Since childhood, a person has felt internal, constant and total loneliness. He's always lonely no matter who I'm with.
At some point, he has very close relationships (person, organization, idea), he identifies with them, merges, and on the other hand, it’s too good to be true. The feeling that all good things will end. It's too good to last forever.
The relationship is broken.
Since this object had the meaning of life, a person does not see the further meaning of existence, if this is not there, then I don’t need everything else. And the person chooses to die.
Theme of betrayal.
* Any “deadly disease,” in particular cancer, is a message from our inner self (soul, if you like, self, unconscious, God, Universe): “You will not live the way you were. The old personality inevitably dies. You can die psychologically as an old person and be reborn as a new person. Or die along with your principles and old life.”
Key points about the mechanism of the onset of the disease:
1. A person who has felt inner loneliness (constant and total) since childhood. "I'm always lonely no matter who I'm with."
2. At some point, he has very close relationships (person, organization, idea), he identifies with them, to the level of merger, they become the meaning of his life. On the other hand, he is gnawed by the thought - “this is too good to be true.” The feeling that all good things will end. "It's too good to last forever."
3. Relationships are broken.
4. Since this object contained the meaning of life, the person does not see the further meaning of existence - “if this is not there, then I don’t need everything else.” And internally, on an unconscious level, a person makes the decision to die.
5. The theme of betrayal is always present. Or the feeling that he was betrayed. Or in the case of loss (of an idea, person, organization), the main idea is “to live on means to betray this bright past/relationship. The loss is not always physical, often it is a psychological loss, a subjective feeling.
The self-destruction mechanism starts quite quickly. Cases of late diagnosis are common. Since these people are used to being alone - they are from the series of “strong and persistent”, very heroic people, they never ask for help and do not share their experiences. It seems to them that being strong always adds bonuses to their lives, because they are valued that way. They "don't want to burden anyone." They ignore their experiences - they endure and remain silent. Servants. The mortality lies in the fact that a person cannot overcome this “loss”. To live, he needs to become different, change his beliefs, start believing in something else.
The more a person follows “his own rightness, his super-valuable ideas, ideals, principles,” the faster the tumor grows and he dies. Clear dynamics. This happens when an idea is more valuable than life.
1. It is extremely important for a sick person to find out that he is terminally ill. But everyone pretends that everything is fine. This is very harmful. The very “mortality” of the disease is the door to recovery. The sooner a person finds out, the greater the chance of staying alive.
2. The diagnosis itself is therapeutic - it gives the right to change the rules of the game, the rules become less important.
3. Old principles inevitably eat up (metastasis). If a person chooses to live, everything can be fine. Sometimes “imaginary funerals” help with the symbolic beginning of a new life.
Features of therapy:
1. Changing beliefs (working with values).
2. Separately study the topic of the future, what he should live for, setting goals. Goal setting (the meaning of life) for which you want to live. A goal in which he wants to invest entirely.
3. Working with the fear of death. Increasing the psychological resistance of the body. So that fear activates energy, not weakens it.
4. Legitimizing emotional needs. Make it clear that despite “coolness,” they, like all people, may need both support and intimacy - it is important to learn to ask for and receive it.
"I think that healing requires the combined efforts of at least two people. One of them is you."
Louise Hay
Diseases of the knee and hip joints can develop for a number of reasons. According to the observations of modern scientists, arthrosis of the knee or hip joints often occurs: due to overload of the joints in professional athletes; due to prolonged stress on the joints of the legs in people who are forced to walk vast distances; due to overload of the legs in obese people; due to joint injuries or chronic microtraumas; due to inflammation of the joints due to arthritis.
Other circumstances contributing to the emergence arthrosis of the knee and hip joints, are diabetes mellitus, osteoporosis, unfavorable heredity, some hormonal changes in the body and certain metabolic disorders.
Until recently, all of the above unfavorable factors were considered by scientists as the main causes of arthrosis of the knee and hip joints. However, recent discoveries in the field of biochemistry and physiology have forced us to reconsider our views on the key aspects of the formation of these diseases. Currently, it has become obvious to advanced scientists and doctors that one of the main reasons for the development of unfavorable changes in the joints is the patient’s chronic stressful condition.
You already know that during periods of prolonged stress and prolonged experiences, there is a persistent increase in the level of corticosteroid hormones in the blood. And physiologists and biochemists have recently proven that the excessive release of these hormones into the blood inhibits the production of hyaluronic acid, which is an important component of joint fluid (“joint lubrication”).
And if the joint fluid becomes small, or if it becomes “incomplete,” the articular cartilage dries out. The cartilage cracks and thins - arthrosis occurs.
This process is aggravated by the fact that an excess amount of “stress” hormones in the blood leads to a decrease in capillary permeability and a deterioration in blood flow in damaged joints. And the combination of chronic stress with the unfavorable circumstances indicated at the beginning of the chapter (joint overload, trauma, heredity, etc.) leads to the fact that articular cartilage is gradually deformed and destroyed.
You can read more about the effects of chronic stress and negative experiences on joint health in special medical reference books. The only thing that these reference books do not talk about is what kind of negative emotions lead to damage to the knee and hip joints. Working with such patients for many years, I have identified a number of patterns that I will be happy to share with you.
In particular, I noticed that arthrosis of the hip joints Very often people who are very pleasant to talk to, nice people who almost never conflict with anyone and rarely express their dissatisfaction with anyone, get sick. Outwardly, they look very reserved, calm and friendly. However, strong passions often rage inside them, which do not come out only due to their upbringing or characteristics of their “Nordic” character.
Eventually restrained emotions, such as irritation, frustration (intimate dissatisfaction), anxiety or suppressed anger provoke the release of corticosteroid hormones into the blood and through them affect hyaluronic acid, which, as we have already said, is the most important component of joint lubrication.
In addition, the internal tension of the nervous system, as you and I know, affects the condition of the skeletal muscles - their spasm and hypertonicity occur. And since there are especially strong muscles around the hip joints, their spasm leads to the fact that these muscles “pinch” the damaged joint. As a result of prolonged muscle pressure, the tight hip joint is deformed and destroyed even faster.
Of course, unrestrained and emotional people sometimes also suffer from arthrosis of the hip joints. But, as I mentioned in the second chapter, they get arthrosis more often due to “excessive” negative emotions, when a certain emotional “limit” is exceeded. In general, in an emotional person, other organs usually have weak points - the thyroid gland, heart, stomach, as well as the back and respiratory organs. The hip joints of overly emotional people, with some exceptions, are almost the last to be damaged. After all, arthrosis of the hip joints, I repeat, is most often a disease of people who are accustomed to restraining and suppressing their emotions.
