Encyclopedia "Human Vices: Rude
Rough means unprocessed, unworn, not fitted to a certain standard. If so, then any manifestation of talent and other human qualities that inevitably goes beyond the ordinary should be considered rude. After all, everything outstanding involuntarily humiliates mediocrity and neglects its custom. Isn’t any manifestation of original, bright, original ability an insult to ordinary nature? A rude person involuntarily embarrasses those around him. He does not seek to harm them, does not want to humiliate or insult them. Rudeness is by no means identical to arrogance or cruelty, although it often leads to unceremonious and hurtful actions. A rude person does not strive for evil, although he often causes it. A rude person simply remains himself, he acts in accordance with the properties of his personality, he does not know how to take into account either the characteristics of people or real circumstances. The only drawback of a rude person is this simplicity: the naive, uncouth confidence that there is no one else in the world except him; or at least no one and nothing worth conforming to. Rudeness, therefore, is a manifestation of a kind of mental myopia. It contains an indifferent attitude that does not distinguish one from the other, unable to take into account the uniqueness of reality. However, this same feature of rudeness also reveals the rude man’s peculiar charm. A rude person is spontaneity itself (although often burdensome). He doesn't know how to be an opportunist. In our world of people skilled in the use of masks, the artlessness of the brute makes a strange but advantageous impression. He who is rude is careless. Or maybe brave. After all, every person approaches life with understandable caution and even apprehension. Only a rude person does not notice the difficult temper of the surrounding reality and completely ignores it. An uncontrollable grasp of his own nature, in which he finds himself captive, is the main thing that distinguishes a rude person. Moreover, as follows from this definition, a true rude person can also be someone who has not uttered a single swear word. The inability of a rude person to resort to artificial means of self-affirmation, which have long become commonplace for the vast majority, can touch the most indifferent. A rude person hates to overstep himself, resort to cunning and hypocrisy. He is embarrassed to “pretend”; he is organically incapable of expressing what is not natural to him. The remarkable and, for many, surprising combination of rudeness and shyness is by no means accidental, but, as we see, constitutes a pattern in the life of a rude person. After all, a rude person is someone who “doesn’t know how to behave,” who can only be himself, and not observe the established order and follow generally accepted manners. Feeling this ineptitude of his, the rude man is naturally embarrassed; and then, in order not to seem funny, he becomes harsh. The most desperate outbursts of rudeness arise precisely from the feeling of awkwardness of one’s own behavior and the mental confusion that arises from this. Many features of the behavior of a rude person follow from the above characteristics of rudeness. Thus, a rude person is intolerant of falsehood and hypocrisy. He has an extremely peculiar attitude towards “good”. He believes that everything good, heartfelt, and tender is not spoken about, because the word is public, and everything that is best in a person is deeply intimate. Everything worthy is within us, and there, not brought to light, not disturbed by words, hidden, it must remain. One can only talk about everyday, everyday, external things, but tenderness should be kept in the soul, the rude man believes. Undoubtedly, a rude nature has a somewhat very romantic vision of the world! Rude people often make wonderful friends. A polite, helpful person has an obvious advantage over a rude one. And yet: whomever God wants to deprive of friends, he endows with ineradicable politeness. Most of all, a polite person is afraid of disturbing and hurting another, which is why he is rarely completely sincere. He subordinates his behavior to the requirements of good manners, and not to his own motives and impulses. As a result, friendly relations are deprived of spontaneity and the sincerity and dedication so necessary in friendship. On the contrary, a rude person is more likely to destroy friendly relations themselves than to change the idea of friendship, which is based on selfless and selfless concern for another. A rude friend looks out for the best in us more faithfully than we do ourselves. Having accepted our “I” in a friendly manner, he defends it selflessly and stubbornly in front of the whole world - even in front of our attempts to change ourselves. That is why a rude person is very valuable in friendship. Take rude people as friends! You can't give in to rudeness, but you can tolerate it. Condescend in a very simple way: without paying attention to her, without noticing her blatant unceremoniousness. Take into account only the pure content of what the rude nature offers, ignoring the offensive form. A rude person tends to be demonstrative. Your restrained behavior will discourage him and, deprived of the counteraction necessary for the increase of rudeness, he will wilt. The calm independence of another person tames the brute best. The unpleasant side of rudeness is expressed in the fact that a natural rude person always feels superior to those around him. From this feeling comes contempt for everything that catches your eye. Whoever once submitted to rudeness fell under a relationship of superiority and subordination. Then rude inclinations dictate their influence more and more uncontrollably, as a result of which the actions of a rude person oppress and destroy the dignity of the individual. From this inevitably arises a desperate protest of a living being who wants to preserve himself. Brought to the limit of tension, relationships break down with scandal, grief, often ending in tragedy. In short, unbridled rudeness leads to disaster. And therefore, treat the rude person tolerantly, with restraint - but adamantly. Do not give in to him, and do not respond harshly, accept his rudeness as nonsense, as an absurd act of an insane creature. Believe me, the rude person himself will be grateful to you for such a tender attitude, and will respond to it with rude, somewhat unceremonious, but sincere devotion.
