How people manage to realize their dreams. The best quotes on how to make your dreams come true

Do you dream of winning a Nobel Prize, flying into space or buying a house on the islands? Thought is material, you just need to want it very much, esotericists believe. According to rationalists, in order for dreams to come true, it is necessary to act. Combining various techniques for achieving what you want, we offer an algorithm for realizing your dreams in 12 steps.

1. Be clear about what you want.

You need to understand what you really want. Perhaps, while dreaming of a sports car, deep down you just want to please women. Desires should come from you, and not be imposed by parents or advertising. Think about what you will do if tomorrow you win a million dollars in the lottery or find out that you have six months to live? What would you wish for a genie if you had just one wish? Answer quickly, in 1-2 minutes, and then your subconscious mind will highlight the main thing itself.

2. Write it down

Write down in detail all the characteristics and qualities that your dream should have. Thus, fantasies take on specific forms and become more real to your own subconscious, that is, the dream turns into. Writing a goal deepens your belief in your own capabilities and turns on the mechanism.

3. Find and neutralize the internal enemy

If you want to become a millionaire, but are afraid that wealth will not bring you happiness in your personal life, then your dream is unlikely to come true because you yourself are blocking it. Write down all the doubts that come to you: “Why can’t I have a house in the Canaries (can’t be a TV presenter, etc.)?”, “I’m afraid that if I have my own business (get married, etc.), That…". Bring out hidden fears, find internal prohibitions. Analyze what stands in your way - guilt, fear of disappointment, self-pity, the desire to avoid responsibility.

4. Think positively. Cast aside your doubts

Once you find the negative beliefs that are blocking your dreams, transform them into positive ones. Use affirmative sentences when describing your future accomplishments. Repeat out loud or write down on paper: “I am talented and will write a book,” “My wife will support all my endeavors.” Think in a positive way: drop the “NOT” particle.

You must firmly believe that your dream will come true. Wait, don't hope. Doubts and anxiety take away the strength you need to overcome your own inertia and external obstacles. Absolute faith in the achievability of a goal, on the contrary, activates hidden abilities and inner potential. By thinking positively - I deserve this, I can do this, I will get this - you will set yourself up for success.

5. What's at the start?

Determine your starting position. If you dream of a prince on a white horse, take a sober look at yourself in the mirror. If you are thinking about your own business, evaluate your education, start-up capital, and research the market. Assess how your current situation matches what you are striving for. This will be the starting point.

6. What separates you from your dream?

If you are waiting, it's time to understand what you need to become a princess with whom a blue-blooded person can fall in love. Make a list of all the obstacles standing between you and your dream. They can be both external and internal. Honestly ask yourself: “What should I change in myself, what should I learn to achieve my dreams? What conditions are necessary for the materialization of desire?

7. Find helpers

Announce your plans loudly. Identify a circle of people who can help you or will be useful. Communicate with those who have already achieved what you dream of, or know how to do it.

8. Set deadlines

Set a deadline for achieving the goal. Thus, you program its achievement in your mind and turn on the mechanism of intensifying efforts. If your dream does not meet the deadline, install a new one - it means that you simply made an overly optimistic forecast. It is more realistic to earn a million dollars in 10 years than in 1 month. It is useful to break a long-term goal into several short-term subgoals.

9. Make a plan

Now that you have completed all the previous steps, you have a clear idea of what you want, what obstacles you have to overcome and who can help you. Now you need to make a detailed plan to achieve your goal. Write down a list of all your activities in order of priority and chronology.

10. "Back to the Future"

Many new wave psychologists and esotericists talk about the creative power of visualization. Now that you know what characteristics the desired thing should have (money, relationships, qualities, position, etc.), imagine that it is already in your life. Imagine in the most detailed detail the furnishings of your dream home, right down to the upholstery of the sofa and the rug in the bathroom, walk through the rooms. Imagine communicating with your loved one, how you prepare dinner together or talk until the morning.