Observation.
While traveling abroad, I noticed that in those Western European countries where it is customary to “keep up your appearance” and constantly smile, the percentage of people suffering from arthrosis of the hip joints is very high. Apparently, forced to live by high ethical standards, not all people in these countries meet such standards. As a result, not having the opportunity to show their weaknesses, forced to smile even in a bad mood and state of health, some Western Europeans drive themselves into a severe depressive-stressful state. And, as a result, they develop diseases caused by suppressed emotions, including arthrosis of the hip joints.
Natalya Alekseevna, 56 years old, came to me about arthrosis of the hip joints. The duration of the disease at the time of our meeting was about two years. From a conversation with the patient, it turned out that she works as a primary school teacher. A year before the onset of the illness, Natalya Alekseevna went to work at an elite school where the children of “cool” parents study.
During lessons, these children behave as they want; if they wish, they can, figuratively speaking, “stand on their heads.” But Natalya Alekseevna was forced to tolerate any of their behavior, since the school management strictly forbade putting children down or raising their voices at them. Not accustomed to such behavior and the unceremoniousness of her students, Natalya Alekseevna spent all three years of working in such an “elite” school in constant irritation, which over time, as it seems to me, led to the development of arthrosis of her hip joints.
After talking with me and carefully weighing all the pros and cons, Natalya Alekseevna decided to leave the school for “cool” children and returned to her previous place of work, to a school where ordinary children study. After eliminating the chronic irritant, the patient’s hip joints were put in order with the help of medications in a very short time (three months).
Case history from the practice of Dr. Evdokimenko.
Sergei Andreevich was one of the few patients of mine for whom anti-arthrosis treatment hardly helped. The failure of therapy was explained by the character of the man. He repeatedly told me: “Everyone infuriates me - there are so many idiots in the subway and on the street! I just want to punch someone in the face!”
Over several months of communication, I was still unable to influence Sergei Andreevich. He didn’t want to change and didn’t give in to “re-education.” As a result, without achieving impressive treatment results, we were forced to end our communication on a minor note. Sergei Andreevich went for joint replacement surgery.
Case history from the practice of Dr. Evdokimenko.
Ivan Sergeevich contacted me about arthrosis of the hip joint. The disease was discovered in a man about 3 years ago and during this time it developed to the second stage (moderate severity). In a personal conversation, Ivan Sergeevich told me about the supposed causes of the disease.
Fifteen years ago, Ivan Sergeevich married a woman whom he loved, but who, as he understood, did not love him - for his wife, marriage to Ivan Sergeevich was just a way to improve her living conditions. However, the wife very quickly gave birth to a daughter for Ivan Sergeevich, which tied the man even more closely to her.
Loving his wife, Ivan Sergeevich tried for five to seven years to achieve reciprocity. At first, he was convinced that with his sincere love he could win his wife’s heart. Therefore, he spoiled her as best he could, showered her with flowers and gifts, fulfilled her slightest whims. But the wife never reciprocated her husband’s love. Her heart remained cold. As a result, several years ago Ivan Sergeevich lost hope and “broke” from disappointment.
He even suffered a heart attack, but, fortunately, was able to quickly recover from it. However, since then, the presence of his wife began to burden and irritate him. Ivan Sergeevich was even ready to leave home, but the thought of his daughter stopped him. Besides, there was nowhere to go. And against this background, against the background of disappointment and irritation towards his wife, he gradually began to develop coxarthrosis.
Ivan Sergeevich came to me at a stage when non-surgical treatment of the joint is still possible, but requires urgency. Including in resolving psychological problems. After several detailed conversations about the “psychology of the disease,” Ivan Sergeevich made a decision. In order to preserve his joint and leg, he left his family, rented an apartment on the outskirts of Moscow and began to rebuild his life.
Having gotten rid of daily annoying communication with his wife, the man recovered quite quickly. And although he still limps a little when walking, the severe pain that tormented him before now does not bother Ivan Sergeevich.
Diseases of the knee joints
Diseases of the knee joints, in addition to physical reasons (which were discussed at the beginning of the chapter) may be the result of prolonged or severe stress, and often occur against the background of difficult experiences. For many people, their knee joints begin to hurt after divorce, loss of loved ones, dismissal from work and other blows of fate.
Very often, arthrosis of the knee joints occurs in emotionally tired people, whose life as a whole has become an “overwhelming burden.” That is those people whose life is hard and joyless. For example, I especially often see arthrosis of the knee joints in “dazed-eyed” women of about fifty who have to carry home, work, children or grandchildren, plus elderly sick parents, and sometimes also a sick husband on their shoulders.
It is clear that such women have no time for the joys of life; they simply do not have enough time for themselves. In the end, the need to “pull the burden” year after year, a life full of only worries, without joy and pleasure, breaks even the most persistent and responsible. Because of their joyless life, women become “emotionally old,” they walk with difficulty (even when their knees are still healthy), and such women seem to have “weights hanging on their legs.”
Often these women become slouched from worries, their legs become swollen and heavy, and blood circulation in the legs is impaired—severe varicose veins or thrombosis of the blood vessels in the legs occur. All these problems lead to the fact that the knee joints gradually lose flexibility and become “pinched.” The cartilage of the knees, deprived of normal blood supply, loses moisture, dries out and cracks.
As a result, arthrosis of the knee joints develops. Which in such women is difficult to treat, since it is very difficult for these patients to change something in their lives and eliminate the key cause of the disease - emotional fatigue. And if the root cause of the disease is not addressed, it is unlikely that the disease will go away even with the best treatment.
In my memory, only a few such patients managed, after our conversations about the causes of the disease, to somehow rearrange their lives, throw off some of their responsibilities and get better. Most of these women, broken by life, even realizing the complexity of their illness, could not turn away from their rigidly prescribed life line. And I cannot condemn them for this - in the end, such an exaggerated sense of duty evokes only sympathy and respect in me. The only pity is that all these women are deprived of the opportunity to live not only for others, but also for themselves.
To be fair, it must be said that not only women suffer from hyper-responsibility and emotional fatigue. There are also men who have completely devoted all their energy to work or have spent all their life energy in an effort to care for and make happy all their loved ones - children, wives, parents, etc. But still, men are less likely to reach the point of mind-blowing self-sacrifice. Men almost always have at least a little “joy for themselves, for their loved ones.” Perhaps this is why severe forms of arthrosis of the knee joints are somewhat less common in men.
