me, please; Let me please; We can ask you.
- Words of parting words, support, invitations, congratulations: Bon Voyage; Bravo; Be healthy; Welcome; Welcome; Help yourself; Nice to meet you; Enjoy your meal; Only after you; Let me introduce myself; Will you be so kind; Congratulations; Let me help you.
These words can be learned with your child. To simplify the task, special rhymes and songs have been invented. And a little later we will meet them!
How to learn politeness?
You should not expect that good manners will appear in your child on their own. Politeness is not an innate, but an acquired trait. To raise it, a child must constantly have a personal example before his eyes, and it is best for this to happen in the family. In addition, targeted politeness training is also needed. In this way, serious results can be achieved.
But you can’t say that you taught politeness once and that’s for the rest of your life. It is very important to constantly support and encourage the desire to be polite in children. Just so that they don’t stumble, don’t succumb to temptations from the outside. The world is huge and there is enough of everything in it. You regularly hear rude words, people speaking incorrectly to each other, profanity. And being a black sheep among “advanced” peers can be very difficult.
Poems and riddles for remembering polite words
There are special riddle poems for learning words of politeness with children:
***
Clumsy dog Kostya
The mouse stepped on its tail.
They would quarrel
But he said "..."
(Sorry!)
***
Having met a bunny, the hedgehog is a neighbor
He tells him: “...”
(Hello!)
***
And his neighbor is big-eared
Answers: “Hedgehog, …”
(Hello!)
***
Don't be too lazy to tell your friends
Smiling...
(Good afternoon!)
***
If you step on your foot
At least by chance, at least a little,
Just say: “I’m sorry”
Or better – “...”
(Sorry!)
***
Kicked out the cuckoo Roma
A strict nanny from home.
To everyone who will pamper,
To the house...
(Welcome!)
***
Saying goodbye to each other
We'll say...
(Goodbye!)
***
Wagtail from the shore
Dropped a worm
And fish for a treat
She gurgled: “...”
(Thank you!)
***
Lisa Matryona says:
“Give me the cheese, crow!
The cheese is big, and you are small!
I’ll tell everyone that I didn’t!”
You, Lisa, don't complain,
And say: "..."
(Please!)
***
Fat cow Lula
She was eating hay and sneezed.
So as not to sneeze again,
We will tell her: “...”
(Be healthy!)
***
If the parrot Gosha
He will give a good concert in the jungle,
Everyone will applaud
They won’t forget to say “…”!
(Bravo!)
***
If we bake cookies,
For a treat for all my friends,
We will tell them: “Don’t be shy,
To your health..."
(Help yourself!)
***
Moth at sunset
Flew into the light.
We are, of course, glad to meet you.
Let's tell the guest: "..."
(Good evening!)
***
Katya baby Ignatka
Put me to bed in bed -
He doesn't want to play anymore
Speaks: "…"
(Good night!)
***
Deer at two o'clock
The fox came to visit.
Fawns and deer
They told her: “...”
(Good afternoon!)
Samuel Marshak “Lessons in Politeness”:
A bear about five or six years old
Taught how to behave:
- When visiting, bear, you can’t roar.
You can't be rude or arrogant.
We must bow to our acquaintances,
Hats off to them
Don't step on paws
And don't catch fleas with your teeth,
And don't walk on four.
No need to slurp and yawn,
And who yawns to his heart's content,
He should cover it with his paw
A gaping mouth.
Be obedient and be polite
And give way to passers-by
And respect the old.
And grandma bear
In fog and ice
Accompany you home!
So Mishka is five or six years old
Taught how to behave...
Although he seemed polite,
He remained bearish.
He bowed to his neighbors -
Foxes and bears,
I gave up my place to acquaintances,
He took his hat off to them.
And strangers attacked
The whole heel is on the paw.
Sticking my nose where it shouldn't be,
He trampled the grass and crushed the oats.
Belly up
In public on the subway.
And the old people, the old women
Threatened to break a rib.
A bear about five or six years old
They taught us how to behave.
But, apparently, the teachers
Wasted time!