Play your imaginary “movie” over and over again. In this way, you increase the power of your thinking and begin to attract the people, ideas and opportunities you need to achieve your goals. It’s as if you are attracting your dream.

11. Don't give up

Achieving big goals can take weeks, months, or years of hard work. Obstacles and difficulties will seem insurmountable. Don't even think about failure and don't give up. Every day, do something that brings you closer to your dream. Your strong desire, firm belief in the achievability of the goal, as well as perseverance and perseverance will definitely lead to success.

12. Learn to be happy with what you have

And finally, the magic secret. Your dream will come true if you can do just fine without the desired object. Let your dream go free, don’t make it the only meaning of life, and be grateful for what fate has already rewarded you with. Enjoy the process of turning your dreams into reality, because this is life.

Part 1

First steps

Be creative! If you are going to desire something and set goals, invest everything you have without reserve. Do you want to be a world-class chef? Imagine that you are already a chef as clearly as possible and feel himself as a world class chef. Go to your favorite restaurant or cafe during an afternoon when there aren't as many people around and talk to the chef. Ask how it works for them and if they have any suggestions for you. Or maybe you want to get your private pilot certificate. Take a break from your flight simulator and head to the airport! Listen to the sound of the engines, talk to the instructor if necessary. Don't be surprised if you manage to get on a test flight!

The main thing is to be creative and imagine that your dream has already come true. It will be much easier for you to achieve your goals when you start moving towards them. As they say, “A journey of thousands of kilometers begins with the first step.”