Finally, it's time to talk about another strange circumstance that somehow leads to arthrosis of the knee joints. For reasons unknown to me, the most severe forms of knee damage are often observed in people who are intelligent but critical or prone to chronic dissatisfaction. That is, those who are constantly internally dissatisfied with life, circumstances, people around them, or themselves.
Or those who tend to constantly criticize something or someone, including themselves (we are talking, as you understand, not about verbal criticism, but about a state of internal irritation and dissatisfaction).
It’s even worse if the tendency to criticism is combined with chronic resentment towards the whole world, towards others or close people. Moreover, it does not matter whether grievances and criticism are expressed out loud or accumulate inside. The role is played only by the strength of emotions and their duration. The stronger a person’s sensitivity, dissatisfaction, or tendency to criticism and self-criticism, the more his knees become deformed over time, and the more difficult it is to treat them later.
Why this happens, I don't know. Perhaps critical and touchy people release stress hormones in increased quantities. But most likely it’s a spasm of the anterior thigh muscles, which for some reason is more pronounced in such people than in others.
We can detect spasm of the muscles of the anterior surface of the thigh in almost 100% of people suffering from arthrosis of the knee joints.It is very easy to identify such a spasm. For example, if a healthy person, lying on his stomach, bends his leg at the knee and tries to pull his heel to his buttock, this will not cause him any painful sensations. In extreme cases, a healthy person will feel some tension along the front of the thigh.A person whose muscles on the front of the thigh are in spasm will most likely not be able to (lying on his stomach) pull his heel towards his buttock at all - even if his knees are still healthy. Or such an attempt will cause him strong pain in the muscles along the front surface of the thigh, a feeling that the muscles are about to come off (note that the pain will be felt more strongly not in the knee, but precisely along the front surface of the thigh).Typically, spasm of the anterior thigh muscles occurs against the background of protracted experiences or against the background of prolonged nervous tension. For some time this spasm does not make itself felt at all. But gradually it “tightens” the knees, does not allow them to move easily and freely, increases the risk of meniscus tear or provokes the development of arthrosis of the knee joints.
Case history from the practice of Dr. Evdokimenko.
At the reception there is a very nice woman, Tatyana Georgievna, 49 years old, director of a small production. I am being treated for the initial stage of arthrosis of the knee joints. Arthrosis in a woman is naturally combined with spasm of the anterior thigh muscles. During the conversation, Tatyana Georgievna asks a question:
— Pavel Valerievich, I am familiar with your theory that knees often hurt in people who are prone to criticism. But I never criticize others and don’t take offense at anyone. I engage in self-criticism, it’s true. If something doesn’t work out somewhere or I simply make a mistake in something, I constantly bite myself. I can then lie awake at night from worry. I toss and turn all night, thinking that I should have done this or that differently. But self-criticism probably doesn’t count, does it?
— Self-criticism sometimes destroys even more than the habit of criticizing others. Although the fact that you analyze your mistakes is correct. At the end of the day, it's your experience. It’s just extremely harmful to “gnaw” yourself for them.
- How can I not “gnaw” myself for my mistakes, not think about them?
- You can and should think about them. But don't get hung up on them. We analyzed the situation, realized our mistake, tried to correct it if possible - and moved on. You shouldn't always return to what is already behind you.
- Thank you Doctor. I understand you and will try to change my attitude towards life’s problems.
Case history from the practice of Dr. Evdokimenko.
At the reception, Irina Vladimirovna, a very successful businesswoman, head of a large corporation. She contacted me about rapidly progressing arthrosis of the knee joints. By the time of our meeting, Irina Vladimirovna had managed to undergo treatment in several expensive medical centers, but the result was not impressive. The disease continued to progress.
Having examined the patient, I was surprised to discover an atypically high degree of deformation of the knee joints for a forty-two-year-old woman. A similar deformity sometimes occurs in professional athletes, who often overload their joints or have received multiple knee injuries during their sports activities. But Irina Vladimirovna, according to her, did not play sports, and never injured her legs. And in general, her entire life was devoted exclusively to her career. There was no time left even for personal life, much less for sports.
Given the fact that the patient’s entire life was devoted to her career, I suggested that the source of her health problems could also lie in her work. And I decided to talk with Irina Vladimirovna about the difficulties in her professional activities, about relationships with partners and subordinates. Possessing a sharp mind, Irina Vladimirovna immediately caught the train of my thoughts. She told me that she really often has to criticize her subordinates.
“How can I not do this,” Irina Vladimirovna was indignant. “I have to constantly control everything, I can’t even relax.” It seems like I pay people a good salary, but, by and large, I have to check and redo everything myself.
In general, it turned out that Irina Vladimirovna was constantly under nervous tension and in a state of dissatisfaction with her subordinates. I realized that I needed to somehow “switch” her train of thought and help change her attitude towards employees. Then I asked the patient an unexpected question:
— Tell me, Irina Vladimirovna, do your subordinates earn the same as you?
“No, of course,” Irina Vladimirovna was clearly surprised by the question, “I earn more.” Much bigger...
- Let’s just assume that you earn one hundred thousand dollars a month. And your subordinates are a thousand. Can you expect them to be as smart and enterprising for a thousand as you are for a hundred thousand? After all, if your subordinates had the same business acumen that you yourself possess, they simply would not work for you. They would have opened their own business long ago and earned one hundred thousand instead of one thousand. So?
“Well, yes... You’re probably right,” Irina Vladimirovna answered after some thought.
“Okay,” I continued. - Now think: if your subordinates are still not as enterprising as you, they are unlikely to change even if you constantly criticize and scold them. And just because you freak out, they won’t change either.
So should you undermine your own health with unnecessary negative emotions? Take the situation more simply: since you are the head of the company, it is you, and not your subordinates, who will continue to make all the most important decisions.
Although, of course, you have an alternative way out: you can hire a decent assistant who will completely take over your responsibilities for a good salary. And he will be responsible for everything instead of you.
“Thank you, Pavel Valerievich,” Irina Vladimirovna answered after thinking. - You're probably right. I'll try to take work a little less seriously. And I will learn to react less painfully to the mistakes of my employees.
In these two cases, both with Irina Vladimirovna and Tatyana Georgievna, we ultimately managed to achieve good results. Both women were smart and flexible enough, they were able to restructure their thinking and managed to get rid of at least part of their negative emotions.
Apparently, in this way they managed to reduce the harmful influence of their own criticism on the body. One way or another, the treatment of their painful knee joints progressed rapidly. Unlike the situation with another patient, Igor Vasilievich.
Case history from the practice of Dr. Evdokimenko.