You need to discuss poems with children, ask questions, invite them to think and remember. For kids, you can choose beautiful books with poems. They are simple and easy to remember, especially in game form. Heroes of poems, fairy tales, and cartoons will clearly show why and how to be polite.
It is very important that members of the family in which the child is being raised also communicate politely with each other, using the words “thank you,” “please,” and “sorry.”
Always try to be the first to say hello, thank, and say goodbye, without waiting for the child to remember about it. At the same time, explain to your child the rules of politeness, who needs to be greeted and who not, etc.
Be sure to take into account the child’s age during the learning process and praise him for successes and achievements, even small ones. And don’t forget that your child takes his example from you! Therefore, carefully evaluate how politely you behave with your acquaintances and friends. Maybe something needs to be adjusted? Start with yourself!
Learn with your children politeness, sincerity and finding the right words. This is a huge contribution to the future! And then you will always be pleased to watch the behavior of children.
Songs and cartoons about politeness can be found here:
Happiness to you and your children!
1- Class hour: "Polite words"
Expand your stock of “polite words.”
Bring children to understand the need to observe the rules of politeness.
Cultivate a kind, polite attitude towards each other.
Teacher: Guys, let's talk about words today. These are ordinary, kind, simple and useful words, they are also called magic. In groups, assemble a word from scattered syllables /politeness/
Who guessed what words we will talk about?
That's right, the theme of our class hour is “Polite words”
And they became polite because it is simply impossible to live in the world without them.
Do you guys know what the word “politeness” means?
Until the 16th century, the word “vezha” was widely used in Russian. (The card with the word is attached to the board.) Vezha - from the words “to know”, “to know”. Vezha is a person who knows how to behave in a given situation. Hence “politeness,” which later turned into “politeness.” (Cards with words, politeness, politeness, politeness.) Politeness is a valuable and obligatory quality. Therefore, politeness was taught in schools along with literacy and prayers.
You finish school, choose a profession you like. But first of all, you must become real people: well-mannered, polite,
Don't be shy loudly, boldly
Speak: ...(Thank you)
Teddy Bear played football in the kitchen
And he accidentally broke the dishes.
A dejected man came to the Mother Bear:
...(Forgive) me, mom, I won’t do it again!
Even a block of ice will melt from a warm word THANK YOU.
The old stump will turn green when you hear GOOD DAY.
The boy, polite and developed, says, when meeting, HELLO.
When we are scolded for pranks, we say, SORRY, PLEASE.
In the soul, and not for show,
In the trolleybus you will help
Climb for a disabled person.
Then sitting in class,
Don't be with your friend
Chatter like two magpies.
Will you help mom?
And offer her help
Without asking, that is, on their own.
If you are polite
Then in a conversation with my aunt
And with grandfather and grandmother
You won't kill them.
If you are polite
To the one who is weaker
You will be the protector
Do not shy away from the strong.
For class, you have prepared proverbs and sayings about politeness and kindness. Introduce us to them, let's think about what they are talking about.
I would like to introduce you to other proverbs that need to be compiled.
Game "Make a proverb"
- Connect the parts of the proverbs:
Learn good things - do good deeds
That's how you'll get the name for a kind word.
Life is given and bad things will not come to mind.
How will you live, better than a soft pie.
Speak boldly about a good deed.
Fizminutka
I suggest you relax and guess funny riddles. These riddles are special. If they teach kindness and politeness, then in response they should say in unison: “It’s me, it’s me, it’s all my friends!” Be careful, listen, don’t get distracted, say the right words at the right time, and remain silent when confronted with a harmful riddle.
"Good morning!" will he say firmly?
Who's okay with you?
Bag, books and notebooks
· Which one of you is silent like a fish?
Instead of a kind “thank you”?
· Tell me which one of you, brothers,
Forgets to wash your face?
· Which of you is in a cramped tram?
Gives place to elders?
Who wants to be polite
Doesn't it offend kids?
Our class is our family. I think each of you wants this family to be kind and prosperous, so let’s stand in a circle, hold hands and pass on positive energy to each other. (Completing the task)
No matter how we communicate - with words, through handshakes, we must be kind, polite and give each other joy.