Think of it as a goal. The words “dream” and “wish” make us think of clouds and non-existent things, places and achievements. They carry within them a sublime unattainability. Instead of thinking of it as your dream, think of it as your goal. Goals involve work; dreams, on the other hand, are only by-products of fantasy and escape.
- Words have great power. You will understand that achieving your goals is directly related to the way you think and your internal dialogue with yourself. Think about the goals you have already achieved. Your current goal will just be another one on the list!
Be realistic. We all have dreams or goals that aren't really what we want. In reality, they are just good ideas that we will never be motivated enough to implement because we don't care that much about them. Many of us want to be famous and millionaires, but how many of us take real action to achieve this? No. So separate the goals you actually want to achieve from the ones that sound good.
- You are more likely to recognize a real dream when you are passionate about something. If it's something that you find yourself thinking about every day and can't imagine your life without it, then it's clearly something worthwhile. If not, then throw this idea out of your head. You don't need this.
Believe in yourself. Although there will be people around who will help you make your dreams come true, it is your decision and only through your actions can they come true. Know that you can do anything you put your mind to, even the impossible!
Don't listen to others. The world is full of opponents. Everywhere you go, there will be people who will say that you cannot do this or that. Do you know why they say that? Because they know that they couldn’t do it themselves. Fortunately, their abilities (or rather, inabilities) have nothing in common with yours. So don't listen to them.
- However, among these people there will be those who will say real things, and this is good. If you want to be a big star in Hollywood, but you currently make money washing dishes in Uryupinsk, then it will be a long uphill climb. People will definitely tell you about this. And this is good. Your dreams and goals need an element of reality.
Feel passion. As Les Brown would say, “you have to be thirsty”! No goal will be realized if you do not crave its fulfillment. In fact, this is really a big part of the battle. A goal that you don't really want is just a dream, remember? You should have no other way of life than working towards your goals.
- It is important to be surrounded by like-minded people. To stay motivated during challenging times, you need a strong network of contacts who are as passionate as you are about pursuing your dreams. Find a few like-minded people so that you can share your motivation with each other.
Don't wait for the right moment. The right moment will not come when you have enough money. The right moment will not come with enough skill. The right moment will not come when you receive the approval of others. The right moment is now. The sooner you start, the better.
- This doesn't mean your dream has to come true right now - don't put that pressure on yourself. But “now” is a very good place to start. There is absolutely no reason why you can't slowly start right now.
Part 2
Be visionary
1. Set specific goals. To turn dreams into reality, you need to express them in words. What exactly do you want? Your goal could be money, love, or just a happy life. But what exactly do these words mean to you? No matter what it is, let your goals be your vision and mission.
  - Make them as significant as possible. Just the desire to “be famous” will not get you far. Do you want to act in films, on stage or just be a YouTube star? The more specific your goals are, the easier it will be to achieve them.
2. Record your progress. Keep a notebook and every night re-read the previous entry and write down what you did to achieve your goal today and what you plan to do tomorrow. This will help you see your progress and keep you motivated.
  - Write down things you did that brought you closer to your goal. Don't forget to praise yourself for big and small achievements.
  - Also write down what is moving you away from your goal and honestly reflect on it. Was it something you couldn't have avoided, like a problem with a relative, or did you just lose your way and "fall for that super offer on TV"? Develop a plan to get back on track.
3. Involve others in your goals. Even if your family, friends or business partners don't share your dreams, they can help you achieve them. Share with them your dreams and ideas on how to achieve them. Perhaps they will give you interesting ideas for implementation. Or their ideas could be combined with yours.
  - When you open up to people, be prepared to truly listen to their point of view. It won't always be what you want to hear, but an alternative point of view can be invaluable.
  - Like everything in life, achieving your dreams is much more difficult alone. Family, loved ones and friends are the people who can help you, in addition to lending you a vest to cry on if something goes wrong. In addition, they will keep you on your toes! If you try to get off the horse, they will be there to help you get back on the saddle.
4. Isolate distractions. If the environment is noisy, if different thoughts are spinning in your head, and it distracts you, then it will be very difficult to concentrate. In fact, what's going on in your head can be the most distracting thing. In addition to clearing your world, you must clear your head. Whatever you need to do to focus (whether it's limiting your time with friends, not going shopping, or simply cutting out the TV), do it.
  - Sometimes we have to pull ourselves together for things to fall into place. Whether it's work, relationships or just life, there will be no order in them until there is order in our heads. Any existing inner demons must be overcome today. Before you can do anything right, you must make yourself right.
  Part 3
  In the process of implementation
