Family, or rather, systemic family constellations by Bert Hellinger(considered the founder) refer to methods that can help a person solve many, not only family, issues.
How do Hellinger family constellations work?
The person who came with the request places the group members himself or with the help of a therapist in the role of substitutes for his loved ones, telling his situation along the way. In the process of constellation, deputies feel what the client’s relatives have experienced or are experiencing, for example, love, resentment, uselessness. With the help of group members (including a psychotherapist), the client has the opportunity to look at the situation from the outside and largely solve his problems.
This view and a number of intermediate steps in the therapy process help to find a way out of the situation. A picture-solution remains in the mind in the form of the words of the therapist, substitutes and their placement. This serves as a resource for changes in a person’s future life.
To become more familiar with the method, we recommend studying the basic concepts of constellations in specialized literature (since their interpretation will take more than one page). The foundation can be articles by Bert himself and his followers, G. Weber, F. Ruppert and others. The method has much in common with such therapeutic techniques as psychodrama, family sculpture by V. Satir and some others.
It is worth noting that the arrangements in each individual case, although they have a “Hellinger” basis, differ from each other. The reason is that constellations-psychotherapists work differently. The diversity of approaches, in turn, is explained by the fact that family constellations are a practical method. Constellations do not have a theoretical basis in their classical, scientific version. That is why there is no unambiguity among psychologists in assessing the methodology. Some experts classify constellations as spiritual practices, and some as psychotherapeutic ones. But let's focus on the main question - do the arrangements work? If yes, then in what cases?
When to say “yes” to constellations
Therapists and clients themselves note that the method is very powerful. A session (arrangement of one situation) is carried out once, unlike most other techniques, work with which sometimes lasts for years. Even being only in the role of an observer, many people receive a very deep impression, even to the point of transforming their life positions. For the same reason, the technique in some cases (we will consider them a little later) is not recommended.
Most problems in any person's life are rooted in the family. Murders, expulsions (and psychological ones as well), abortions, violation of the hierarchy in the family (even in its distant past) are the root cause of many phenomena in human life. Incomprehensible feelings, inexplicable actions, dual relationships, failures, conflicts, illnesses (especially chronic ones). All this can be sorted out, the reason and explanation can be found, and most importantly, the solution, in the constellations.
An example from practice: a son sharply withdrew into himself, although there had been no events in his life before this. The mother at the constellation wants to know what to do. During the work, it turns out that she had an abortion long before the birth of her son. The reason is the unsettled life and young age, 18 years. The aborted child, pushed out of the system and forgotten, demands attention through the real one. When the mother admits her guilt, mentally asks for forgiveness from the unborn, and accepts it, the eighteen-year-old son soon tells his mother about an incomprehensible suicidal desire that passed as unexpectedly as it appeared.
Five “no”s to formations
2. If available fresh psychological trauma(rape, humiliation, deep resentment, conflict, moving, natural disaster), therapists do not recommend going to constellations even as an observer. The stressful state to which the participants in the constellation succumb is already present in a person’s everyday life. Additional psychological stress can only worsen the situation.
3. Acute grief(unexpected death of a loved one, separation, serious illness) are also among the conditions in which it is better not to carry out constellations. Why? A person, being in acute grief, cannot distance himself from the current situation. Sometimes trying to “look from the outside” can intensify feelings or offend the client. Therefore, experienced qualified constellations survey participants before conducting therapy to exclude the risk group.
4. Exacerbation of psychiatric illness. Constellations are among the techniques for mentally healthy people. Psychiatric illnesses may worsen if the patient is a participant in constellations.
5. Purely out of curiosity It’s also better not to participate in therapy. If a person goes to a constellation without a request or makes it up, then not only the client himself, but also his deputies find themselves in an incomprehensible or untruthful situation. In most cases, the constellator stops such sessions when he realizes that curiosity will not provide therapeutic benefit.
conclusions
Any psychotherapeutic method is based on the fact that the client works on the issue independently. The therapist’s task is to help, guide, but not decide. Arrangements are also built using the same principle. If the client has a desire to change something, systemic family constellations according to Hellinger can contribute to this. At the same time, it is worth remembering the words of Paracelsus that everything is poison and at the same time medicine. Sometimes only constellations can help, and sometimes they are the ones you should avoid.
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How often do we hear terms that are not entirely clear. For example, “Hellinger arrangement” - what is it? Let's start with the fact that the author of this method, Bert Hellinger, is a famous German psychologist, philosopher, teacher and practitioner. His works are relatively young and aimed at solving human problems.
What did Hellinger study?
The scientist formulated some laws and patterns that lead to undesirable events and conflicts between spouses or colleagues. Hellinger worked for a long time on the following questions: “How does the adoption of feelings occur? How does conscience (personal or family) influence an individual’s lifestyle? Is there a system that governs the relationship?” In fact, these are just a few of Burt's many teachings.
Today, his arrangements are becoming more and more in demand. Using this method, a large number of people were able to find the origins of their troubles and eradicate them. Many practicing psychotherapists are increasingly using Hellinger constellations in their work with groups, couples or individually.
“Arrangement” is the individual’s place in space. The method itself resembles a game of chess. That is, each participant is assigned a specific role, which reflects his subconscious image in a situation that requires elaboration. This can be not only a family situation, but also problems in the team, failures in business.
Arrangement method according to Bert Hellinger. Start of session
So, a man comes to a psychotherapist with a pressing problem. To begin with, the specialist has a short conversation with him, during which he decides whether he needs an arrangement or whether everything is much simpler. After all, you can guide a person with ordinary everyday advice - and his life will return to normal. But when the situation is complicated, a more detailed conversation is held with the client.
To begin with, the problem itself is highlighted. For example, in this case, a man drinks, his wife nags him every day and believes that all family problems are related to alcoholism. The man, in turn, does not think so. After all, before his marriage he did not drink so much alcohol.
The therapist asks the client to talk about his lifestyle. Hellinger constellations require a systematic consideration of the problem. That is, it is important to understand what each spouse does all day, what kind of relationship they have in general, and what causes conflicts. Finally, individuals appear as themselves in family life or play someone else’s roles.
The specialist examines the parents of the husband and his wife separately. How did they behave with each other in the family? If it turns out that on the man’s side, the father and mother lived in perfect harmony and there were no problems with alcoholism, then the greatest attention is paid to the wife’s relatives.