Song "If you are kind"
Natalia Gordeeva
Campaign “Polite words”
Goals:
Expand stock « polite words» .
Make children aware of the need to follow rules politeness.
Nurture goodness polite attitude to each other.
Contribute moral development child's personality.
Tasks:
Introduce the concept « politeness» , show how it manifests itself politeness,
Show the need for use in speech « polite» words;
Foster a culture of communication
Develop respect and a friendly attitude towards people;
Develop cognitive interest, broaden the horizons of children.
Vocabulary work: politeness, kindness, polite words(Hello, goodbye, forgive me, please, excuse me, be kind, be kind, be healthy, Bon Voyage, V bon voyage V good hour, Good morning, thank you, all the best, good night,)
Preliminary work: conversation about politeness, about the meaning polite words; reading works of art; learning physical education lessons.
Equipment: Flowers, sunshine, polite words, soundtrack of the song "Smile".
Hello guys. Despite the fact that it is frosty and windy outside, I would like to wish you warmth and goodness. You are calm and kind, friendly and affectionate. I smiled at you, and you will smile at each other. Wish each other something good in your mind.
WILL YOU BE SO KIND
"Be so kind", "Be so kind" -
These phrases will be very useful to you.
If you say them together with your request,
Then no one can refuse the request.
Guys, have you guessed what we will talk about today? (answers)
Right! Today we will talk about polite words. What is this words? (answers)
These are kind, simple and useful words.
Why do you think this is words became polite words(answers)
Right! Because without polite words You just can’t live in the world.
These words one must not only know, but also be able to pronounce them. Kind word can encourage a person Hard time. When we say these words, then we sincerely wish those we meet goodness and joy. And our heart opens to sincere and good people. And sometimes kind, affectionate word can help lift a person good mood, since these words are not only kind, but also magical. That's why try to use magic spells as often as possible. words, from which one becomes warmer and happier in the soul.
People have always treated kindness in a special way. There is one proverb: Kind the word pleases the cat too. This means that not only do each of us like to be treated with kindness, even animals understand kindness.
And what proverbs and you know sayings about kindness (Children call proverbs that they know about kindness and politeness)
Speak boldly about a good deed.
Life is given for good deeds.
Hello is not complicated, but it wins the heart.
Affectionate word better than a soft pie.
As you live, so will your reputation.
- Well done! You know and Proverbs and sayings. But just remember that good word and politeness – best medicine from anger, rudeness. There are many rules, but the main thing in them is to take care of loved ones, always be friendly to people, and be able to be friends.
In order to become polite Well-mannered, you need to learn a few rules politeness.
The first rule is that it is important to remember the main polite words, which are so necessary in Everyday life. Now I'll see how you know them.
If you step on your foot
At least by chance, at least a little,
Speak right away: "Sorry"
Or better - "Sorry".
Everyone will say goodbye
Leaving, everyone "Goodbye".
It's time for a friend to leave -
We'll tell him "Bye".
If you broke a toy
A friend or suddenly a girlfriend,
You tell them "Sorry"
And offer them yours.
"Welcome" guests,
They say it here and there.
The guests are leaving home
"Bon Voyage!" we wish.
If grandma is in the morning
I gave you a pie
Take it, tell me "Thank you" -
Grandma will be happy!
To ask for something
Need to be polite.
We "Please" let's add -
Everyone will be happy with us.
If you are on a name day
Friend Sasha was invited
He brought a beautiful flower -
We'll tell him "Thank you".
Suddenly someone treated me to candy
Or gave something
"Thank you" speak for it
To you were polite.
Well done! You know the main ones polite words.
Why do you think it is that people know these polite words, but they are not always pronounced (answers)
Certainly. But there is no need to be afraid or embarrassed to say these kind words, polite words. And besides, you need to find the right ones in time words, be able to use them. And this is the second rule that you need to remember.
- Thus, we have come to the third rule. politeness– it is important not only to know these rules politeness, but also try to fulfill them.
A game: "Funny riddles"
These riddles are special. If the riddle itself teaches good and politeness, then in response to it the whole chorus should say: “This is me, this is me, these are all my friends!”