Source: Encyclopedia of Vices
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The way a person treats his boss says nothing about him. But the way he behaves with the waiter is a magical window into his soul.
Why is it important?
The Waiter Rule suggests that how we treat waitstaff can reveal a lot about our personality. Most CEOs of famous companies agree with this. When a candidate is interviewed for a leadership position, he is necessarily tested on how he will treat his assistant. Rudeness and demandingness in such cases is proof that such a person cannot be on the team of players.
Moreover, psychologists advise paying attention to how a person treats the waiter when choosing his future life partner. In light of the above, I would like to know how a person's behavior towards service personnel reveals his personality. To determine this, let's analyze some common behavior patterns.
A friendly person who always says “thank you”
We all know such people. They are always friendly. They greet the waiters and always address them by name. And they say “thank you” - sometimes too much. This is the type of person who sees everyone as equal.
Such people recognize that having a high-paying job does not make you superior, nor does it give you the right to treat people poorly. They treat all people with compassion and empathy, regardless of whether they know each other closely or not. 
Such people recognize that every person has his own story. A waiter or waitress may be the family's sole breadwinner, and he or she may be working two jobs. Perhaps they are paying for their education. Regardless of the situation, this type of person realizes that we are all equal. Such people always remain kind.
This attitude indicates that this person is capable of working well in a team. He loves to see people happy and is never prejudiced towards them. This is a truly good person.
Rude man
Most likely, in restaurants you have more than once seen people who are rude to waiters? Have you noticed men or women who talk to the waiter in a condescending manner? Maybe they were just having a bad day (although that doesn't give them the right to treat others badly)... Maybe this is an isolated incident. 
However, for some people this is a common occurrence. Often they don't even realize that they are being rude. They address the waiter in a condescending manner. They snap their fingers to get their attention. For such people, waiters and waitresses are invisible. Whether this attitude is intentional or not, they treat the service staff as lower class because of their job.
Because these people pay waiters, they think that waiters should satisfy their needs, whether they are justified or not.
People who exhibit this behavior are demanding individuals. They may think that they are better than other people. They may feel superior to others. Such people are selfish, they crave control and power.
Most likely, they have what is known as a situational value system. This means that they change their behavior depending on the perceived status of the person they are interacting with. 
But in addition to people who are friendly with waiters and those who are rude to them, there are also those who prefer minimal interaction with them.
People who prefer minimal contact
Some people prefer not to have long conversations with the waiter or waitress. This doesn't mean they are rude. It just might mean that today is not their best day and therefore they are not in the mood to talk to anyone. Each of us has those days when we don’t want to let anyone into our personal space.
It is also quite possible that such people will turn out to be introverts. They prefer everyone to focus on their work. They can use the same strategy in their workplace. Introverts can be goal-oriented and focused on getting things done efficiently and quickly.
But while some people prefer to be quiet, others like to have long conversations with everyone around them.
People who love to talk
We all have friends who like to ask a lot of questions. And their interactions with waiters are no exception. 