Having previously sorted it out during the first conversation, the specialist recommends that the man come to the next appointment with his wife. After all, the root of evil is most likely in her, and it is impossible to get rid of it without her participation.
After all, she didn’t have a good family life, and she always asked her daughter: “Look, all men are the same. Your father is just like everyone else. He drinks and brings home pennies.” With these imposed thoughts, the daughter grows up and involuntarily notices only negative traits in the men around her.
Nevertheless, the girl begins to date a guy she likes. Soon our heroine marries him, but after a while it seems to her that her husband is not “her man” at all. No matter what he does, everything seems negative to her.
It would seem that the chosen one is not so bad, his positive traits outweigh his shortcomings. But the woman continues to maintain internal aggressiveness and sends him negativity at the energetic level. The man catches this signal, realizes that his partner despises him, and gradually begins to seek solace in alcohol. This helps him forget for a while, but the problem remains.
The following actions
The Hellinger method of constellations involves playing roles. The psychotherapist suggests that the couple play out a certain situation. For example, he asks a woman to describe how she behaves in the workplace. The patient comments on her work behavior, communication with colleagues, and it turns out that at work she is “white and fluffy.”
What changes when she crosses the threshold of the house? Why does a husband irritate a woman just by his appearance? A couple re-enacts a fight in front of a therapist. The wife tells her husband her usual phrase: “If only I would stop drinking, and everything would get better.”
From this point on, the specialist asks the couple to stop. Systemic-family constellations according to Hellinger require timely concentration on an important point. In the case of this couple, that time has come.
The therapist says to the couple: "Let's try to understand the source of the problem that forces one of you to drink." Next, all the reasons contributing to this are crossed out. For example, the following are excluded: big money problems, conflicts in the workplace for men, health problems. What remains?
The patient openly admits that he is oppressed by the eternal dissatisfaction of his wife, who constantly finds fault with something or, conversely, remains silent and avoids marital intimacy. In this case, the partner suffers from a lack of feminine energy.
Often, due to a lack of love for their partner or out of a sense of resentment, female representatives punish their chosen one in this way. They actively sublimate their energy into caring for children or burden themselves with household responsibilities. While the spouse is trying to get some kind of positive attitude by drinking alcohol. A vicious circle arises.
In the future, Hellinger constellations imply an in-depth study of the problem. In this case, the psychotherapist will try to instill in the woman the idea of the need to eradicate the attitude that her mother unwittingly set.
By her behavior, the wife provokes the man to drink alcohol; in fact, she forces him to play the role of her alcoholic father. If, along with this, the woman still has some kind of resentment towards her husband, then during the session it is proposed to get rid of it. “It is important to free yourself from negativity,” emphasizes Bert Hellinger. Family constellations offer many techniques in this regard.
In fact, the whole process is not as simple as it seems at first glance. In the story of this married couple, the specialist will have to give the heroes new “roles”, and so that there is an even exchange of energies between them.
The impact of egregor on humans
After a constellation session, you may wonder: “How did it happen that I began to play a role that was not my own in life? Why did I speak with someone else’s thoughts?” In fact, few people think about whether they really do what they want and whether they live the way they want.
In most cases, it turns out that we borrow our daily thoughts, feelings and actions from the people around us: our own family, team and society as a whole. In other words, a certain energy-information space (egregor) has a direct impact on the personality.
Each society (collective) is subject to a certain value system. The influence of egregor can be both positive and negative. Everyone develops their own value system. For example, a church egregor seeks to influence people through sermons.
And any terrorist organization creates its own egregor by manipulating the consciousness of participants with a certain theory. Sometimes stronger individuals can create their own egregors and influence others. Such an individual should be the most energy-intensive, since his task is to lead and influence, that is, to manage many energy flows. Egregors are written in detail in one of Bert’s works called “Arrangements according to Hellinger.” The book tells us that often the root of the problem can be in the values of life that are passed down through the family.
Life stories
The family clan is a system that has its own specific tasks. And family members (mother, father, son, daughter) are elements that must perform their functions. What happens if someone gets knocked out of the system? For example, the son did not want to become a military man despite the family dynasty. And my father really wanted this.
In this case, the son’s function may be redistributed among other family members or replayed: the daughter marries an officer. The father is incredibly happy, tries to establish strong contact with his son-in-law and shares plans for the future to continue the military tradition.
The German psychotherapist’s method deeply touches on the problem of the older and younger generations. Can the Hellinger constellation help everyone? Reviews about this vary. However, most agree that generic egregors can have a negative impact on descendants.
For example, a young woman is deeply unhappy in her marriage. It would seem that all methods of resuscitating relationships are ineffective, rudeness and violence reign in the family. There is only one way out - divorce. But the older generation of this woman unanimously repeats: “There were no divorced people in our family. This is not accepted among us and is considered a disgrace.”
That is, this woman’s generic egregor dictates its principles to her and demands submission. Only a complete rethinking and rejection of the role of “victim” will help such an individual make an important decision and start a new life.
Aggression is inherited
Systemic constellations according to Hellinger help many couples and individuals deeply understand the origins of evil. Let's give a simple example of a problem with which men often turn to psychotherapists.
So, a pretend young man came to see a psychologist. He could not understand his behavior towards women. After numerous divorces, he was faced with the fact that his chosen ones were leaving because of his unmotivated aggression.
In all other areas of life, the man seemed positive. During a conversation with a specialist, it turned out that the man had once “unconsciously” tuned into a program of revenge. How did this come about?
As a rule, in such a situation it turns out that the patient grew up in a family where the father was constantly humiliated and suppressed by his wife. The boy could not resist his mother to protect his father. Thus, as he grew older, the young man developed his own plan (a program of revenge).
This led to the fact that, while in relationships with girls, he periodically felt fierce hatred towards them. Whenever the right opportunity came, he took out his anger on them with his fists. Bert Hellinger's arrangement should show the man that these feelings do not belong to him. They are inspired and fixed in the mind from distant childhood. But the client’s situation is different, and the girls have a different character than his mother.
And most importantly, he can become happy only when he realizes this and begins to change. This is a gradual process. Much depends on the natural temperament of the individual. For some, 2 sessions are enough, while for others, several will be needed. The method of arrangement according to Bert Hellinger is unique in that by knowing family systems (orders), a person can not only avoid failures in life, but also protect the future generation from them.
How does the group method work?
We will be talking about group sessions. The phenomenon of these sessions is that a group of people experience the roles of actors in a client's problem. The situations can be different: a person cannot find a partner, is constantly sick or experiences financial difficulties, although there are no good reasons for this.