Igor Vasilyevich was treated by me for arthrosis of the knee joints (of moderate severity) for three years. Believe me, three years is a long time to treat such arthrosis. I usually get patients with a similar problem in order in about eight to ten meetings spread over a year. And then I meet with them only to adjust maintenance therapy (about once every six months).
But with Igor Vasilyevich the treatment was very difficult from the very beginning. No matter what we did with him, we managed to push back the disease only slightly. It’s good that we managed to slightly slow down the development of the disease. Being a maximalist, in another situation I would regard such a result as a failure. But in this case it could be considered positive, since before the start of therapy the disease was rapidly progressing. And yet I wanted to achieve more.
Naturally, talking with Igor Vasilyevich for a long time, I could not help but pay attention to his emotional state. During our conversations, I quite soon developed a clear “psychological map” of the patient.
Igor Vasilyevich was one of the “classical” critics. He criticized everyone - the government, his dacha neighbors, his wife, children, public transport and the organization of traffic in the city... It’s harder to say who the man did not criticize. But most of all from Igor Vasilyevich (“behind their backs,” of course) was the management of the company in which he worked. They are stupid, thieves, grabbers, don’t know anything about business, do everything wrong, etc., etc.
Every time the topic of Igor Vasilyevich’s work was accidentally brought up in our conversation, I was amazed at the degree of his aggressive reaction. One day I finally couldn’t stand it anymore and asked:
— Igor Vasilyevich, if you have such mediocre, stupid management at work, why bother? We need to change jobs.
- Pavel Valerievich, you understand, I am almost fifty years old. Where will I go? Who will hire me for a new job at this age?
- Then open your own business. After all, you understand business organization better than your current bosses. It would be possible to give them good competition, and then, lo and behold, you could beat them.
- No, doctor, starting your own business at fifty is hard. And in general, this is not for me.
- Well, maybe then we should just calm down and not pay attention to any mistakes of the leadership? As they say, what is Caesar's is Caesar's... God bless them, health is more precious.
- How can I not pay attention to this?! They're idiots! What should I do now, not notice their nonsense?
- Please notice, just don’t take it so personally. After all, your too strong emotions hit both your joints and blood vessels. Therefore, the treatment is slower than usual.
- You know what, Pavel Valerievich, I’m already an old man and I’m not going to change. So let's get treatment without any of your psychology...
Igor Vasilyevich is still undergoing treatment. And not only for me (I confess, but now I try to communicate with him less often). What did he not try in the few years that passed after the memorable conversation; I visited everyone - academic luminaries, healers, traditional healers. I spent a lot of money on the latest drugs, homeopathy and laser-magnetic devices for home use. There is no point - the condition of the knees does not improve.
It remained the same as it was during that conversation. And I suspect that it will remain so, unless it gets worse - since over the years, Igor Vasilyevich’s penchant for indiscriminate criticism, combined with dull irritation towards the whole world, has only intensified.
Do you have problems with your legs? Let's consider the metaphysical (subtle, mental, emotional, psychosomatic, subconscious, deep) causes of leg problems and diseases.
Dr. N. Volkova writes: “It has been proven that about 85% of all diseases have psychological causes. It can be assumed that the remaining 15% of diseases are associated with the psyche, but this connection has yet to be established in the future... Among the causes of diseases, feelings and emotions occupy one of the main places, and physical factors - hypothermia, infections - act secondary, as a trigger... »
Dr. A. Meneghetti in his book “Psychosomatics” he writes: “An illness is a language, the speech of a subject... To understand an illness, it is necessary to reveal the project that the subject creates in his unconscious... Then a second step is necessary, which the patient himself must take: he must change. If a person changes psychologically, then the disease, being an abnormal course of life, will disappear ... "
Let's consider the metaphysical (subtle, mental, emotional, psychosomatic, subconscious, deep) causes of leg problems.
Here's what world-famous experts in this field and authors of books on this topic write about it.
COMMON PROBLEMS WITH LEGS.
in their book “Reiki - the universal energy of life” they write about possible metaphysical causes of leg problems:
We step into the future with our feet, and if you have fear of the future or you understand that you can no longer live the way you are living, but do not consciously admit this to yourself, then your feet will clearly show you the current situation - they will hinder you step forward. Consciously look at your life situation and acknowledge the presence of this fear. If you cannot move forward in your outer life, then go inside yourself, gather peace and strength there, and then ask yourself what you really want and what you can easily and without problems achieve. Choose this and then take steps in this direction. This way you can move forward confidently and joyfully again.
Dr. Oleg G. Torsunov in his book “The Connection of Diseases with Character” he writes about possible metaphysical causes of leg problems:
Let’s say a person at work is firmly and actively active, but when he goes home from work, he languishes, in which case his legs will gradually begin to hurt. This occurs when there is joy in professional (creative) activity, but there is no joy in general, in life. If, on the contrary, a person does not want to do his job, but in life he is joyful, lively, and his legs are strong. But if he does not want to engage in professional activity correctly, firmly and cheerfully, he is passive in it, then the bones of his hands will suffer.
Louise Hay in his books “Heal Yourself”, “How to Heal Your Life”, he points out the main negative attitudes (leading to illness) and harmonizing thoughts (leading to healing) associated with the appearance and healing of foot problems:
Our feet carry us through life. Leg problems indicate a fear of moving forward or a reluctance to move in a certain direction. Our legs carry us, drag us, drag us, and on them sit large, fat thighs full of childhood grievances. Reluctance to act often manifests itself in serious leg problems. Varicose veins are either home or work that you hate.
Lower leg diseases:
Fear of the future. Reluctance to move.
Harmonizing thoughts: I move forward joyfully and confidently, knowing that my future is wonderful.
Hips (upper):
Stable body support. The main mechanism when moving forward.
Harmonizing thoughts: Long live the hips! Every day is filled with joy. I stand on my own two feet and enjoy the freedom.
Dr. Luule Viilma in his book “Psychological Causes of Disease” he writes:
Legs (problems and diseases):
Insincerity in communication related to economic issues.
The desire to receive material gain, honor and glory in everything.
Sergey N. Lazarev in his books “Diagnostics of Karma” (books 1-12) and “Man of the Future” he writes that the main cause of absolutely all diseases is the deficiency, lack or even absence of love in the human soul. When a person puts something above the love of God (and God, as the Bible says, is Love), then instead of gaining divine love, he rushes to something else. To what (erroneously) considers more important in life: money, fame, wealth, power, pleasure, sex, relationships, abilities, order, morality, knowledge and many, many other material and spiritual values... But this is not the goal, but only means for acquiring divine (true) love, love for God, love like God. And where there is no (true) love in the soul, illnesses, problems and other troubles come as feedback from the Universe. This is necessary so that a person thinks, realizes that he is going in the wrong direction, thinks, says and does something wrong and begins to correct himself, takes the right Path! There are many nuances in how the disease manifests itself in our body. You can learn more about this practical concept from the books, seminars and video seminars of Sergei Nikolaevich Lazarev.