  1. Be flexible. In the process of achieving your desires, you will discover that some methods may simply not work. If you don't see any impact in your job (no matter what you do), quit it. Move to Plan B. There is no point in repeating behaviors that don't get you closer to your goal.
    - Think of your actions as a business plan—after all, you're actually in some sort of business with yourself, no matter what you do. A business plan requires constant adjustments. In your notebook, you should note down what works and what doesn't. During the implementation process, you must focus especially on what works. This is the only way to succeed.
  2. Losing focus now and then. Big goals are not for the faint of heart. Not everyone strives for greatness as it is exhausting and sometimes frustrating. Know that it's completely normal to lose focus sometimes - this is hard work. Kudos to you for trying in the first place! So give yourself this break from time to time. As long as you return to your plans refreshed, this rest will serve your goals.
    - You should only rethink your desires if you are constantly losing focus. If you're not thinking about your goals half the time, that's a red flag. Maybe the time just hasn't come yet. Sometimes goals need to be put on the back burner.
  3. Develop yourself. To achieve your dreams, you will need to be active in the process. Take the time to develop the skills needed to successfully achieve your goals. This will help the process go much faster and easier!
    - For example, if you want to become rich, learn not only how to make money, but also how to manage it.
    - If you want to learn how to play the electric guitar, by all means, take lessons, but also learn how to make amplifiers or learn the difference between a dynamic and a condenser microphone.
  4. Don't limit yourself. Achieving a lofty goal worthy of you will likely take a long time. If it doesn't come as easy to you as you expected, don't give up. Plan out the next six months and don't cut yourself any slack. If you're going to do this, go big or go home. Put all your effort into achieving your goals and more.
    - You may be tempted to do the bare minimum that is required so that at the end of the day, when you fail, you can justify to yourself that you never tried that hard. For starters, this is bullshit. This attitude will get you nowhere. Nothing should limit you, and the last thing you should limit yourself is yourself.
  5. Be ready. When making your dreams come true, the main thing is to be prepared for it. For example, if you want to meet someone special and you are a little out of shape, it may happen that you meet this person, but he will not be delighted with you. Before you can fight for your dreams, you will have to lay the foundation:
    - Keep yourself fit. Of course, it's difficult to judge a book by its cover. But if the cover is stained with grease and salad residue, no one will even touch it. They will go look for a clean, undamaged book on the shelf.
    - Leave the burden of the past behind. If you've put in a lot of work, you're in wonderful shape and she's finally noticing you! - and you constantly tell her about your ex - everything will be in vain. Mentally prepare yourself for success by leaving the past where it belongs. In past.
  6. Persistence promotes success. No matter what your goal is - something lofty or simple - there will definitely be failures and difficulties along the way. The main thing is to recognize them, adjust your goal or plan to the situation and continue to move along the intended path.
    - Reality is like a road map. For example, you planned to get to your destination by car in 3 hours, and your path was blocked by a fallen tree. In this case, you definitely wouldn’t sit idly by. You would at least try the following options:
      - We'd find another way
      - We should wait until the tree is removed
      - Or let's go home
    - And although you might not reach your destination in 3 hours, you would do everything to make it happen. The fulfillment of desires and the realization of goals works on the same principle - to achieve what you want, you need to think outside the box.
  7. Know when it's time to change your dreams. Sometimes circumstances may change. Staying focused on a goal that no longer makes sense can be counterproductive. For example, if your dream is to play in the National Basketball League and an injury makes it impossible, continuing to focus on achieving that dream will only bring you frustration and anger - which are not worthy goals.
    - Sometimes we ourselves change. Remember you wanted to be a paleontologist when you were 7? People change. Dreams change. If this is not what you want most, be honest with yourself. You shouldn't feel shame giving up one dream and choosing another!
  - Never give up on your dreams, even if others think they are not worth it. Dream until you achieve your dream. Always believe in your dream and in yourself.
  - Are you doing this for yourself or for someone else? This is what will determine whether you stick to what you need to do to get what you want.
  - Be patient. You need to constantly work on yourself to become better. You need to keep trying, even if the first few were unsuccessful.
  - If you have completed all the items on your list, congratulations! Now you can create a new one with new desires. After all, life is filled with possibilities and there is so much in it.
  - Don't follow your dreams - chase them.
  - Never give up what you love.
  Warnings
  - As you take action to achieve your dreams, you may realize that this is not what you want at all. Do not give up; because it can lead you to a new dream and/or allow you to better understand yourself. Setbacks and unexpected turns are all an integral part of our life's journey, and often they tell us more about what we want and who we are than about what comes easily.
  - Dreams become reality through hard work and perseverance. As a rule, they do not happen right away. Be patient and persistent.
  - You may have to work harder than you thought. But you must understand that this is a continuous process.
  - Don't wish for something unreal; because you will be disappointed and there are much better options than dreaming about the moon. Set achievable goals within human capabilities.