The Hellinger arrangement method is difficult to explain in detail, but it happens according to the following scenario: appropriate roles are distributed among the participants. And they begin to feel similar emotions of the person asking for help. The phenomenon received the term “substitute perception”.
That is, there is a transfer of internal images from the client to all participants and to the space in which the arrangement takes place. People selected for specific roles are called "deputies." During the session, they evaluate their condition out loud, trying to restore the problematic situation.
Systemic constellations according to Hellinger help the main person to unravel the tangle of his conflict situations, build the correct hierarchy and restore energy balance. The work is built by moving “substitutes” into the field of arrangement thanks to various rituals.
The session can be considered successful if all participants do not feel discomfort. And - most importantly - the client should experience physical and psychological relief. The arrangement method according to Bert Hellinger forces you to fully activate different levels of perception: emotional, mental, auditory, tactile.
What does this method do?
As a result, the individual receives a new look at his problem, acquiring a different model of behavior. Of course, the best way to evaluate the technique is to take part in a group session yourself. It is real experience that will help you find out how it works in practice.
Nowadays, many have already heard about such a method as Hellinger arrangement. There are also negative reviews about it. But despite this, the popularity of this method is growing. After all, the range of sessions is quite extensive - it includes psychotherapy, medicine, pedagogy, and even esotericism.
All information received during the sessions is confidential. In order to take part in group work, there must be motivation and a conscious desire. Today it is not difficult to find a Hellinger arrangement group. In Moscow, the number of fans of this method is constantly growing, as it is recognized as professional.
Constellation using Tarot cards
Finally, we come to the part that leaves an esoteric imprint on the method of the German psychotherapist. The fact is that not every person can come to a group of people and openly talk about their problem. In this case, the individual can participate in a group session, but at his request, a hidden arrangement takes place. That is, the client himself controls the openness of information. An excellent way out of this situation is Bert Hellinger's arrangement using Tarot cards.
In this case, the deck serves as a tool for diagnosing the ongoing process. The client is asked the question: “What is the essence of your problem?” A person selects a card without looking and describes what he saw on it. “Deputies” are also selected following the selected arcana.
According to his problem, the client, with the help of the facilitator's prompts, shows each participant where to stand and what to do. The next stage is the emotional experience of the situation. “Deputies” exchange impressions: “I just thought that...”, “I got the feeling that...”
At this moment the client is also included in the process. He listens to the opinions of all participants and takes the place of the one who hurt his emotions the most. And, based on the new role, he pronounces the words that he considers important.
The arrangement ends with a survey of each participant. Despite the fact that the client’s problem is being played out, the “substitutes” are also under the close attention of the psychotherapist. It is important for him to know how this or that person felt in someone else’s role, what he experienced and what conclusions he drew.
Also, the specialist can evaluate the diagnostics on the cards - was it possible to fully provide assistance to the client or did the system not fully disclose the situation? After all, the customer is not immediately able to objectively evaluate the session. He will need time for this.
Individual arrangement
Is it possible to conduct a similar session yourself? It's possible. After all, not everyone has the opportunity or desire to work in a group. In this case, it is possible to perform Hellinger placement independently.
True, for this you should become closely acquainted with the theory of the Bert Helling method. And it is important to understand the interpretation of Tarot cards at a professional level. So, the problem is identified, and the role of “deputies” will be played by cards. The work is divided into three stages.
First, you should choose cards: yourself and “deputies”. Next, you need to lay out the remaining cards as your intuition suggests. Then open them one by one and collect information from each, putting it together into the overall picture.
The second stage depends on the question posed. If it concerns a family, then the cards of ancestors should be laid out on top, descendants - on the bottom. If necessary, you can take additional cards if in doubt. During the process, it is necessary to move "deputies" as would happen with real people. It is recommended to listen to your physical and psychological sensations.
The third stage is completion. This happens when a person experiences satisfaction from a lost situation. Based on the result of the interpretation, only the client can decide whether he has worked through his problem.
To a less-initiated person it may seem that this was a fortune-telling session. But this is far from true. The individual method of arrangement using Tarot is shown only to professionals. Others are advised to use this method under the guidance of a qualified psychotherapist.
Hellinger constellations are a fairly young short-term method of psychotherapy that is effective in solving any problems.
Its author is the German psychotherapist Bert Hellinger. Bert Hellinger himself called his method(neat. Familien-stellen). In Russia it is often called Hellinger Constellations or Family Constellations.
The name conveys the very essence of the method - the placement of substitute family members in space in order to see and correct hidden family dynamics.
The Hellinger method of constellations was originally developed by Bert Hellinger
To solve problems in the family,
But later it turned out that it was effective
in solving any problems.
Based on his research and practical work with people, Bert Hellinger discovered that family trauma is the cause of almost any problem: health, work, money, family relationships, accidents, and so on.
By healing the family trauma - the root cause of the problem - the problem itself can be resolved.
So, Mikhail K. came to our center for a Hellinger constellation regarding the loss of business during the crisis. As it turned out during the arrangement, the crisis had nothing to do with it.
His paternal ancestors were nobles and lost all their property during the revolution. Having lost his business, Mikhail showed loyalty to his great-grandfather (“I’m like you, great-grandfather, I also lost everything”).
After the Hellinger constellation, with a successful combination of circumstances, Mikhail opened a new business.
Of course, we cannot change the past during the constellation, but we can rethink everything and free ourselves from repeating someone else’s fate.
Bert Hellinger made an important discovery: descendants bear the burden of their ancestors, repeating their difficult fates not as punishment, but out of love for them. And he found effective ways to free himself from this burden.
A person’s problem can lie in any area of life, but its cause is rooted in his past (his parental family) or in his family.
Therefore, you can come to Hellinger constellations with any problem and solve any problem.
HELLINGER ARRANGEMENT STEPS
1) Request.You come with your request - a problem you want to solve. At our center “5 YES!” you communicate your request only to the arranger; the rest of the participants know nothing about it.
2) Arrangementin the space of important figures (the arranger will tell you which figures need to be placed).
3) Diagnosis of the situation.
4) Correction of the situationinvolves the arranger’s search for the best solution using special technology.
DIAGNOSTICS OF THE SITUATION using HELLINGER ARRANGEMENTS
The Hellinger Arrangement method is currently one of the best ways to diagnose any situation.