This can happen due to a number of reasons. Of course, there is a possibility that your friend enjoys annoying the waiter. But it's much more likely that this person is actually curious and would like to know as much information as possible when they are a customer and paying for something.
In addition, the person may be an extrovert. In this case, he actually enjoys meeting new people and getting to know them as well as possible.
Such people are confident that they know exactly what they want and are not afraid to express their opinions. And they're not afraid to ask questions to make sure they're getting exactly what they want.
Moral of the story
The behavior pattern we use when interacting with waiters can reveal a lot about our personality. While some of the traits identified are fairly harmless, as is the case with introverts and extroverts, there are others that make the waiter feel bad. Therefore, it is very important to monitor your behavior. All people are equal, no matter what their status at work.
If you imagine that you are stuck on an island with a wildly hysterical dude who yells at you for no reason and always demands something, then you probably would have punched him in the face a long time ago to calm him down. The method is certainly not bad, but this guy will definitely not calm down after your pill. Put aside violence, let's think correctly. You need to stop this guy from wanting to be rude to you. It's not difficult if you know a few rules:
1. Remember, sometimes you can be rude too.
Maybe not this time, but we appreciate that there was definitely a case when you were wrong and were rude to your interlocutor. And that doesn't mean you're a bad person. So the next time someone treats you rudely, remember that they are just like you. He just lost his temper and that doesn't mean he's a bad person now.
2. Don't take it personally (even if it's personal)
When someone is rude and especially if he gets personal, it hurts you. But you have a choice, you can decide for yourself how to react to such comments. Just understand for yourself that the personal insults that he throws out at you are, in fact, his problems. He feels bad and is trying to rehabilitate himself through your failures.
3. Find out why
People have their own reasons for being rude. Perhaps he was having a bad day. He may not even realize how rude he was being. Why guess? You will never know the exact reason until you ask him yourself. Just calmly ask, “I think that’s pretty rude. Why are you talking to me like that? "The answer may surprise you.
4. Be objective and analytical.
Think about why this person behaved this way? Was there any point in this? What was the reason? Well, well, you strained your brains, there is no good reason for such hysterics. Now you can ignore him with a satisfied smile. In those rare cases when logic is present, it is easy to destroy the root of the problem.
5. Don't become a part of a theatrical production.
You can’t control yourself anymore and you feel like you’re about to fall on this ghoul. No need. If you join in this drama, it will only escalate the situation. If you are dealing with a drama king/queen who created this altercation on purpose, then behave with dignity. Don't let rude behavior provoke you.
6. Just go away
The rudeness is limitless, but if you find the strength within yourself and just get away from the epicenter of hysterical screams, then we will shake your hand. This is the fastest and most reliable way to avoid more rude behavior and a scandal. Walk away even if he is still saying things to you. Moreover, if it is a stranger, you will never deal with him again. If this is a friend or colleague, then he will soon understand that you should not speak rudely to you. In any case, the person will understand that he behaved incorrectly.
7. Offer help
Well, yes, most often rudeness is the result of bad manners. It's just that sometimes a person who is rude does it because he is disappointed with something. If you are able to help a person solve his problem, then offer your help. And soon, instead of meaningless squabbling, music of gratitude will begin to flow from his lips.
8. Sometimes rudeness is a habit
Some people behave simply because it is natural behavior for them. Once rudeness becomes a habit, it is difficult to get rid of it. Such a person does not learn anything. This kind of rudeness should not be taken to heart. It's just a pattern that's hard to break.
9. Don't try to change a person
You can't force him to be polite if he wants to be rude. In fact, he will behave even worse after such conversations. Sometimes the best option is to prove that the reasons for his rudeness are not your fault. Now let him somehow solve this problem himself. This doesn't concern you anymore.
10. Rudeness versus kindness
Don't let rudeness take over your territory. The best way to get rid of rude behavior is to remain friendly, thereby giving the other person a chance to calm down. Soon his behavior will be the same as yours.
The main thing is that you don’t get mad while you’re trying to calm this guy down. He has every chance of infecting you with hysterics. But try to control yourself, remember that you are above this pathetic behavior. Real men remain calm under almost any circumstances.