How to make your dream come true? What can you do to make your dreams come true? Do dreams come true or is it something unattainable and accessible only to a select few? You will find answers to all these and many other questions in this article.

We should start with the very concept of “dream”, what it really is and whether it exists in reality. Most people put a certain, specific meaning into this word - it is something unrealizable, unattainable, inaccessible to “mere mortals”, not true, a fairy tale, fiction, and so on. And only a few understand that a dream and a goal are actually one concept, and it is thanks to this approach that their dreams come true, that is, they materialize. They don't think about how to make their dreams come true, they just get everything they want. Think about it, dreams and desires are different things for you? How are they different from each other? Is it not because desires are of a more mundane nature, which does not raise doubts about real availability? Or maybe the whole point is that desire ultimately becomes a goal and that is why it is realized in life, and dreams are doomed to failure from the very beginning?

With this approach it is impossible to make your dream come true! Let's figure out why for us dream, desire and goal are different concepts that are in no way related to each other. The reason lies in banal stereotypes, that is, in the long-term habit of separating these concepts from each other. For example, let's take a person with an average monthly income who has a desire to purchase, say, a laptop of the latest model - his desire will not shock anyone, right? Of course, he will not be able to buy it right away, but by saving money, after some short period of time he will be able to afford to make this purchase. That is, the desire gradually turned into a goal. Now imagine that this same person thought about his own three-story house on some exotic island! Most people, including our hero, without hesitation, will sift this thought into a bag labeled “pipe dreams” and continue to live in the familiar “real” world. How to make a dream come true if a person himself does not believe that it will come true?

Another example: a person with low or no income wants only one thing - to get food, which becomes his only and constant goal. What in his case is a laptop of the latest model? Dream! And for a millionaire, what is a mansion on the islands, not to mention such little things as laptops? For him this is a familiar reality. All these examples are given in order to understand a simple thing: one person’s dream is another’s usual reality. The main mistake is that we label ourselves and sort our desires into dreams and goals. We start from our position, status, income and are guided by the so-called real state of affairs. Are you familiar with the phrases: “I really look at things”, “I can’t afford it”, “all these are dreams, but in life everything is different”? Reality is what we create ourselves! Who decides who can dream, for example, about a car, and who can’t? Who is a “mere mortal” and who is the chosen one? Now the shocking truth will be revealed to you: this “who” really exists! It is you! Realize that you decide everything that concerns you and your life!

When your desire and dream have the same meaning, you can move on specifically to the question of how to make your dream come true. Let's return to the example with a laptop: when a person had a desire, at that moment he did not know how to realize it, but over time he came up with a certain plan of action, and when he sorted everything out, making this purchase was no longer in doubt. This is the main rule: first the desire, then the plan of action and not the other way around. You don’t need to know from the first seconds of your dream how to make it come true; an idea or plan will come by itself completely unexpectedly. Lead your usual lifestyle without tormenting yourself with a lack of answers, as this can cause doubts - the only obstacle to your dream. If you doubt for a second, you will be forced to return to where you started.

Your desire should be specific; you shouldn’t ask a question every day about how to make your dream come true and expect the answer to come to you. Your dream should sound specific: “I will buy a new car” (then everything will be in the smallest detail: color, brand, etc.), “I will meet an extraordinary girl (man) and create a wonderful family” (imagine in detail what character traits this a person must possess) and so on. The principle is the same for any dream: wish for it, don’t doubt that you will receive it, and when you receive it, give thanks!

Many people cannot get what they want from life. They have no money, huge debts, poor health and an unsatisfactory personal life. With each failure, there are more and more reasons for depression, which gradually becomes permanent. It seems that there can no longer be any light in life, and the only thing that remains is to come to terms with the fact that a good life is not for us. But in reality this is not the case at all. You can learn to manage your dreams and get everything you want. How? Find out by reading this article, the topic of which is “The power of intention, how to realize your dreams and desires.”

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Brian Tracy wrote: You are a living magnet. You attract into your life what matches your dominant thoughts. Some consider their dreams and desires a waste of time, illusions that interfere with life. Such people believe that nothing can change in their lives. They tend to think that in reality they will not achieve success, wealth, or happiness, so they simply prefer not to have desires, so as not to suffer. But this is fundamentally wrong. Dreams and desires are a kind of incentive to action, a goal that you strive for. If people did not dream, such works of art as Bach's music, your favorite films, famous works of architecture and painting would never have appeared. A person would never have risen into the sky and visited space if he had not dreamed of something that is difficult to achieve. The conclusion from this is: don’t be afraid to dream. But remember that not all desires are acceptable. Only if your desire does not harm others or yourself, it is worthy of trying to fulfill it; in addition, you need the power of intention to make everything come true.