Sometimes we do not see the whole situation, we do not understand the motives of other people, we do not realize the cause of the problem, and that is why we cannot make the necessary decision. Or we make mistakes after mistakes, “stepping on the same rake,” and don’t understand what’s going on. The principle “We wanted the best, but it turned out as always” manifests itself quite often in life.
On Hellinger arrangement there is an opportunity to look at the situation from a different angle, to see what was not noticed or realized before, to understand the reasons why everything does not work out the way you want...
Perhaps something that you think has long been forgotten still has an impact on your life.
It often happens that we are prevented from resolving a situation by something from our past or the past of our family, from our generic scenario - something that we do not realize, do not know, and do not even know about it.
We don't always know how much family history and parental script influence our destiny. But you’ve probably noticed that in some families, illnesses and problems, and even destinies are passed on from parents to children.
Alexey D. abused alcohol and could not stop drinking. His father and grandfather also drank.
The root cause of the problem lay in my grandfather's past. He was in Nazi captivity and miraculously escaped. Then the former prisoner of war ended up in Siberia as a traitor to the Motherland. Alexei’s grandfather did not accept his difficult fate, the injustice of grief and the suffering of his fellow sufferers, and against this background he began to drink.
His son, and then his grandson, unknowingly “helped him carry the heavy load.”
Alexey was amazed: “So that’s why I sing songs of the war years when I drink!”
After the arrangement, he felt that the craving for alcohol and singing military songs decreased, and then completely disappeared. He can sometimes drink on a holiday or when meeting with friends, but the need to “drink wine” on grief and unbearable mental pain has disappeared, since the pain itself has disappeared.
On Hellinger arrangement you can discover long-forgotten things that happened in your life (in your childhood or youth) and the lives of your ancestors, and realize how your family influences your life.
Nadezhda R. suffered from excess weight, the cause of which was food addiction. She couldn’t start eating right; she was craving flour and sweets, especially before bed. And she came to us at the “5 YES!” Center. for a Hellinger constellation with a request to work on food addiction.
The arrangement revealed that her great-grandmother had two children die of hunger during the war, in her sleep at night.
Nadezhda knew this tragic story, but did not realize that the basis of her food addiction was the fear of dying of hunger, and in her sleep. That is why she ate at night and often got up at night to eat.
After the arrangement, the food addiction went away, Nadezhda adjusted her diet.
Using Hellinger constellations, you will be able to see what is happening in your soul, understand the reasons for your failures, realize how events that happened in your family affect your life, and, if necessary, change it, adjust it, and make the situation harmonious.
As a rule, everyone who comes to constellations has their own version of the cause of the problem. This is what you are aware of. And often your version does not coincide with the reason identified in the Hellinger constellation.
In most cases, the Hellinger constellation shows you a reason that you did not even suspect, something that you were not aware of.
CORRECTION OF THE SITUATION
AT HELLINGER ARRANGEMENTS
Using Hellinger constellations, you can find the most successful solution to your problem and model the most acceptable development of the situation for you.
Hellinger constellations are by far the fastest method for solving generic and family problems.
In 90% of cases the problem is solved in one arrangement.
The methods for correcting the situation in Hellinger formations may seem strange to some. Often these are certain phrases, rearrangement of figures in space, some rituals, for example, bowing. Nevertheless, these methods are very effective and affect the deep processes in your soul.
At the end of the Hellinger arrangement, a solution image is created. All the deputies are in their places, and everyone feels good. Often, a sigh passes through the entire dispersed family, and there is a clear sense of relief.
If you perceive and remember the image-decision as correct, then this image will become a great force for you, shaping your life. In a stressful situation, an unconscious or conscious memory of the image-solution of the arrangement will help you.
People with different problems come to Hellinger constellations.
Some people have financial difficulties, some have problems at work, in their family, in their personal lives, with health, and some don’t have love.
Some have had difficult life situations that still affect their lives.
Some are tormented by fears, guilt, anxiety, depression.
Some have had tragic events in their family (suicide, incest, repression, accidents, imprisonment), and they feel that this somehow affects their lives.
FEATURES OF THE HELLINGER ARRANGEMENT METHOD
1) Hellinger arrangement phenomenonlies in the fact that any person, finding himself in a certain place in the system (as a deputy), perceives and feels everything based on this role. This phenomenon is called "vicarious perception."
In the process of family constellation, deputies voice their state (both emotional and physical), move in space, following the movements of the soul, which helps the psychologist conducting the family constellation to identify “family dynamics” and understand what is happening in this system.
2) On Hellinger arrangement You can work on your relationships with other people without their presence.
3) Hellinger arrangement may not reproduce the situation exactly as you see and understand it. Hellinger constellations reveal something hidden, often something that is not realized or has long been forgotten, but from the angle of your stated request.
Let’s say in the constellation you can see your hidden conflict with your husband, which you are not even aware of.
Or discover that between you and your husband there is your aborted child, which you have long forgotten about.
4) Each Hellinger arrangement unique and new. No two family constellations are the same.
5) Your request in Hellinger arrangement may only apply to your situation or the situation of your child, but not to the situation of your husband, mother, sister, aunt, grandmother. In a family constellation, you can resolve relationships with your husband, mother, sister, aunt, grandmother and other relatives, but not solve their problems.
6) In the Hellinger arrangement the best solution is sought for you, and not for all members of your system, for example, for brothers and sisters, grandparents. But your Hellinger placement has a beneficial effect on all family members, even without their participation.
So, Natalya K. came to our center for a constellation with the request that her 5-year-old daughter’s hair was not growing.
She and four generations of women in her family on her mother’s side had problems with poor hair growth and early baldness.
After the Hellinger arrangement, hair began to grow not only on my daughter, but also on Natalya, her mother, and even her 85-year-old grandmother.
7) Hellinger arrangement is not done to convince anyone of anything or to explain something. In a family constellation, there is no need to look for logical conclusions or cause-and-effect explanations. It is important to perceive the arrangement through your feelings, not your head.
8) Hellinger constellations help regardless of whether you believe in this method or not. They help even the most notorious skeptics.
9) In one Hellinger arrangement, only one problem is solved (one request).
10) Although you can feel the effect of the Hellinger constellation immediately (people say “I immediately felt better”), its positive effect continues for another year, often increasing.
CONTRAINDICATIONS TO ARRANGEMENTS
BY HELLINGER
Hellinger placements are contraindicated out of curiosity (don’t touch what doesn’t hurt).