The riddles are quite tricky; when solving them, you also have to be very careful. Guys, listen, don’t get distracted, you’re needed say the words on time, and to a cunning riddle - remain silent.
Which of you, waking up cheerfully,
"Good morning!" will he say firmly?
Which one of you is okay?
Bag, books and notebooks?
Which one of you is silent like a fish?
Instead of a kind “thank you”? -Which one of you, brothers, tell me?
Forgets to wash your face?
Which one of you is in a cramped tram?
Gives place to elders?
Who to be wishes to be polite,
Doesn't it offend kids?
Fizminutka: "Sun"
The sun is sleeping, because the night has come, (Folded palms to the left cheek, to the right cheek.)
Even the wind doesn't make any noise.
Early in the morning the sun rose (They raised their hands up and stretched.)
Sent all its rays. (We swing our arms up.)
Suddenly a breeze blew, (We swing our arms open to the sides.)
The sky is overcast, (Covered their face with their hands.)
And shook the trees. (Swing of the body to the left, to the right.)
The rain pattered on the roofs, (Jumping in place.)
The rain drums on the roofs, (Clap our hands.)
The sun is sinking lower. (Bends forward.)
So it hid behind the clouds, (We squat.)
Not a single ray is visible. (They stood up and hid their hands behind their backs.)
We've finished warming up. (Stretched)
Rested your legs and backs.
A game: « Polite - impolite»
If politely clap twice, impolite – 1 time.
Say good morning...
Push your friend, but don't apologize.
Say hello when you meet.
Interrupt adults during a conversation.
Be able to listen to the teacher...
Don't offend girls.
Be able to maintain silence during classes.
To talk loudly.
Hurting animals...
-Say at lunch: "Bon appetit".
Say as you leave the garden to go home "Goodbye"…
Call it offensive in the words of a friend.
I see that you have learned well polite words. Now you can say these kind words polite and magic words and houses, and in kindergarten, and in the store, and in other places where you go.
Productive activities of children (manual labor) . Making a sun with rays. The music of V. Shainsky “Smile” sounds.
And at the end of our lesson, I suggest you make a sun with magic rays that will delight us and our guests. (children independently glue the rays from in polite words, give little sunshine to guests, and big sunshine to kids)
MBDOU-kindergarten "Rainbow" R. Lysye Gory village, Saratov region
preparatory group "Droplets"
deputy head according to UMR Gordeeva N. G.
Polite words for children.
Lesson notes
Goal: formation of the concept of “politeness” and “polite words” and the ability to use them correctly in life.
Tasks:
reveal to children the essence of the concept of politeness;
promote the development of speech culture
Lesson plan:
Organizing time
Voicing goals and objectives
What is “politeness”?
Games and exercises to simulate various situations
Reflection
Organizing time
Voicing goals and objectives
What is “politeness”?
Guys, please read the word that is written on the board. (WordPOLITENESS) . This is the topic of our lesson today. What is politeness? How do you understand this? Who can be called polite?
Guys, where can I find out information about this word? (V explanatory dictionary)
Politeness - This is a respectful manner of communication.
Tell me, guys, have you ever thought about whether it’s really that important to be polite? Why do you think so? (children's reasoning)
Politeness is part of normal (no matter what is going on around) everyday behavior, part speech etiquette by which a person is judged.
Now, let's play the game “This way - this is wrong.” Want to? But in order to play it you need to carefully look and listen to the story"Ignorant Bear" (dramatization of a fairy tale - the teacher reads the words of the author, and the children read the words of a fox, wolf, mole, bear)
Did you listen to the story carefully? (children's answers)
Read an excerpt from the fairy tale “The Teddy Bear is an Ignorant”:
So he rushed to the house
And the first one climbed into the den -
To an elderly bear
Didn't give way.
Yesterday I disappeared somewhere
Mom is knocked off her feet!
Disheveled, shaggy
Son came home
And he says to his mother:
And I was lying in a hole.
He's just harassing his mother.
Is there enough strength here?
My son went to visit
The owner was bitten
And the neighbors' bear cubs
Pushed from a high branch.