It has long been proven that everything in the world consists of energy. And, as you know, it does not go anywhere and does not come from nowhere - it simply transforms from one type to another. Only at first glance does a person appear to be a solid body. But if we talk about more subtle matter - our emotions, thoughts and feelings, that is, what makes us human - it turns out that a person consists of energy vibrations. Moreover, each emotion has its own frequency, which is higher, the more pleasant the feelings we experience. Thus, if we proceed from the fact that everything in the world is energy in one form or another, it turns out that our thoughts, and therefore desires, are material. To implement them, you need to use the power of intention; you will learn right now how to realize your dreams and desires and achieve success.

It is believed that opposites attract. But in reality, all processes in the Universe are based on the law of attraction. This means that everything in the world is attracted to its own kind.

You might think, “Great. This means that if everything is bad now, then it will only get worse. Just great". But don't rush to conclusions. We promised to teach you how to fulfill your desires. To do this, you don’t need much - learn to manage your thoughts and feelings.

This is very important, because, in accordance with the law of attraction, you attract circumstances into your life where the power of intention plays a huge role, at the frequency of which you vibrate. That is, when you experience certain emotions, you attract what makes you experience them. This means that by holding the emotional note of wealth or love, we receive precisely love and wealth from the material world. And vice versa - by experiencing negative emotions, you only make the situation worse.

Imagine that the Universe is a genie who speaks the language of emotions. He does not understand words, but only knows the feelings that you experience. And one of your desires is to get rich. But if at the same time you only think that your salary is low, the genie perceives it this way: “She wants to be poor.” And in life everything gets worse and worse. But if you learn to rejoice in what you already have and thank the Universe for what you already have, it will repay you in kind - and you will get what you want.

It is important to keep in mind that negative emotions should never be suppressed. They need to be changed to those that correspond to higher vibration frequencies. Yoga, dancing, sports will help you with this - everything that makes you feel joy and satisfaction. By changing the frequency of your feelings, you will attract good luck and happiness into your life, which means your wishes will come true.

Learn to think positively. To do this, eliminate the expressions “I won’t succeed”, “I can’t” from your vocabulary. Even in your thoughts, try to replace words that have a negative connotation with those that have a positive emotional connotation.

Also, do not be afraid to do what you think will lead you to the fulfillment of your dreams, because no one knows the only correct way to realize your dreams and desires. There is no need to be afraid of mistakes if you really want something - the Universe will give you a chance to achieve it. And mistakes will only become additional experience in your life.

As you can see, you don’t need much to fulfill your desires - just allow yourself to dream, that is, set a goal that you strive for, listen to your emotions, and think positively. Simple enough, right? Now you know where the success of the power of intention lies, how to realize your dreams and desires and be a successful person. You may think that this won't work. But just try it, and you will see how very soon your life will change for the better!

Do you have a cherished, sincere dream? Surely there is, because without an innermost, secret desire, the life of any person becomes boring, gray, dull and monotonous. Do you know how to make your dream come true using a special technique of positive thinking? If not, then this article and the simple recommendations given in it are especially for you.

How to make a dream come true with the power of thought

Remember that dreams only come true if you really want to achieve what you want. If this or that need is instilled in you by those around you and does not find a true response in your soul, then you will never be able to materialize it.
Believe in the fulfillment of desires. Under no circumstances should you doubt that, sooner or later, you will meet a person who will tell you how to make your dreams come true, or that you will independently find a way to bring your cherished goal to life.
Declare your desire to higher powers, and do not state it vaguely and tongue-tiedly, but clearly, specifically, comprehensively and emotionally. Describe in detail why you want to achieve this particular goal, why it is so important to you, and how much effort you are willing to put into achieving it.
Visualize your dream from time to time. Imagine that you have already become the happy owner of the desired thing, that the imagined event has already happened to you, and behave like a successful, self-realized person. This will help you attract what you so passionately desire into your life. At the same time, do not forget to thank the higher powers for the fact that you were given what you wanted, even if only in your imagination. Constantly remember that very soon you will get what you dream of in real life.
Start taking concrete steps towards achieving your own goal. To make your dream come true, act, don’t sit idly by, and, most importantly, don’t be afraid to make one mistake or another. Constantly repeat that it is better to do something and regret it than to do nothing and constantly pester yourself with thoughts of missed prospects and opportunities.