You cannot do a Hellinger arrangement with the same request earlier than 3 months later, even with different presenters, especially with the goal of redoing or double-checking something. The situation may worsen, since the first arrangement has not yet taken effect.
It is contraindicated to do placements in the postoperative period; recover first.
An exacerbation of cardiovascular diseases is also a contraindication, since a person during the arrangement may experience strong feelings that are released due to the arrangement.
Another contraindication: acute psychotic state. Come to constellations during the period of remission.
During pregnancy, Hellinger constellations are performed only in cases of urgent need.
WHICH OUT OF SEVERAL REQUEST FOR HELLINGER ARRANGEMENT IS BETTER TO CHOOSE?
Always choose the request that worries you most right now.
If you have a question after the Hellinger arrangement, what to do now, then most likely you are used to controlling everything and everyone.
WHAT TO DO AFTER THE HELLINGER ARRANGEMENT
Mentally thank all your family members and other people who were involved in the arrangement. You can light candles for them (believers can do this in church).
You can memorize (draw or briefly write down in your notebook) the image-solution. But this is optional.
Don't worry or obsess over the results of the Hellinger alignment, just let it go.
In the first three days after the Hellinger constellation, do not tell anyone about what happened in it, keep it in your soul.
There is no need to discuss, evaluate, or criticize anything with anyone. This reduces the effectiveness of the Hellinger arrangement.
Accept your arrangement as it was, even if you don’t agree with something, you didn’t like something, and save the image-decision in your soul.
HOW MANY TIMES CAN YOU DO HELLINGER ARRANGEMENTS?
It depends on your wants and needs. Some come to several constellation classes in a row, others do Hellinger constellations periodically at different intervals.
The number of Hellinger arrangements on different topics is unlimited.
But you cannot repeat the arrangement with the same request earlier than after 3 months, since it takes time for it to take effect.
If your request is ripe, you can safely come to the Hellinger constellation.
In general, listen to yourself, your soul.
DO YOU HAVE A REQUEST?
This part is intended for those who are familiar with the method of constellations according to B. Hellinger and may want to expand the swap capabilities using Simbolon, as well as for those who know the cards and are interested in constellations.
First, you need to say a few words about the method of arrangement according to Bert Hellinger.
The client’s request for an arrangement can concern any area of life: both external events and situations, and internal experiences - doubts, various feelings and emotions.
B. Hellinger looks at the causes of the client's problems and ways to solve them from the point of view of the system in which the person is included. It can be a family, a work team, a certain community of people in which he is involved, up to large social groups. The inner world of a person can also be considered as a system. The theory of the method provides a clear definition of the concept of a system and formulates the laws operating in it, discovered by B. Hellinger.
The idea of the method is that since a life or internal situation is not resolved, then the reason may be violations of the laws of the system. These processes are unconscious; sometimes a person is not even aware of the “wrongness” of what is happening.
In the constellation, such violations are revealed and corrected to the extent possible at the moment. And thus, movement appears in the client’s system towards solving the problem.
Arrangements are performed primarily with the participation of a group of so-called deputies, but over time this method began to be used in an individual format. In many cases this is more convenient than working in a group. For example, the arrangement can be done as soon as the need arises, rather than waiting. when the team gathers, or in the case where the client does not want to bring his story to group work. Out-of-town clients who come for a few days often ask for individual arrangements. They are performed with figures, objects, floor anchors (the so-called sheets of paper laid out on the floor) and even in the imagination.
In individual arrangements with figures and objects, Simbolon can be a help when movement in the system stops. The client is invited to take out the card and examine it carefully. It is useful to ask which character on the card he associates himself with, what feelings, emotions, memories, associations arise. Conversation, as a rule. can be emotionally and energetically very charged. If necessary, you can get an additional card. Its meanings are not interpreted. It is important that the client emotionally experiences this point. After emotional release, movement appears in the system, and the arrangement moves on or ends.
The Simbolon prick can also be used as an independent tool for arrangement. As practice shows, many of her cards indicate intertwining in the family system. This is Fear. A vampire. Puppet, Parting, Abortion, Misfortune, Widow, Fall, Burden, Binding, Pisces circle cards and others.
Usually in this arrangement I use a certain algorithm. First, the client is invited to take out cards - significators of the main characters, that is, those whom we would place as deputies. It makes sense to write them down on a piece of paper or remember them if there are not many of them, but not show them to the person. Then you need to ask the client to take out several additional cards indicating the relationships between these people in the system (their number can be determined intuitively by the consultant). They also remain closed at the nervous stage (this is done so that projective perception does not immediately turn on, which can interfere with further work). The client places the cards face down on the field and moves them with his hands without opening them as long as there is movement in the system. Then he opens the cards, looks at them, as a rule, some reactions, emotions, judgments arise, but the person still does not know which card represents whom. Then there is movement again, the client moves the already open cards across the field, and only when it is completed, the consultant tells which card represents whom or what. As a rule, this is followed by another surge of emotions, reactions, and awareness begins. Simbolon cards are very expressive, and people vividly associate them with members of the system; the proximity of the cards, the figures themselves, how they are located, who is looking at whom, who is moving where, etc. are of great importance to clients. Here the arrangement can be completed, although sometimes additional work with the client is required.
Example
The client is a woman, 37 years old, married for the second time. They lived in their second marriage for less than a year, quarrels began, and there was an intention to separate. They don’t want to get a divorce yet, but they can’t live together either. The woman complains of unbearable feelings of abandonment and melancholy that arise periodically for no apparent reason.
The client's request is to understand her own feelings in order to make a decision about divorce.
She was asked to take 5 cards one by one from a full deck and place them face down on the field (a small table). The first card is her significator, the second is her husband’s significator, the third, fourth, fifth - what has not been lived between them still connects them and does not allow them to divorce. As was said, after writing down the cards, I did not show them to the client. As a result, there were 5 cards face down in the field in front of her, and she did not yet know what they could mean.
The client took out the following cards:
Her significator is the Golden Girl.
Significator of husband - Malicious disturber of order.
Not lived, connects them - Strategist, Binding, Pythia.
I suggested that the woman slowly shift the cards without opening them, in this way and for so long, until the movement (shifting, searching for a place on the field) stops by itself and she feels satisfied. The client laid out all 5 cards in a row, after which I asked to select and turn the cards face up one by one (let me remind you: she still doesn’t know the meanings of the cards).