ACHILLES TENDON
Liz Burbo in his book “Your Body Says Love Yourself!” he writes about possible metaphysical causes of problems with the Achilles tendon:
See the article HEEL, with the addition that the person is too eager to demonstrate his power.
HIP
Liz Burbo in his book “Your Body Says Love Yourself!” he writes about possible metaphysical causes of hip problems:
Typically, if a person complains of hip pain, it is very difficult to make a correct diagnosis. If it is a cramp, see the article CRAMP.
Emotional blocking:
The thigh is the section of the leg (and the legs move us forward) between the knee and hip joint; The metaphysical meaning of the hip is associated with desires and sensations. The thighs contain important arteries and veins that provide blood flow to the legs. Since blood vessels are associated with the ability to enjoy life, pain in the thigh indicates that the too serious adult part of a person’s personality will not allow him to enjoy the activities he plans. A person with hip pain holds back his feelings and often tries to prove his worth to other people.
Mental block:
Hip pain encourages you to pay attention to the desires of your inner child who wants to play and have fun. This does not mean that you should forget about your serious side - just try to establish harmony between the needs of the child and the adult that coexist in your personality. You no longer have to obey the voice of your adult self (which is an echo of the voice of your father or your mother). From now on, you must manage your own life.
Bodo Baginski and Sharamon Shalila in their book “Reiki - the universal energy of life” they write about possible metaphysical causes of hip problems:
Hip problems also indicate a certain inflexibility and rigidity caused by fear of the future and an inability to make decisions in important situations. Don't force yourself to move forward. Reiki will help you develop inner peace, vitality and trust, on the basis of which you can once again make decisions and move forward joyfully and freely. Then every step will be a true movement forward.
Louise Hay in his book “Heal Yourself”, he points out the main negative attitudes (leading to illness) and harmonizing thoughts (leading to healing) associated with the appearance and healing of foot problems.
Hips (upper):
Fear of moving forward in implementing major decisions. Lack of purpose.
Harmonizing thoughts: Long live the hips! Every day is filled with joy. I stand on my own two feet and enjoy the freedom. My resilience is absolute. I move forward through life easily and joyfully at any age.
BURSITIS OF THE FOOT (inflammation of the sac between the tendon and the bone)
Louise Hay in his book “Heal Yourself”, he points out the main negative attitudes (leading to illness) and harmonizing thoughts (leading to healing) associated with the appearance and healing of bunion.
Lack of joy when looking at life.
Harmonizing Thoughts: I joyfully run forward to welcome the amazing events of my life.
PHLEBEURYSM
Liz Burbo in his book “Your Body Says “Love Yourself!”” he writes about possible metaphysical causes of varicose veins:
Varicose veins are a disease that manifests itself in an increase in the size of the veins and a decrease in the elasticity of the venous walls.
Emotional blocking:
A person suffering from varicose veins wants to have more freedom and free time, but does not know what to do for this. He overexerts himself, and many tasks and problems seem overwhelming to him, as he tends to exaggerate their seriousness. He feels no joy while working. Perhaps this person constantly forces himself to be in a situation that is extremely unpleasant for him. The purpose of the part of the body in which varicose veins have arisen indicates in which area of life the problem should be looked for.
Mental block:
The stronger the feeling of heaviness (in your legs, for example), which is caused by diseased veins, the harder your life seems to you. It's time for you to understand that not everything in this life is defined by the word necessary. You can allow yourself to rest, relax, without blaming yourself. The quiet voice that always makes you work tirelessly is not the voice of your heart. Trust your heart, which knows your needs better. Choose what you want and what you love.
Dr. Valery V. Sinelnikov in his book “Love Your Disease” he writes about possible metaphysical causes of varicose veins:
Varicose veins often affect people who feel overwhelmed and overwhelmed. One of the reasons for the occurrence of this disease is the wrong direction in Life. Think about your profession. Does it allow you to unleash your creative potential? Or, on the contrary, does it slow down your development? If the latter is true, reconsider your attitude towards work. It should give you not only the opportunity to earn money, but also the joy of creativity, pleasure, and the opportunity for self-improvement.
Staying for a long time in a situation you hate can also lead to varicose veins. For example, dead-end family relationships.
A man and woman have been married for more than twenty years. He abuses alcohol, insults her, beats her. She carries the burden of family problems on herself. There has been no love and mutual understanding in the family for a long time. The woman is not satisfied with this situation, but she does not dare to take a decisive step and break off this relationship.
Another important reason is fear of the future. This fear becomes an obstacle to easy and free movement forward.
A young woman went to my wife for a massage for some time. She didn't work anywhere. Her husband was a big businessman, and she did not experience a lack of money. She looked great and the only thing that bothered her was the enlarged veins in her legs. The woman often talked about herself and her life. From her stories, the reasons for her illness became clear.
- Lyudmila, you know, I often think about what awaits me in the future. And for some reason I always feel fear and anxiety. I feel like something might happen to my husband. And then what will happen to me?
Louise Hay in his book “Heal Yourself”, he points out the main negative attitudes (leading to illness) and harmonizing thoughts (leading to healing) associated with the appearance and healing of varicose veins:
Staying in a situation you hate. Disapproval. Feeling overloaded and overwhelmed by work.
Harmonizing thoughts: I am friends with the truth, I live with joy and move forward. I love life and move freely in it.
DISLOCATION
Liz Burbo in his book “Your Body Says “Love Yourself!”” he writes about possible metaphysical causes of dislocation:
A dislocation is a persistent abnormal displacement of articular surfaces relative to each other, usually caused by a sudden movement. When a dislocation occurs, sharp intermittent pain occurs. The areas most susceptible to sprains are the ankles, knees and wrists.
Emotional blocking:
A dislocation occurs in a person who feels forced to go somewhere they don't want to go (legs) or do something they don't want to do (arms). He allows himself to be manipulated by others, pushes his limits, and gets angry because he can't say no to someone. He is afraid to break some rules, and a dislocation is a convenient reason for him to stop.
Mental block:
The dislocation speaks of the intensity of the suffering that you cause to yourself by stubbornly continuing to look at everything in your own way, that is, squeezing the world into the narrow framework of your rules. Try to be more flexible. Before you become outraged that others are trying to force you to do something against your will, try to analyze their motives.