If you want to learn how to make dreams come true, wish, dream, constantly think about your dream, visualize it day after day - only in this way will you be able to make it come true one day. The most important thing that is required of you is to believe in the opportunities and paths that the irresistible force of your sincere desire can open before you.

When a dream becomes reality: an effective technique

Many people who have achieved success in any endeavor are confident that there is nothing inaccessible in the world. They know perfectly well how to make their dreams come true - they need to work hard and have a clear vision of the goal in front of them.

To make a dream a reality, it is worth developing a program for its implementation. The number of steps in the program may vary, depending on the scale of the plan, but in general, it should consist of the following points:

A clear definition of your dream. At this stage, it is worth clearly separating your desires from the stereotypes imposed by society and loved ones. And also find out whether the dream is the mask of some deeper desire. For example, a girl dreams of a slim figure, but in reality her desire is to please men.

Getting rid of inhibitory factors is an important step to make your dream come true. The whole point is that inside everyone, even a very self-confident person, there is doubt about success, as well as many all sorts of extraneous “buts”. It is necessary to strictly prevent their occurrence, maintaining only your desire to achieve your goal. In parallel with the fight against doubts, it is necessary to develop positive thinking; auto-training brings very good results.

Position evaluation. At this stage, it is necessary to inspect and evaluate your luggage and understand how to make your dreams come true with the help of these “accumulations”. It is quite possible that a lack of knowledge or skills will be identified, which will have to be compensated in a short time.

Finding helpers to make your dreams come true. If you want to learn how to make your dreams come true, you can tell your friends or relatives about your dream - there is a high probability that they will be happy to provide support. It will also be very useful to communicate with people who have already walked this path and achieved some success.

Determining the timing of the dream realization. In order for a dream to turn from an ephemeral idea into something real, it is necessary to set deadlines for its implementation. It is at this stage that the dream becomes a specific goal, for the fulfillment of which many small subtasks are prescribed.

Fantasies. Add a little esotericism to your plans. Imagine yourself in the future, when the dream has already been realized. It is necessary to draw your life in full, working out every small detail. “Watching” such a “movie” every day will not only put you in a positive mood, but will also definitely bring the realization of your cherished dream closer.

How to make your dreams come true after failure

The happiest people in the world, in whose company it is so pleasant to be, are those who persistently strive to achieve their goals. And if you devote all your strength to an obviously failed relationship with a loser, then you can lose your goals and end up with nothing.

Perhaps you dream of a cozy family nest, but as you build a relationship with a married man, you begin to convince yourself that sometimes being a mistress is much more pleasant than being the mistress of your own home. Or you love to move to the music and envy your friends who have signed up for a dance club and are learning. “But the Poor thing won’t stand it if I dance with someone,” you say to yourself and give up the hobby. Or maybe in your dreams you imagine that someday you will quit the stupid office mouse fuss and open a store where you will sell all sorts of things like beaded bracelets or embroidered napkins. But Mr. Controller doesn’t allow you to take a step on your own, and you’re not sure if you can carry out your plans.

If your dreams and hobbies are buried under the rubble of an unsuccessful romance, resolutely declare to yourself that today is your personal New Year's Eve. Put on paper the plans that you are going to implement in the coming new era of your life, and think about how. For example, you wrote: “I want to become an artist.” So what's stopping you from enrolling in art school?

If travel is at the top of your list, start saving up for a trip around the world. If you want to have a stunning figure, sign up for a gym or swimming pool.

In fact, you don’t need to have a lot of money to make your dream come true - just be confident that you can do anything. Think carefully about what exactly you want, and also be determined to move forward towards a bright future, even if you have to build it gradually, step by step, and not have it all ready-made at once.