She turned up the card, Malicious Disturber, first, and her reaction was to cry, “How terrible!” She put it aside at the far end of the field. The Golden Girl was next: “It’s calm here, I like everything.” She was placed in the opposite corner of the field. The third card - Pythia - lay near the Golden Girl, closer to the center of the field. The fourth - Strategist - is near the previous one, even closer to the center. On the fifth card - Binding - the client said: “This is not mine” - and put it aside, closer to the Malignant troublemaker.
When the cards were revealed, the client slowly and for a long time shifted them until she arranged them in the following order: Strategist. Pythia. Golden Girl, Empty Field, Binding, Malicious Troublemaker. Then the woman thought and moved the last two cards up the field. In the vacated space, she wanted to take out an additional card, the sixth on the field. It turned out to be Discord, which the client placed under Malicious Disturber. Then she took out another card, the seventh - the Servant. The woman placed her below Discord under the Malevolent Disturber, and Discord himself was pushed to the far empty corner of the field. Then she looked at the Snap and the Malevolent Troublemaker for a while and admitted that she felt afraid. As an answer to the question, what kind of fear is this, she took out another card, the eighth - Attack.
So, the following arrangement of cards appeared on the field:
The client was happy with this arrangement of cards. Thus, without knowing for sure what or who the cards represent, intuitively shuffling them on the table, a person finds a certain configuration that suits him. In this example, the woman quite clearly separated her husband’s significator from her own. And only after that I briefly told her the meanings (who and what the cards meant) and the meanings of the images.
The woman decided to postpone the (formal) divorce for several months, although in fact she and her husband already live separately, but they are forced to continue communicating during meetings, since they work in the same organization.
Two cards remained unclear to her - Binding and Misfortune. The latter even caused a feeling of fear in the client. When I invited her to find the place in the body where this fear is located, it turned out that it was concentrated in the solar plexus. I invited her to breathe into this place, imagining that the golden light was entering the “place of fear” along with her breath.
After two or three minutes, the client said that she had an acute feeling of uselessness at the moment when her husband switches attention from her to his students, to the outside world, and leaves on business. And then she suffers a lot, gets angry, irritated, quarrels with him. After a few more minutes of breathing into the “place of fear,” she remembered: “Grandfather often went to a sanatorium, then somewhere on vacation, but he never took his grandmother with him, and she stayed at home with us.”
This is an important point. On the one hand, the client came into contact with a feeling of uselessness and lived with it for some time, on the other hand, she saw a similar situation: her grandfather went on vacation alone, did not invite her grandmother with him, and her husband goes and does not take her with him. In such a situation, both the grandmother and the granddaughter have an acute feeling of uselessness. The granddaughter’s fear of being left alone and being unwanted is unbearably acute, also because she has unconsciously adopted some of her grandmother’s feelings. We then completed the arrangement accordingly.
Two weeks later, at the next session, the client said that when meeting with her husband, it was much easier for her to talk to him, and her emotional reactions became calmer, she decided to divorce. Three months later, the couple divorced peacefully.
Systemic constellations according to Hellinger (or simply “constellations”) are short-term psychotherapy. To solve a problem, a person does not need to go to a psychotherapist for months or years. Everything that is needed to solve the problem happens during one arrangement in one and a half to two hours. This is a huge advantage of the method. The arrangement quickly gets into such deep layers of the subconscious, where ordinary psychology makes its way for years or never makes its way.
But the processes themselves, triggered by the arrangement, of course, take much longer than an hour and a half. And you need to understand how to live these processes correctly.
What is written below partly explains what is happening in the constellations and helps to understand it in your soul and in your head. But these are not absolute axioms, not mathematics and physics. These are subtle matters, sometimes even difficult to describe in words. Other constellations may work from a different picture of the world, they may have a different vision of processes. They may give different explanations and recommend completely different things. Please keep this in mind.
So, what does a person who wants to do an arrangement need to know?
Constellations are, first and foremost, field practice. Everything that happens in formations happens on the field and through interaction with the field. It is called differently - the information field of the Earth, energy-informational, morphic, morphogenetic, noosphere, etc. The essence does not change.
This field has many properties known and unknown to us. One of the key ones is that there is no time for the field. Everything in it is happening right now.
After the arrangements, wet napkins are left, stained with the tears of long-dead people. We can go to the maternity hospital, where our client’s mother is giving birth to our client right now. A captured Soviet soldier right now in front of us is trying to escape from a German concentration camp, and an adult woman in her arrangement meets herself, a two-year-old girl who is crying right now because she is being sent to her grandmother.
This fact must be taken into account when making your own arrangement.
Strong (emotionally rich) events in the subtle world are smeared (duplicated, resonate) at other points in space-time. Waves radiate from them into the past and future, like ripples on water. And it can help us a lot if we consider the arrangement not only the hour and a half that it physically takes place in the group, but a larger time interval.
Several times I saw future arrangements in my dreams, without knowing anything about the requests or the clients themselves. I performed constellations in a dream, and then repeated exactly the same thing in real life. That is, in some spheres of existence the process has already occurred, and the result is known long before the physical event itself.
In general, everything has already happened, but not everything has happened yet.
Before arrangement
When does the arrangement begin?
Apparently, it begins the moment the client signs up for the arrangement. From a phone call to me or the group organizer. At this moment, the energetic connection between therapist and client is established for the first time. Their interaction begins on the subtle plane. Processes related to the client’s intention to solve their problem are launched in the field.
From this moment on, you need to pay attention to possible manifestations in the surrounding space of signs that may relate to the future arrangement.
Mom suddenly remembered and told some family story. A distant relative called, about whom everyone had already forgotten. The ex showed up, it was unclear what he wanted. An old photograph was found that had fallen out of a family album behind a closet. We were throwing out garbage from the mezzanine, and I found my old medical card from the children's clinic, and read that, it turns out, this is what happened to me as a child, but I didn’t even know. The night before the arrangement I had such a strange dream. And so on...
Space can manifest some things, and it would be good to notice them.
I am not calling for you to start looking for mysticism in everything and hear the voice of the Lord in every phone call. It is not at all necessary that something will happen at all, and if it does, then healthy skepticism will not hurt here either.
But I know for sure that such things happen. I have a lot of experience and serious statistics that cannot be ignored.
So just be in the flow and pay attention to the clues of the universe. Remember your dreams, pay attention to the signs. And if it is important for your soul to convey some information to you, it will find a way to do it.
During the arrangement
All the client needs during the arrangement is to be conscious and in contact with what is happening. To understand that everything that happens is safe, everything is done for him, and all the people in this room are here now to help him.