Perhaps then you will either agree with them, or realize that you simply cannot live up to their expectations, and let them know about it. If you force yourself to move in a certain direction, find out what fear is driving you and how real this fear is. If you show more flexibility towards yourself and other people, it will be much easier for you to meet your needs.
SHIN (PAIN)
Liz Burbo in his book “Your Body Says “Love Yourself!”” he writes about possible metaphysical causes of lower leg pain:
The shin is the part of the leg between the knee and ankle. Lower leg pain usually occurs when a person is standing or walking.
Emotional blocking:
Obviously, shin pain interferes with moving forward, whether walking or running, so it is related to our attitude towards the future and our ability to move forward in life. Any pain in the lower leg indicates fear, which is caused either by encountering something new, or by the need to do something to achieve a goal. Such fear may be associated with a new job or love relationship.
If the lower leg hurts when a person is at rest, it means that he is not giving himself the opportunity to stop and prepare to move in a new direction. If your shin pain is the result of an ACCIDENT, see the relevant article in addition to this explanation.
Mental block:
If shin pain occurs while moving, your body is telling you that you are thinking too long before moving forward. These thoughts, or indecision, are caused by some kind of fears that help you avoid mistakes, but at the same time prevent you from experiencing some important and necessary experience for you. Try to gain faith in yourself and in this world - this will help you move to action faster and more confidently.
If pain in the lower leg occurs only at rest, then it means that you want to do too much, too quickly. Don't think people will think you're lazy or ungrateful if you give yourself a little break.
Louise Hay in his book “Heal Yourself”, he points out the main negative attitudes (leading to illness) and harmonizing thoughts (leading to healing) associated with the appearance and healing of problems with the lower leg:
The collapse of ideals. The shins symbolize life principles.
Harmonizing thoughts: I live with joy and love at the level of my highest requirements.
CAVIAR (PROBLEMS)
Liz Burbo in his book “Your Body Says Love Yourself!” he writes about possible metaphysical causes of calf problems:
The calf is a round muscle on the back of the lower leg, between the popliteal fossa and the ankle. See the article LEG (PAIN), with the addition that this part of the leg determines its strength, as well as the stability of the whole body when walking. Any problem in this place indicates that a person wants to move forward faster or more steadily, but some kind of fear is stopping him.
KNEE (PAIN)
Liz Burbo
The following description applies to all problems that can affect the natural functions of the knee, as well as pain in this joint.
Emotional blocking:
Pain or a problem in the knee that interferes with one of its functions is a sign of a lack of flexibility in relation to the future. Knee pain usually occurs in a vain and stubborn person who does not want to accept other people's ideas and advice. This attitude only harms him, since he deprives himself of the opportunity to find easier ways to secure his future. If the pain is caused by ARTHRITIS or ARTHROSIS, see also the relevant articles.
Mental block:
This pain helps you realize that you are not flexible enough. Don't forget that your body is always trying to warn you about things you may not be aware of. You do not want to accept new ideas and change your attitude towards your own future or the future of the people you love, because you are afraid of losing control over yourself or over the situation. You no longer have to believe that giving in means kneeling or submitting. Perhaps your lack of flexibility is because you are afraid of becoming like one of your parents. Know that you can live an independent life, regardless of your parents. But absolute independence does not exist; we all need someone's help from time to time.
Bodo Baginski and Sharamon Shalila in their book “Reiki - the universal energy of life” they write about possible metaphysical causes of knee problems:
If you internally cannot or do not want to bend - out of pride, stubbornness, selfishness or unconscious fear - then this manifests itself at the body level in inflexible, unbending knees. You can avoid unpleasant knee pain by developing tolerance and empathy, as well as the ability to forgive. Reiki helps wonderfully with this. If you can bow humbly inwardly, then your knees will soon begin to bend painlessly.
Louise Hay in his book “Heal Yourself”, he points out the main negative attitudes (leading to illness) and harmonizing thoughts (leading to healing) associated with the occurrence and healing of knee problems:
Stubbornness and pride. Inability to be a malleable person. Fear. Inflexibility. Reluctance to give in.
Harmonizing thoughts: Forgiveness. Understanding. Compassion. I give in and give in easily, and everything goes well.
Alexander Astrogor in his book “Confession of a Sore” he writes:
People who are overcome by pride have pain in their knees. If pride is a good quality, because a person should be proud of himself, of his profession or work, of his children, country, and so on, then pride is already a spiritual vice of a person, it is what hits a person in the knees...
Pride is when a person compares himself with someone, but in his own favor. At the same time, the person confidently says about himself that I am better than him (her), that he will not bring me to my knees, I will not crawl on my knees in front of him! In order for your knee to hurt, you don’t have to constantly compare yourself to another person. Sometimes it is enough to create emotional tension once, so that the knee or both at once receive an energy hole. But every time a person sees the object of his pride, a sharp pain will immediately remind him of itself. If the situation is released, forgotten, forgiveness is begged, then the knees stop hurting. It's that simple. It’s more difficult to remove your pride, your stubbornness, forgive, forget, not react...
Knees also hurt those who are arrogant, and therefore emphasize their superiority even more. In this case, it is no coincidence that people say that if you become arrogant, then life will bring you to your knees. But people see completely different reasons, saying that for many of them the problem with their knees is that the joints cannot cope with the load that a person’s weight represents, expressed in kilograms. No, it’s the weight and strength of your feelings that crush your soul so as not to break your spirit of stubbornness.
Having two knees: right and left, a person experiences pain in one of them, then in both at once. Why is this happening? No medicine, except karmic medicine, answers this question, and it explains it as follows. The fact is that each knee has its own energetic and mental causes, which include a painful reaction.
RIGHT KNEE - this is me with my problems, I don’t want and won’t do what they incline me to do. And sometimes it serves them right. For example, a person graduated from a university and worked for a long time at a factory, institute or somewhere else. But his job was cut, the plant went bankrupt, the institute collapsed, because no one needed his research. And the person is told: “Go sell newspapers, sell ice cream, etc.” And he replies: “Yes, I have a higher education, and I will never stoop to that!” He does not understand that it was his education that turned out to be of no use to anyone, just like himself, but at the same time pride hits him in the knees.
The right knee shows us a Protestant man with his own principles that do not correspond to reality. And the more stubborn he is, the more and longer his right knee will hurt.
From the above arguments, let’s move on to the facts, which, despite the ban on disclosing the disease, are easily reported by the media.