Please tell me guys. Is this how Little Bear behaved or not? Why? Look for answers in the work.
The result of the group work. What do you think Little Bear had to do to behave “like this”? (children's reasoning)
Well done kids, you know what you should have done correctly!
Why did A. Barto write:
"I know from hearsay, and people says,
There are such bears among the guys.” (It’s not only bears who are ill-mannered, but also guys.”
Riddles for children “Polite words”.
Guys, what polite words do you know? What else are they called? (magic words). And who knows why they have such a second name? (children's answers).
Let's see how well you know the magic words. Guess the riddles:
Having met a bunny, the hedgehog is a neighbor
He tells him: “...”
( Hello!)
And his neighbor is big-eared
Answers: “Hedgehog,...”
( Hello!)
To the Octopus Flounder
On Monday I swam
And on Tuesday goodbye
She told her: “...”
( Goodbye!)
Clumsy dog Kostya
The mouse stepped on its tail.
They would quarrel
But he said "..."
( Sorry!)
Wagtail from the shore
Dropped a worm
And fish for a treat
She gurgled: “...”
( Thank you!)
Sang wonderfully among the branches
And to him throughout the oak grove
The sparrows shouted: "..."
( Bravo!)
Fat cow Lula
She was eating hay and sneezed.
So as not to sneeze again,
We will tell her: “...”
( Be healthy!)
Fox Matryona says:
“Give me the cheese, crow!
The cheese is big, and you are small!
I’ll tell everyone that I didn’t!”
You, Lisa, don't complain,
And say: "..."
( Please!)
Hippopotamus and Elephant, believe me,
They won't fit through the door together.
The one who is more polite now
He will say: “Only...”
( After you!)
Mukha Zhu, although she didn’t want to,
Flew into a fast train.
She wants bugs Flo and Fti
They will say: "..."
( Bon Voyage!)
Tsar Gundei gave it to Ivan
Five nails for salvation
And Ivanushka to the Tsar
Speaks: "…"
( Thank you)
Kicked out the cuckoo Roma
A strict nanny from home.
To everyone who will pamper,
To the house...
( Welcome!)
Mom and dad are sitting
Eat cake with sweets.
The polite daughter will say:
“Allow me...”
( can I help you!)
Crocodile from the swamp
Didn't go out for the longest time.
Members of the toad council
They gave him a prize for this -
Awarded with a parrot
And they shouted: “...”
( Congratulations!)
The bull mowed down the daisies
And he invited the ram.
He alone ate the treat,
But he said: "..."
( Sorry!)
Discovered at dawn
That the dew got caught in the net,
Spider Shudra-Vudra
She told her: “...”
( Good morning!)
Deer at two o'clock
The fox came to visit.
Fawns and deer
They told her: “...”
( Good afternoon)
Moth at sunset
Flew into the light.
We are, of course, glad to meet you.
Let's tell the guest: "..."
( Good evening!)
Katya baby Ignatka
Put me to bed in bed -
He doesn't want to play anymore
Speaks: "…"
( Good night!)
Children Dasha and Egorka
Pizza cheese is grated.
The mice are asking from the hole:
"Give! Be..."
( so kind!)
The monkeys saw
An elephant eats bananas under a palm tree
And they shout to him:
"Tasty? At least give me a hint!”
The elephant is polite, no doubt about it
He will tell them: “...”
( Help yourself!)
Met a wild boar in the forest
An unfamiliar fox.
Says to the beauty:
“Allow me...
( introduce yourself!)
I'm a boar! The name is Oink-Oink!
I really love acorns!”
The stranger will answer
"Nice …"
( познакомиться!)
Girl Rita near the path
The table is set for the dog and cat.
Having arranged the bowls, Rita will tell them
“Eat! Have a nice day..."
( appetite!)
Reflection
Our lesson has come to an end. Did you like it? What exactly do you remember? What, on the contrary, did you not like or remember?
What new did you learn today? (what is politeness and what are polite words) Do you consider politeness necessary in our lives? Where might you need it? (children's answers)
Guys, remember: use polite words yourself, force your loved ones and friends to become automatic.