Of course, you need to trust both the therapist and what is happening.
Since a person is sitting in the client’s chair, it means that there is already trust in the therapist.
There will also be trust in the group. I always state the confidentiality rule before starting. Nothing we learn in a group can be taken outside of the group. No stories can be discussed with anyone, ever. Everything that happened in this room will forever remain in this room.
If you came with a relative or friend, but do not want his presence at your arrangement, we will ask him to leave while you work.
We must also remember that becoming a client does not mean going to be shot. It's just a desire to finally solve your problem. No one can or will force you to do anything. You can ask to stop the arrangement at any time if you have had enough. Or if the process goes where you don't want to go. Or for any other reasons. You need to tell this to me, I will give, if necessary, time for some movements to pass, for some energies to pass through, and I will complete the arrangement in a safe place.
After arrangement
Just as the constellation sometimes begins long before everyone has gathered for the constellation group, so it can end long after its physical end in the hall.
I will describe the most common options for what can happen after the arrangement. And some general recommendations on what to do about it.
For example, as a result of the arrangement, you gain access to a huge amount of energy. They opened your birth canal, removed someone else's burden, took you out of the intertwinement with someone else's fate, etc.
You come home with a sea of energy that you haven’t had for a long time (or rather, never at all).
Using this energy, you can accomplish useful things for which you previously lacked it. Launch a project, learn to draw, make renovations, fall in love...
This state will not last forever; most likely, you will gradually return to your standard energy level. There will remain a feeling of belonging, a feeling of peace, of completion of something.
Be prepared for the fact that people around you will appear who want to “eat” this energy. Relatives, friends, passengers on public transport and colleagues at work - all these people were created by the Lord so that we do not have too much energy. Therefore, do not delay with your plans and tasks - do them quickly... this state will not last long. However, if you are a generous soul, share this energy, but mainly with your loved ones and loved ones... unless you want to save and make the whole World happy.
The opposite effect may occur. You don’t want to go anywhere, you have no energy, you just want to lie on the couch, not see anyone, sleep or watch stupid TV shows.
This is also very good, it means that the energy from the arrangement went not outward, but inward. It will be used for internal transformations. Changing the deep energy and mental structures of a person is sometimes an energy-consuming process, and it would be good to give them the opportunity to go through gently and environmentally.
This state will also not last long. This is the state of a caterpillar that has pupated before becoming a butterfly. Important processes are taking place under the outer shell, help them, try not to interrupt them. Pupate, dedicate a week to yourself, get some sleep, don’t answer the phone, don’t go to parties.
Also be prepared for the fact that relatives and friends will make efforts to pull you out of this. Take care of yourself, let the processes complete.
After the arrangement there may be an unstable emotional state. You will want to cry or laugh out of the blue, feelings and memories will come flooding back. Constellations work with repressed and blocked emotions and feelings, unpack them and bring them out. Quite deep layers arise, and not everything can be fully experienced and completed in an hour and a half of arrangement. Something will emerge and be lived out after it. Be prepared for it, be in touch with it, allow the feelings and emotions to manifest and pass.
Arrangement of internal parts
If in the constellation we worked with personal history, with your personal trauma, then as a result you will gain access to your lost, cut off parts. You will connect with your subpersonality that was split off in the distant past and with everything that was in it.
These are not always easy processes. Together with her, you will connect with memories, qualities, states, and energies that you have long forgotten about, and perhaps did not even know about. You will connect with yourself, the one you have long lost.
I have received feedback several times from clients that they have received a new body in the constellation. This may not be so literal, but with serious work with deep psychotrauma, the elimination of a deep intrapersonal split can really feel like receiving a new, young body.
Integrating all this takes time. Internally, speak more often to the part of yourself that we found in the arrangement, communicate with it. Ask what she wants and give it to her.
For example, lost child parts want some childhood joys. Go on rides, eat ice cream, feed the ducks, play with other children. Go there, take your inner child for a walk.
The adult parts may want some adult joys that they were deprived of. If possible, give them what they ask for.
Try to establish contact with this newfound part of yourself and promise it that you will never leave it again. Make friends with her.
Gradually, before your inner gaze, she will cease to be a separate person. It will merge with you, integrate, the split will completely disappear, and you will become whole.
Here you can also access energy. But this will no longer be a channel and flow, not a generic one, but your personal energy, which has been blocked for many years. It may feel different. This new energy may cause body overstrain, fever, trembling, aches, or something else. Help the body integrate and process this energy package. Yoga, massage, exercise, sauna, swimming and other bodily things will help here.
Disposition of the disease or symptoms
There are no exact diagrams of what and how will happen to your symptom. We work with the subconscious, with the soul, and we do not know exactly what path the healing will take. There are several basic options.
- Everything goes away on its own. They were just symptoms in the body, like headaches. Your symptom was associated with some kind of energy, emotion, feeling (yours or not yours) that somehow ended up in your body. In the arrangement, either this energy is simply discharged, or there is an owner to whom it actually belongs. The body thus manifested what lived in it.
In these cases, symptoms usually disappear immediately after placement. They were caused by energy constructs present in the body. If we cleanly remove them, the disease disappears instantly.
One day a girl came to my group, straight from the hospital, where she was suffering from sinusitis and complications from it. The next day she was scheduled for surgery to drill into her skull and pump something out. She wanted to have time to do the arrangement so that she could increase the likelihood of a good outcome of the operation. After the arrangement, all her symptoms immediately disappeared, her sinusitis went away by the evening of the same day, she never returned to the hospital, and asked her mother to go pick up her things.
- We need to help the body. In the arrangement, we removed the cause that caused this disease. As long as there is a subconscious cause of the disease, psychosomatics, it cannot be cured. Disease is the tip of the iceberg, a small part of a big story. The soul will stand guard and make sure that the illness remains - this is a reminder of something important. In the constellation we work with the large, underwater part of the iceberg. If the causes are removed, then the disease has no basis, the body recovers itself. Or the disease has already been successfully treated using standard methods.
Now you just need to help your body recover. Maybe take some vitamins, homeopathy, something else. Maybe those medications that didn’t work will now work well and cure everything.
We have changed the configuration of the field, now something can happen in your life, you will see some opportunity, a new way, you will find a person, a doctor, a healer who will cure it for you.
I had a client with chronic gynecological problems that no doctors or medications could cure for 15 years. They made arrangements for her. I met her by chance in the city a couple of months later.