In March 1997, American President Bill Clinton was scheduled to meet in Helsinki with Russian President Boris Yeltsin. The meeting had to be postponed by one day, since a few days earlier Clinton had injured his right knee while going down the stairs. He had to urgently undergo surgery. The topic of the meeting: NATO expansion to the East. Clinton's sensual and emotional protest: not to bow to Russia - hit him on the right knee.
During the preparation for elections at different levels, some candidates begin to have problems with their knees. If a person puts pressure on others with his authority, name or position, then he will have problems with the menisci, usually on the right knee. How many artists and other famous people have problems not only with their right knee, but also with their left knee at the same time?
The front of the knee is covered by a knee pad called a cup. You are invited to a cup of coffee to resolve some mercantile issues, but you refuse due to your convictions, then your right knee will signal to you about that overly acute reaction that you, without showing it, suppressed in yourself.
LEFT KNEE is the world around me. It reacts to the people with whom a person lives or constantly communicates. Very often this is a psychological reaction of a husband to his wife, or vice versa, if one of them is constantly trying to subjugate the other (boss - subordinate). At the same time, education, position, money, or anything else is put on display to emphasize one’s superiority. An acute mental reaction of a person that you will not bring me to my knees leads to a disease in the left knee.
People with bad knees always feel aches and pains when the weather changes. This is similar to how our mood changes when we see a person: our soul becomes gloomy (the joy of life is lost), there is dampness in our eyes (tears), and aches as a protest against those who are trying to break us and subjugate us to their will.
The left knee can react painfully in any work group, when everyone is the same, but at the same time someone is exploiting someone, taking advantage of them. The person understands this, but cannot do anything, however, a painful reaction to these actions will cause pain in the left knee.
So it turns out that either you yourself will kneel (right knee), or you will be forced to kneel (left knee). But all this requires an acute mental reaction, which may end with the knee joint being replaced with an artificial one...
We put those we love on our knees, therefore, to relieve pain we need to put someone we love on our knees. It’s best if these are children and grandchildren, when playing with them you forget about the problems that constantly keep you in suspense. In the absence of loved ones, sit a cat or dog on your lap. Their medicinal properties have been known since ancient times...
KNEE (INWARD AND OUTWARD CURVATION)
Liz Burbo in his book “Your Body Says Love Yourself!” he writes about possible metaphysical causes of knee problems:
When the knee is bent inward, the axis of the leg is also shifted inward, and when the knee is bent outward, the axis of the leg is turned outward. The legs have an arched shape. See the article LEG (PAIN), with the addition that it is difficult for a person suffering from this anomaly to be straightforward and move straight towards the goal.
ANKLES (PROBLEMS)
Liz Burbo in his book “Your Body Says Love Yourself!” he writes about possible metaphysical causes of ankle problems:
See the article FOOT (PROBLEMS), with the addition that a person is not flexible enough in terms of the ability to act, to control the course of his life. If problems are related to an ACCIDENT, see the appropriate article.
CALLON ON THE FOOT OR HAND
Liz Burbo in his book “Your Body Says Love Yourself!” he writes about possible metaphysical causes of calluses:
A callus is a significant thickening of the epidermis. Calluses usually appear on the feet (on the soles of the feet or on the fingers) and on the hands in those places that are constantly or regularly exposed to mechanical irritation - pressure or friction.
Emotional blocking:
People who have calluses on their feet are very afraid of the future. They constantly restrain their natural impulses and desires, thus blocking their future. A callus on the hand has the same meaning, with the only difference being that fear relates more to the present than to the future.
Mental block:
A callus on your foot or hand means that you are not allowing yourself to do what you want to do. What fear is holding back your natural impulses? Fear of not being liked by the one you love? Maybe you are too demanding of yourself and therefore are constantly afraid of failure? Your body wants you to express all your abilities to the fullest and stop holding back the natural movements of your soul.
Louise Hay in his book “Heal Yourself”, he points out the main negative attitudes (leading to illness) and harmonizing thoughts (leading to healing) associated with the appearance and healing of calluses:
Hardened areas of thinking are a persistent desire to retain the pain of the past in consciousness. Ossified concepts and thoughts. Hardened fear.
Harmonizing thoughts: New paths and thoughts are completely safe. I free myself from the burden of the past and freely move forward. I'm safe. I enjoy freedom.
TOES (PROBLEMS)
Liz Burbo in his book “Your Body Says Love Yourself!” he writes about possible metaphysical causes of toe problems:
The following problems are associated with the toes: DEFORMATION, FRACTURE, CRAMPS, CALLUS, WOUND and INGROWN NAIL.
Emotional blocking:
Since the feet symbolize our movement in life, the toes are associated with how we perceive the elements of this movement. Most toe problems prevent us from walking easily and freely, so they say that a person creates unnecessary fears for himself that prevent him from moving forward or perceiving his future. He is especially worried about all sorts of little things that prevent him from seeing the situation as a whole. They say about such people “they can’t see the forest for the trees.” Eventually he completely loses touch with his desires, and his forward progress gradually slows down.
The big toes are most often affected (for example, by ingrown toenails). Since the thumb indicates direction, problems with it indicate feelings of guilt or regret associated with the chosen direction or the direction that the person is planning to take. This guilt will definitely affect his future.
If we are talking about a FRACTURE, CRAMP, or CALLUS, see the relevant articles in this book.
Mental block:
Problems with your toes mean you need to get back in touch with your desires and your vision for the future without getting distracted by minor details. Understand that all people experience fear of the unknown and that only those who do nothing make mistakes. By focusing on details, you slow down your progress and block your own desires. Also, know that no matter what your decision is about the future, regret only creates more fears. There are no mistakes, there is only experience that will be useful to you in the future.
Louise Hay in his book “Heal Yourself”, he points out the main negative attitudes (leading to illness) and harmonizing thoughts (leading to healing) associated with the appearance and healing of toe problems:
They symbolize minor details of the future.
Harmonizing thoughts: Everything will be resolved by itself. I have a calm attitude towards the little things in life.
HEEL (PAIN)
Liz Burbo in his book “Your Body Says Love Yourself!” he writes about possible metaphysical causes of heel pain:
The heel is the back of the foot on which the leg rests when walking. Heel pain very often occurs for no apparent physical reason.
Emotional blocking:
Pain in the heel indicates that a person wants to move forward towards his goals, but hesitates because he feels a lack of support and support. A person of this type cannot take action without someone's consent or permission. He doesn't dare admit to himself that he wants someone to step on his toes. When he acts without the approval of Other people, he feels guilty. Without support, he is unable not only to move forward, but even to remain in place.
Mental block:
Your heel tells you that you can make decisions and move forward based only on yourself. You are your own best support, which you should count on. You should no longer believe that you can love or be loved only if your views completely coincide with the views of the people around you, those whose love you seek. There is not a single pair of people in this world who would agree with each other on absolutely everything. If we all thought and felt exactly the same, life would be unbearably boring. Understand that no one is obligated to support all your plans, but you are not obligated to support all the endeavors of those you love. And one more thing: let someone step on your heels, but you must move forward on your own under any conditions.
FOOT (PROBLEMS)
Liz Burbo in his book “Your Body Says Love Yourself!” he writes about possible metaphysical causes of foot problems:
The foot is the lower part of the leg that allows a person to walk, stand, etc. There are so many different problems associated with the feet that there is a whole separate branch of medicine that deals exclusively with the study of the foot. If the problem is with one of the bones in your foot, see BONE (PROBLEMS) and the description below.
Emotional blocking:
Since the feet are associated with walking, they symbolize forward movement and development. Problems with the feet indicate that a person is not developing and is not moving forward. He either feels some kind of fear that stops him, or he allows others to hold back his development. He is not confident in himself and cannot give his life the desired direction. Problems with the feet can also arise if a person feels stuck and is marking time in one place. But this could also be a person who is not firmly attached to the earth or the physical world and would like to escape from reality. Some false fears force him to leave the material world for the spiritual world or the world of fantasy. Pain in the foot often haunts a person who is afraid that he may be kicked, that is, fired or otherwise removed from performing some functions. If the pain in the foot intensifies at rest, this indicates that the person does not allow himself to rest. He is in too much of a hurry to achieve his goal, makes too much effort, because he evaluates himself in accordance with what and how he can do.
Mental block:
The foot is a very important part of your physical body. Your feet support you and allow you to move forward. They tell you that you should move briskly and easily, without straining. Your feet are constantly in contact with our caring Mother Earth, so problems with them indicate that you must stand firmly on your feet, be here and now, trust the world and your intuition. Move forward boldly and without hesitation use the means that you consider necessary for this movement. Don't let others step on your toes. This way you will accumulate a wealth of experience and discover new abilities in yourself. Feel confident and Life will support you.
Bodo Baginski and Sharamon Shalila in their book “Reiki - the universal energy of life” they write about possible metaphysical causes of foot problems:
Foot problems are generally similar to leg problems. If, for example, the toes are affected, then the problem relates to some details of the future. And here we are dealing with a certain fear of the future, caused by an insufficient understanding of the laws of life. Foot problems are a clear indication of this when your feet do not allow you to step forward effortlessly. Often problems with the feet indicate too rapid volitional progress, which is somewhat inhibited in this way. Understand that progress always arises from the interaction of two poles - activity and rest. Follow your body's demands and consciously enter the resting stage. Find within yourself that inner silence from which truth and understanding, as well as love and strength, grow. Then you can move forward with joy again.
The search and research into metaphysical (subtle, mental, emotional, psychosomatic, subconscious, deep) causes of leg problems continues. This material is constantly being updated. We ask readers to write their comments and send additions to this article. To be continued!
Bibliography:
- Louise Hay. “Heal yourself”, “How to heal your life”.
- Lazarev S. N. “Diagnostics of Karma” (books 1-12) and “Man of the Future.”
- Valery Sinelnikov. “Love your illness.”
- Liz Burbo. “Your body says: “Love yourself!”
- Torsunov O. G. “The connection of diseases with character. Human vital energy."
- Bodo Baginski, Sharamon Shalila. "Reiki is the universal energy of life."
- Alexander Astrogor “Confession of a Sore.”
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There is some level of alienation. For example, when siblings get married, they grow apart as their loyalties go to their new families. Although they will remain close enough to work through problems and share minor interests, they will not be able to pursue large projects together. Simply put, when people grow apart—even for the most natural reasons—their perspectives, values, and interests diverge.
Different natures and interests bring opposition into the world of human affairs. If the opposition drifts in alienation and hostility, then it does not produce good results. But when opposition takes the form of healthy competition, or when it is just part of the natural order of things and is accepted as such, success in relationships is still possible.
When divergent interests make a situation seem stagnant or futile, remember that there are always creative possibilities inherent in polarity. One of them recalls the interaction of opposites, yin and yang, which is fundamental to life itself. And as the Tao symbol illustrates, yin and yang have the seed of the other living within them.
When opposition has its roots in issues of principle, stick to your integrity and individuality. Let go of vulgar people who do not share your values. For both people and companies, one of the indicators of growth is the quality of competition.
Interpretation of lines:
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Trying to correct estrangements caused by small misunderstandings can lead to situations similar to those of a man whose horse ran away from the barn. If a man runs after a horse in a futile attempt to capture him, the horse runs faster and further. But if the man simply returns home, the matter will be settled quite easily, because the horse will return to the barn when he becomes hungry or thirsty. Let go and resolve minor disputes; and let the other person come back on his own. Overstepping your authority in small disputes may further improve your goal but complicate the reconciliation process. Caution is warranted against negative people who may have imposed themselves on you; perhaps their appearance in your life is an accidental misunderstanding. In this case, active intervention is likely to create hostility and cause more problems. The best course of action for now is to simply bear with them until they eventually go away on their own.
This is a difficult time to meet people in your circle with whom you have misunderstandings. However, if you have a chance to meet "by chance", it may be possible to compromise, provided that there is an internal closeness between you. This can only happen if you let go of mistrust and allow yourself to be open to the feelings of the other.
This is the line of Murphy's Law: "Everything that could go wrong, went wrong." Sometimes it may seem as if the Universe is against you, but when the opposition to progress reaches its climax, a revelation soon occurs. When luck is out, the best strategy may be to team up with someone whose luck is better than your current one. With the right attitude and persistence, luck eventually returns.
If you find yourself in a group of people with whom you have little in common, the seeds of opposition can turn into personal isolation. In such circumstances, the ideal solution is to find someone with whom you share deep interests and whom you can trust. By acquiring a good friend or partner, internal opposition can be overcome.
When someone with genuine intentions seems against you at first, look deeper. It may be that you have misjudged this person or that you have somehow erred in your own views or behavior. In this world, sincere people must meet openly; how can this be a mistake?
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Alienation can arise from an inability to perceive the world clearly. Overly defensive people often attribute sinister motives to others, even those who would be their friends. This kind of thinking leads to isolation. All that is needed to reverse this cycle is to observe the world more carefully, without prejudice, and to be honest about the possible mistakes about ourselves. This will lead to increased self-esteem, which can damage the very root of the problem. Those who think well of others tend to feel good about themselves, and vice versa.