“How,” I ask, “are things going? Did the arrangement help?”
“No,” he answers, “your arrangements don’t work.”
“It’s a pity,” I say. “So the problems remain?”
"No, it's all gone."
“How is that possible,” I ask. “Tell me they don’t work.”
“Yes,” he answers, “the arrangement did not work. But after the arrangement I went to the dacha, there I talked with a neighbor, and she recommended me to a grandmother-herbalist who also lives in our village. She cured everything for me with herbs.”
Both she, the neighbor, and the herbalist grandmother lived in the same village for all these 15 years, but this opportunity simply did not exist in the field. The arrangements change the field, and the field changes our lives.
- Something happens to the symptom, but it does not disappear. Perhaps the manifestations of the disease decrease, become weaker, but do not completely go away. Maybe, on the contrary, everything is getting dramatically worse. Just like when a disease is transferred from a chronic form to an acute form in order to cure it - this is how, for example, homeopathy works. In general, you see changes that are clearly related to the arrangement. This confirms that the disease is exactly related to what we saw in the constellation, we have changed something, something is happening to the disease, but the symptoms do not completely go away.
This may be the same as in the second option - you need to help the body. Maybe there are some other reasons; several stories were tied to this disease, not only the one we removed from the arrangement. The body shows that we are on the right path, we are digging there, but not everything is done yet.
- Nothing happens. This happens with serious illnesses that significantly ruin your life. This may be an indicator that we are dealing with a systemic disease, under which there are many things, difficult generic or karmic stories. All of this can and should be worked on further, but it would be good to understand that if this is some serious, basic problem in your life, then it may not be solved quickly.
Transfer of resource from clan, resource arrangements
This is a separate topic. When in the constellation we come to the conclusion that the client’s problem arose due to the fact that some important resource was not passed down from the family to those currently living. We figure out why this happened, unravel all the confusion, complete the unfinished, and allow the ancestors to pass on what they want to pass on. In the form of a ritual, the souls of the ancestors convey something to the client.
The girl came to the arrangement with a request - "Where is my life, where is my destiny?". She didn't feel like she was living her life. In the arrangement, we came across her grandmother, who carries something important, a resource of the family. This is vitally important to pass on. In life, my grandmother has been seriously ill for a long time, all relatives have the feeling that she wants, but cannot, leave. In the constellation, we do a ritual, and the grandmother, with relief, transfers to the client something that she calls “magical abilities.” And says: "That's it, now I can leave". The arrangement field has calmed down, everything is in harmony.
The grandmother dies next week, the client remains the youngest woman in the family to possess this “something”.
Thus, ancestors pass on to their descendants abilities, knowledge, vitality, energy, and indeed any resource from the family. In arrangement it looks very beautiful and mystical. The client leaves happy and calls back two weeks later with the question: "What now?".
Honestly, I don’t know. Maybe you still need to do something in life. Go study, train. What didn't work before will work now. What there was no ability for, now there will be. What was hard will now be easier. Maybe you still need to receive some kind of dedications, initiations in the real world. Maybe in some practices, meditations, try to tune in to what is transmitted. Maybe it will reveal itself in a few years. Maybe this will never be revealed, it must be passed on and will be revealed in future generations.
In the constellation, such processes are clearly assessed as correct by all those present. Anyone who goes to formations knows that in the field it is very difficult to do something wrong, to pass to the wrong place, to the wrong person, or to the wrong thing. But we are dealing with things the meaning of which we cannot always comprehend. So we can only help what needs to happen to happen, and then just watch.
In conclusion
As a rule, these are simple ritual actions - light a candle, plant flowers, go to a relative’s cemetery, buy a toy, visit church, talk to your child, and the like. Then it is highly advisable to follow these recommendations.
Sometimes after the arrangement you don’t need to do anything - everything is completely completed and closed in the process. Then just put its result in your heart and continue to live an ordinary life.
Watch your dreams - they may contain additional puzzles to the overall picture. They can complement or clarify some aspects of the arrangement.
Mom or grandmother will suddenly remember and tell you something from family history - usually something that relates to the constellation and that will confirm to you the correctness of what happened in it. We have dug a hole in the information field - information pops up, and people related to it can unknowingly catch it.
Relatives, old acquaintances, current and former partners may become more active. Communicate with them based on the new reality that was created in the constellation.
Maybe tell them something that couldn't be said before. Give thanks. Clarify something. Let them go if they need to be released from life. Accept them if they need to be accepted. Talk, admit what’s important.
It's likely that something couldn't be said or heard before, when there were complex dynamics that prevented you from communicating normally. Once they are taken in the arrangement, nothing will interfere with your communication.
We complete in the arrangement what can be completed in it. Maybe complete in life what needs to be completed in life.
After the arrangement, something unnecessary will leave your life. And something new will come. Not necessarily right away, and certainly not necessarily in the way you think or expect.
Everything in the world has inertia. Our feelings, our thoughts, our consciousness too. And the physical world itself around us, our lives, are reluctant to change the well-trodden rut. If they have been moving in one direction for many years and decades, then it may take time to completely stop and change course.
- Important!
Don't tell anyone about your arrangement. Treat it as an intimate, mystical process (which, in fact, it is). During the arrangement, we take some important story out of our soul. We watch it and complete something in it. Then put it back into your soul and into your heart. Let the energy of the arrangement go inside, to heal mental wounds, and not to talk.
Do not tell about your arrangement to those people with whom you were involved in it. Mom, husband, child, ex. You can (and should) say some important things that you understood after the arrangement. Awareness, recognition. Change something in the relationship that the constellation showed. You can do what is important to do after the arrangement, talk, admit. Just don't tell me the process itself. Leave the arrangement inside - then it will remain powerful.
Sometimes the arrangement works like magic and magic, and after the arrangement the person immediately wakes up in a new reality. Sometimes transformation processes, inside and outside, take some time.
In constellations, we are dealing with subtle things, sometimes with such mysterious areas of the human soul that it is impossible to make any exact guarantees or forecasts. Many processes in our soul will forever remain a mystery to us.
But one thing is certain. Our physical world is a manifestation of the subtle world. Everything first happens in the subtle world, in the energy-information field, and then manifests itself here. As above, so below.
And the new reality created in the constellation field will definitely manifest itself here in your life. There is no other way.
There are no arrangements that did not work. But sometimes they don’t work the way we expected.
Just keep your eyes and heart open and allow what needs to happen to happen.